My Hands Are Tied
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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To be with you is what I want more than anything
But I must share my life with the one who wears my ring
And there are tiny places I look into each night
I love you but my hands are tied
I know how much they need you and dear I understand
I know you'll never leave 'em cause you're not that kind of man
But I can't control my feelings though heaven knows I tried
And I love you but my hands are tied
My hands are tied and I can't break the ties that bind
I love you more than life but you never will be mine
I know how much you want me I can see it in your eyes
And I love you but my hands are tied
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My hands are tied...
Yes I love you but my hands are tied

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "My Hands Are Tied" by Dolly Parton and Porter Wagoner convey a sense of internal conflict and longing for a forbidden love. The singer expresses their strong desire to be with someone, likely addressing another person who is not their spouse. However, they acknowledge that they are bound by their commitment to their current partner, symbolized by the ring they wear.


The first paragraph reveals the depth of the singer's desire to be with the person they are addressing, emphasizing that being with them is their utmost wish. However, they regretfully admit that their life is already shared with someone else, causing them to feel conflicted. The line about looking into "tiny places" each night suggests that they frequently daydream about being with this individual despite the constraints they face.


The second paragraph shows the singer's sympathetic understanding of the person they desire. They recognize that this person is loyal and committed to their own family and would never abandon them. Despite comprehending this, the singer is unable to suppress their feelings, even though they have tried. This emphasizes the intensity of their emotions and the internal struggle they face in reconciling their desires with their commitment.


In the third paragraph, the singer explicitly states that their hands are tied, signifying their lack of control over the situation. The ties that bind may refer to both their commitment to their spouse as well as societal expectations and moral obligations. The singer acknowledges their deep love for the person they desire, comparing it to their love for life itself. However, they recognize that this love can never be fulfilled or pursued due to the restrictions they face.


The song concludes with a reiteration of the singer's love for the person they desire, despite the impossibility of their union. The repetition of the phrase "my hands are tied" throughout the song reinforces the helplessness and frustration felt by the singer. They long for this person yet accept that their circumstances prevent them from ever fully having them.


Overall, "My Hands Are Tied" captures the emotional struggle of forbidden love and the internal conflict faced by the singer. It explores themes of desire, commitment, and the inability to control one's feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

To be with you is what I want more than anything
I desire to be with you above all else


But I must share my life with the one who wears my ring
However, I am committed to my spouse who wears my wedding ring


And there are tiny places I look into each night
Every night, I find solace in small spaces as I reflect on my situation


I love you but my hands are tied
I do love you, but I am unable to act on my feelings


I know how much they need you and dear I understand
I am aware of how much my family relies on you, and I empathize


I know you'll never leave 'em cause you're not that kind of man
I am certain that you will never abandon them because you are a faithful and committed person


But I can't control my feelings though heaven knows I tried
Nevertheless, I am unable to suppress my emotions despite my attempts


And I love you but my hands are tied
I do love you, but external circumstances prevent us from being together


My hands are tied and I can't break the ties that bind
I am bound by obligations and cannot free myself from them


I love you more than life but you never will be mine
My love for you is immense, but we can never be together


I know how much you want me I can see it in your eyes
I understand your desire for me as it is evident in your eyes


And I love you but my hands are tied
I do love you, but external circumstances prevent us from being together


My hands are tied...
I am restricted and unable to take action


Yes I love you but my hands are tied
Even though I love you, I am unable to act on it




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Romy K.


on Gypsy Joe And Me

As a matter of fact she's contemplating suicide standing on the bridge, that's how they'll be together again.

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