Love And Learn
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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That's the way love is you have to love and learn
I've lost again but can't I win these tears that I cried make my eyes burn
Each new love I'd find turns out to deepen the wrong time
And it looks like I'll just have to love and learn
Love and learn just hurt and yearn for someone who will love me in return
I'll be hurt many times before the right one I find
But that's the way love is you have to love and learn
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Love and learn...




Yes that's the way love is you have to love and learn

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Dolly Parton's song "Love And Learn" touch on the reality of love - that it often involves pain and heartbreak before finding the right person. The opening line, "That's the way love is, you have to love and learn," sets the tone for the rest of the song. Despite losing again and again, the singer refuses to give up on love. She acknowledges the tears that she's cried and the pain that she's felt, but she's unwilling to give up on the possibility of finding someone who will love her in return.


The line "Each new love I'd find turns out to deepen the wrong time" suggests that the singer is not just unlucky in love, but also that she's prone to choosing the wrong people at the wrong time. This is a common theme in love songs, but Parton's simple and honest lyrics give the sentiment a new and poignant weight. The chorus reminds the listener that finding the right person often involves being hurt many times, and that learning from these experiences is an essential part of the process.


Overall, "Love And Learn" is a thoughtful meditation on the nature of love and the challenges that come with seeking it out. It's a message of hope and resilience, and one that will resonate with anyone who has struggled with matters of the heart.


Line by Line Meaning

That's the way love is you have to love and learn
Love is like an ever-changing journey; one must experience it in order to understand it.


I've lost again but can't I win these tears that I cried make my eyes burn
I've suffered heartbreak again, and although it hurts, I can't give up on finding love.


Each new love I'd find turns out to deepen the wrong time
Every relationship I enter seems to go well at first, but eventually we realize it's not the right time for us.


And it looks like I'll just have to love and learn
Despite my history of heartbreak, I have to keep trying and learning from my experiences.


Love and learn just hurt and yearn for someone who will love me in return
Learning about love can be painful, but I yearn for someone who will love me back in the way I deserve.


I'll be hurt many times before the right one I find
I understand that I will undoubtedly experience heartbreak before I find the person who is right for me.


But that's the way love is you have to love and learn
Love is full of challenges, but we must embrace them and learn from them in order to find true happiness.


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Instrumental music break


Love and learn...
The phrase 'love and learn' is repeated to emphasize its importance in understanding and experiencing love.


Yes that's the way love is you have to love and learn
The song concludes with a reminder that love is never easy, but we must continue to love and learn in order to find our true soulmate.




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Written by: BILL OWENS

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