Just Because I
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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I can see you're disappointed
By the way you look at me
And I'm sorry that I'm not
The woman you thought I'd be
Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

So when you look at me
Don't feel sorry for yourself
Just think of all the shame
You might have brought somebody else

Just let me tell you this
Then we'll both know where we stand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

Now a man will take a good girl
And he'll ruin her reputation
But when he wants to marry
Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her
To do the best she can
While he looks for an angel
To wear his wedding band

Now I know that I'm no angel
If that's what you thought you'd found
I was just the victim of
A man that let me down

Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman





No, my mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

Overall Meaning

This song, "Just Because I'm a Woman" by Dolly Parton, addresses the double standard that women face in society. The first verse has the singer noticing that the person she's singing to is disappointed in her, likely because she's made mistakes. However, she challenges this disappointment by stating that her mistakes are no worse than the person's she's singing to. She then repeats the phrase "just because I'm a woman" multiple times to emphasize that women shouldn't be treated differently because of their gender. In the second verse, the singer brings up the societal expectation that women should be pure until marriage, and how men often ruin this expectation but are still respected as long as they eventually settle down. The third verse clarifies that while the singer may not be an angel, she's still deserving of respect and shouldn't be judged more harshly because of her gender.


The song is not only a feminist anthem but also a commentary on the judgmental nature of society. It highlights the double standards and hypocrisy that women face from men and society as they are held to different standards than their male counterparts. It encourages women to stand up for themselves and refuse to be held to societal expectations that aren't fair.


Line by Line Meaning

I can see you're disappointed
I can tell that you're unhappy


By the way you look at me
Based on your expression


And I'm sorry that I'm not
I regret not being


The woman you thought I'd be
The person you imagined


Yes, I've made my mistakes
I have errors to my name


But listen and understand
Pay heed and interpret


My mistakes are no worse than yours
The things I've done are not graver than yours


Just because I'm a woman
Just based on my gender


So when you look at me
When you gaze at me


Don't feel sorry for yourself
Abstain from self-pity


Just think of all the shame
Consider the disgrace


You might have brought somebody else
That you might have caused for someone else


Just let me tell you this
Allow me to say this


Then we'll both know where we stand
We'll both understand where we stand


Now a man will take a good girl
A man may entice a virtuous woman


And he'll ruin her reputation
And damage her good name


But when he wants to marry
But when he wants to wed


Well, that's a different situation
That calls for an exception


He'll just walk off and leave her
He'll disregard her and depart


To do the best she can
She'll have to manage on her own


While he looks for an angel
Meanwhile he'll search for a perfect woman


To wear his wedding band
To become his spouse


Now I know that I'm no angel
I am cognizant that I am not perfect


If that's what you thought you'd found
If that's what you believed you had discovered


I was just the victim of
I fell prey to


A man that let me down
A man that disappointed me


No, my mistakes are no worse than yours
My indiscretions aren't more serious than yours


Just because I'm a woman
Simply because of my gender




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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@latoya3872

[Verse 1]
I can see you're disappointed
By the way you look at me
And I'm sorry that I'm not
The woman you thought I'd be



[Verse 2]
Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman



[Verse 3]
So when you look at me
Don't feel sorry for yourself
Just think of all the shame
You might have brought somebody else
Just let me tell you this
Then we'll both know where we stand



[Bridge]
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

[Verse 4]
Now a man will take a good girl
And he'll ruin her reputation
But when he wants to marry
Well, that's a different situation




[Verse 5]
He'll just walk off and leave her
To do the best she can
While he looks for an angel
To wear his wedding band



[Verse 6]
Now I know that I'm no angel
If that's what you thought you'd found
I was just the victim of
A man that lets me down



[Outro]
No, my mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman



All comments from YouTube:

@JohnDonovanProductions

Who DOESN’T love Dolly? She’s so pure. So loving.

I love this quote: “I believe in rights for all people , Dolly says . " I think there are many women that are qualified for many jobs , and everybody should be paid well for what they're qualified to do think children and blacks and reds and all people should have an equal shot . I just think we're all God's children and should be treated with respect .”

@howardslicker1737

God bless you all thank you so very much..xoxoxo

@LeeBee1111

Pure and Free Spirited. <33 : )

@Thabo_Modisakeng

I guess the year is 2025 and we're still hooked on to this masterpiece.

@ayamusic7976

Yhoo she is too much❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭💎💎💎, who’s still here in 2023. The wild is crazy as hell but this kind of purity lives on…I wasn’t born when she released this music but hell ,this music takes me back and I don’t know where but it’s a place im find off❤️❤️. She is a living legend 🤞🏽

@ayamusic7976

Wild* world !!!

@LeeBee1111

"I've struggled enough in my life to be appreciated and understood. I've had to go against all kinds of people through the years just to be myself. I think everybody should be allowed to be who they are, and to love who they love. I don't think we should be judgmental. Lord, I've got enough problems of my own to pass judgment on somebody else."

Dolly Parton (Inspired by)

@nomaswazitshabalala1438

Same here hope I find a way to breakthrough and find myself because I'm hurting and unstable now

@LeeBee1111

@@nomaswazitshabalala1438 Today (7th) is tull moon... time of transition... everything seems crazy these days. Hope you're doing well.

@FreedomofSpeech865

This woman is a national treasure

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