Just The Way I Am
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Dolly Parton)

If you hear me crying in the night
Pretend that you don't hear me it's alright
Don't ask me why I'm crying, please don't make a sound
I don't know why, it's just the way I am
And if you think I act a little strange
And you don't understand when I do things
Like running through the fields while the rain is pouring down
I don't know why, it's just the way I am

And even though you may not understand me
I hope that you'll accept me like I am
For there are many sides of me, my mind and spirit must be free
And I might smile when other folks would frown
I don't know why, it's just the way I am

I might go out chasing butterflies
And if I fail to catch one I might cry
And if you want me you might find me in the meadow walking 'round
I don't know why, it's just the way I am

I might be home and busy cleaning house
And in the middle of my work I might go out
And go play games with children at the playground
It makes me happy, and that's just the way I am

And even though you may not understand me
I hope that you'll accept me like I am
For there are childish sides of me
My mind and spirit must be free




I might smile when you think I should frown
I don't know why, it's just the way I am

Overall Meaning

In "Just The Way I Am," Dolly Parton sings about being unapologetically herself, and not being understood by everyone around her. The opening verse sets the tone for the rest of the song as she sings about crying in the night, but wanting others to pretend they don't hear her instead of questioning her about it. She doesn't even know why she gets like that, but she wants others to accept her the way she is. The same goes for her quirks and idiosyncrasies that may seem strange to others, like running through the fields during a rainstorm or chasing butterflies, and even abruptly leaving housework to play games with children. She just wants to be accepted for the many sides of her spirit and mind, even if they seem childish or unusual.


What Dolly is expressing in this song is the importance of self-acceptance, and the power it has to help you live a happier and more fulfilling life. Her call to action for others to accept her as she is shows how much she values being true to herself, even if that means not always fitting in with the crowd. The honest vulnerability of her lyrics, combined with the catchy melody and upbeat rhythm make "Just The Way I Am" a classic example of Dolly Parton's signature brand of country music.


Line by Line Meaning

If you hear me crying in the night
If I happen to cry during the night


Pretend that you don't hear me it's alright
Don't let me know that you hear me cry


Don't ask me why I'm crying, please don't make a sound
Don't question me as to the reason I'm crying, and don't make any noise


I don't know why, it's just the way I am
I don't have an answer as to why I cry, but it's just part of my character


And if you think I act a little strange
If you think I'm behaving in an unusual way


And you don't understand when I do things
And if you don't comprehend when I engage in certain activities or actions


Like running through the fields while the rain is pouring down
Such as sprinting through the fields whilst it's raining heavily


I don't know why, it's just the way I am
I don't have a reason, but that's just who I am


And even though you may not understand me
Even if you don't quite get me


I hope that you'll accept me like I am
I wish that you'll embrace me as I am


For there are many sides of me, my mind and spirit must be free
Because there are numerous facets to my personality and I need to have liberty of thought and spirit


And I might smile when other folks would frown
I may smile when others would frown due to a particular situation or circumstance


I don't know why, it's just the way I am
I don't have an explanation, but it's just who I am


I might go out chasing butterflies
I could be pursuing butterflies outside


And if I fail to catch one I might cry
And if I don't manage to catch one, I may shed some tears


And if you want me you might find me in the meadow walking 'round
If you're looking for me, I could be walking around in the meadow


I don't know why, it's just the way I am
I don't have a justification, but that's just part of my personality


I might be home and busy cleaning house
I could be at home tidying up


And in the middle of my work I might go out
But in the middle of my chore, I may end up going out for a bit


And go play games with children at the playground
And participate in games with kids at the playground


It makes me happy, and that's just the way I am
It brings me joy, and that's just how I'm wired


And even though you may not understand me
Even if you don't quite fathom me


I hope that you'll accept me like I am
I wish that you'll embrace me as I am


For there are childish sides of me
Because there are childlike aspects to my character


My mind and spirit must be free
I need to have the ability to think and feel freely


I might smile when you think I should frown
I may show happiness when you would normally expect sadness or anger


I don't know why, it's just the way I am
I don't have an explanation, it's just part of what makes me who I am




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

Jennie Anderson


Always will love you Dolly.. A great inspiration to all!!

ThinkCareShare

I love this song so much and everything it means... it makes me cry :)

Pablo Vicens Hernandez

One of the many sweet songs she ever sang l♡ve it.

Ly Dia

I believe every word... I want to Live just like this. My mind and spirit must be free

Hotoli Kinimi

I always love Dolly right from my childhood. I love this song. My daughter and i dance and act this song .

Stanley Buliba

l remember my dad who loved country music

Ron Patrizzi

what a boring world it would be if we are all the same every body got some vices

jan meijer

Dolly is good

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