Sticks and Stones
Donna Fargo Lyrics


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Sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart,
So if you carried on for me,
Think twice before you start.

To say something that you don't mean
Might drift us apart.
Well, sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart.

I've seen so many times before
Where lovers played a game.
A-foolish words they didn't mean
But they hurt all the same.
So many times they realized,
Too many times too late,
That only fools play such a game
And make such a mistake.

Oh, sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart,
So if you ever have to leave,
Speak quickly* as you part.
And when you go, just one last smile
And one last kind remark.
Well, sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart.

Yes, I've seen so many times before
Where lovers played a game.
A-foolish words they didn't mean
But they hurt all the same.
So many times they realized,
Too many times too late,
That only fools play such a game
And make such a mistake.

Oh sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart,
So if you ever have to leave,
Speak quickly* as you part.
And when you go, just one last smile
And one last kind remark.
Well, sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart.





Sticks and stones can break my bones
But words can break my heart.

Overall Meaning

Donna Fargo's song "Sticks and Stones" is an emotional ballad about the power of words and how they can hurt even more than physical violence. The chorus echoes the childhood saying, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me," but this song turns that saying on its head, emphasizing the lasting pain that can come from hurtful words.


The first verse warns the listener to think twice before speaking, as careless words can drive a wedge between two people. The second verse speaks from experience, describing how lovers can easily hurt each other with thoughtless words, only to realize the damage is irreparable when it's too late. The final verse implores anyone who must leave to do so with kindness, leaving a lasting positive memory instead of a hurtful one.


The song's melancholy but ultimately hopeful message resonated with listeners, and "Sticks and Stones" became a massive hit for Fargo in 1975, climbing to number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart.


Line by Line Meaning

Sticks and stones can break my bones
Physical harm can injure me.


But words can break my heart,
Emotional harm can wound me.


So if you carried on for me,
If you wish to continue our relationship,


Think twice before you start.
Consider the impact of your words carefully.


To say something that you don't mean
To utter words insincerely or without intent,


Might drift us apart.
May cause us to grow distant or estranged.


I've seen so many times before
Repeatedly witnessed such occurrences in the past.


Where lovers played a game.
In instances where those in a romantic relationship toyed with each other.


A-foolish words they didn't mean
Uttered ill-advised and without sincerity.


But they hurt all the same.
Nevertheless resulting in anguish and distress.


So many times they realized,
Eventually coming to acknowledge said mistakes.


Too many times too late,
Unfortunately, often long after the damage had been done.


That only fools play such a game
Recognizing that only imprudent people partake in such behavior.


And make such a mistake.
Erroneously causing harm through careless, thoughtless language.


Oh, sticks and stones can break my bones
Reiteration that while physical damage is painful, words can inflict similar suffering.


So if you ever have to leave,
If our time together may come to an end,


Speak quickly* as you part.
Part hurriedly and with few words in order to avoid potential harm.


And when you go, just one last smile
Please offer a gesture of kindness as a final farewell.


And one last kind remark.
Conclude our time together with a compassionate expression.


Well, sticks and stones can break my bones
Emphasize once more that while physical injuries are harmful, spoken words can be equally damaging.


But words can break my heart.
Elaborate that careless or hurtful language can result in deep emotional pain.


Sticks and stones can break my bones
Enforce once again that physical pain is real and can be caused by objects or actions.


But words can break my heart.
Reiterate that emotional pain from insensitive or harsh words can also be devastating.




Writer(s): Don Crawford

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Comments from YouTube:

ch58ds

One of my favorite songs by the great Miss Donna Fargo. This lady is one of the best, if not THE best songwriters to walk through the music industry.

Sylvia Hohner

Wonderfull song, I love it !

pfordsq

This was he first Country record I ever had , I think. My Brothers and I shared a box of 45s IN THE LATE 60'S - EARLY 70'S . SOMEHOW , THAT GOT IN THERE. I enjoyed it as a child , but hadn't heard it for years. I like it better , now. Thanks,.