If I'd Only Come And Gone
Dr. Hook Lyrics


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(Shel Silverstein)

If I'd only come and gone
The way I've always done with summer girls before
Shared one night with you and never reached for more
Then we wouldn't face this long and painful righting of the wrong
If I'd just come and gone
If I hadn't stayed so long
And merely parked my dusty boots outside your door
Tracked no footprints 'cross your polished hardwood floor
If I'd have left you in your doorway smilin' drowsily at the dawn
If I'd just come and gone

Then I'd be on a shinin' silver plane dippin' into Denver
Or a schooner blowin' down The Biscayne Bay
You'd be safely tucked away among the pleasure I'd remember
'Stead of lyin' here beside me fearin' restless thoughts inside me
That might awaken with the breakin' of each new day

If you'd only stopped to read
Cold hard words I carved on other bedroom walls
And heard the mornin' coffee truths I told 'em all
I'd still be on your lips like some unfinished half-remembered song
You'd never have loved me if I'd just come and gone

If I'd only come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
If I'd only come and gone





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Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "If I'd Only Come and Gone" by Dr. Hook, penned by the prolific songwriter Shel Silverstein, is a reflective piece on the regret of staying too long with someone, leading to a painful end. The singer addresses their lover, wishing they had just come and gone, like they always do with summer girls, resulting in just one night of passion and no emotional attachments to work out. However, their lingering presence caused footprints on the polished floor and created memories that will haunt them. The singer longs for a reality where they had left early, and their lover would remember them fondly, rather than the current state of restlessness and uncertain thoughts that they both harbor.


The nostalgia and regret in the lyrics of this song are palpable. The singer knows that they made a mistake by staying too long, and now they are left with the consequences. In the final verse, the singer mentions other bedroom walls with cold hard truths they left, indicating that this is a pattern with them. The song ends on an unresolved note with the singer repeating the phrase, "If I'd only come and gone," as if to convince themselves that they could have changed something if they had acted differently.


Line by Line Meaning

If I'd only come and gone
If I had only engaged with you briefly and then left, like I have done in the past with other temporary lovers.


The way I've always done with summer girls before
This is a typical method I use to engage with short term partners during the summer season.


Shared one night with you and never reached for more
I would have merely engaged in a brief sexual encounter and not tried to continue any sort of relationship.


Then we wouldn't face this long and painful righting of the wrong
We wouldn't be dealing with the difficulties and struggles of trying to make amends for the mistakes I have made in our relationship.


If I hadn't stayed so long
If I hadn't overstayed my welcome and instead left when I should have.


And merely parked my dusty boots outside your door
If I had just briefly visited and not made myself at home in your space.


Tracked no footprints 'cross your polished hardwood floor
I wouldn't have left my mark in your home and disrupted the cleanliness and orderliness of your space.


If I'd have left you in your doorway smilin' drowsily at the dawn
If I had left you content and happy, basking in the afterglow of our brief encounter.


If I'd just come and gone
If I had only left after a brief encounter without overstaying my welcome.


Then I'd be on a shinin' silver plane dippin' into Denver
I would be off on my travels and adventures, free to do as I please without any commitment or responsibility.


Or a schooner blowin' down The Biscayne Bay
I could be sailing the open seas without any obligation or worry, enjoying the freedom and independence that comes with it.


You'd be safely tucked away among the pleasure I'd remember
You would be just another temporary lover among the many experiences and pleasures I have accumulated in my lifetime.


'Stead of lyin' here beside me fearin' restless thoughts inside me
Instead of lying here with me, worrying about my fickle and unpredictable nature, which could cause me to leave at any moment.


That might awaken with the breakin' of each new day
My uncertainty and fear of commitment might suddenly become apparent each new day, causing me to leave without warning or explanation.


If you'd only stopped to read
If only you had taken the time to consider the warning signs I left on the walls of other lovers' homes.


Cold hard words I carved on other bedroom walls
I have left messages behind for others to read, to forewarn them of the temporary nature of our encounters.


And heard the mornin' coffee truths I told 'em all
I have also shared my candid thoughts and intentions with others over coffee in the morning.


I'd still be on your lips like some unfinished half-remembered song
If you had only listened to the warning signs and not become involved with me, I would still be a distant memory, a regretful experience that you half-remember but never completely forgot.


You'd never have loved me if I'd just come and gone
If I had maintained my usual pattern of brief encounters and not overstayed my welcome, you never would have become emotionally invested in me.


If I'd only come and gone
If only I had followed my typical pattern of behavior, engaging in brief encounters and then moving on without attachment.


If I'd only come and gone
If only I had not disrupted our lives by overstaying my welcome and causing emotional turmoil and pain.


If I'd only come and gone
If only I had listened to the warning signs and not allowed myself to become emotionally entangled in a relationship I knew I could not fully commit to.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: SHEL SILVERSTEIN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Ronja´s Dr Hook Channel

Lyrics:
If I'd only come and gone
The way I've always done with summer girls before
Shared one night with you and never reached for more
Then we wouldn't face this long and painful righting of the wrong
If I'd just come and gone
If I hadn't stayed so long
And merely parked my dusty boots outside your door
Tracked no footprints 'cross your polished hardwood floor
If I'd have left you in your doorway smilin' drowsily at the dawn
If I'd just come and gone
Then I'd be on a shinin' silver plane dippin' into Denver
Or a schooner blowin' down The Biscayne Bay
You'd be safely tucked away among the pleasure I'd remember
'Stead of lyin' here beside me fearin' restless thoughts inside me
That might awaken with the breakin' of each new day
If you'd only stopped to read
Cold hard words I carved on other bedroom walls
And heard the mornin' coffee truths I told 'em all
I'd still be on your lips like some unfinished half-remembered song
You'd never have loved me if I'd just come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
Tro-Essex Music Ltd.



All comments from YouTube:

Ronja´s Dr Hook Channel

Lyrics:
If I'd only come and gone
The way I've always done with summer girls before
Shared one night with you and never reached for more
Then we wouldn't face this long and painful righting of the wrong
If I'd just come and gone
If I hadn't stayed so long
And merely parked my dusty boots outside your door
Tracked no footprints 'cross your polished hardwood floor
If I'd have left you in your doorway smilin' drowsily at the dawn
If I'd just come and gone
Then I'd be on a shinin' silver plane dippin' into Denver
Or a schooner blowin' down The Biscayne Bay
You'd be safely tucked away among the pleasure I'd remember
'Stead of lyin' here beside me fearin' restless thoughts inside me
That might awaken with the breakin' of each new day
If you'd only stopped to read
Cold hard words I carved on other bedroom walls
And heard the mornin' coffee truths I told 'em all
I'd still be on your lips like some unfinished half-remembered song
You'd never have loved me if I'd just come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
If I'd only come and gone
Tro-Essex Music Ltd.

Сергей Сироткин

Великолепно!

Sherry Robillard

I love that you are putting up the songs lyrics 🙏🏻❤️🇨🇦

Crystal Belle 2

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Sherry I hadn’t even caught that so thank you for pointing it out to the nearly blind woman. And thank you Ronja for posting the lyrics. That’s awesome! 👏 ✌️

Ana julia klem

Lindo amei vendo aqui no Brasil 😍❤💚💛💙

Crystal Belle 2

Thank you Ronja. I thought I had heard all of their songs, but I hadn’t heard this either. Very beautiful and too relatable.

Maybe we broke g+ haha! About as soon as I found you there, they turned out the lights and closed the door. Feel free to message me on here if the mood should ever arise. I didn’t go to another social network bc we still have YouTube.

Your uploads are always appreciated more than words can say. Have a great summer. ~<3~

Jon G

Shel was the greatest song writer ever...

Alternative Perception

Love it . Never heard it before THANKS Ronja 👍👍✌

AgTigress

One of my favourites. Thank you, Ronja.

Moon Dancer

Nice song. I've never heard it before. Thanks Ronja!

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