Take It Or Leave It
Eddie & The Hot Rods Lyrics


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Well it seems I've had a lifetime filled with misery
I remember how it all began
The doctor grabbed my feet, slapped me on the cheek
That's what it takes to make a man
Even as a baby they were pinnin' things on me
Daddy called me mother's little lamb
But you should have seen 'em rave
When I gave the dog a shave
That's what it takes to make a man
They thought I was a genius, when I first went to school
Then I flunked my very first exam
And for all the books I've read
There' s just sawdust in my head
That's what it takes to make a man
Well I finally finished highschool, tried some college too
Then I did a hitch with Uncle Sam
I fought the enemy, sergeants I'll agree
That's what it takes to make a man
Well I went back to my hometown
Where the mayor was my friend
Said he knew a job that I could lend
Well I got that job alright
Cleaned the streets up every night
That's what it takes to make a man
Well I got a new position in a dry good store down town
Bought my gal a golden wedding band
But she up and fled the scene
When it turned her finger green




That's what it takes to make a man
Oh yeah, that's what it takes to make a man

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Eddie & The Hot Rods' song "Take It Or Leave It" tell the story of a person reflecting on their life experiences and the challenges they faced in becoming a man. The singer starts by reminiscing about his birth and the expectations placed on him from an early age. The mention of the doctor grabbing his feet and slapping him on the cheek symbolizes the harsh reality of life and the struggles one must go through to become a mature and successful individual.


Throughout the song, the singer recounts various moments where he tried to prove himself, only to face disappointment. From being called a genius when starting school to flunking his first exam, the lyrics suggest that despite his efforts, he wasn't able to meet societal expectations. The mention of having "sawdust in my head" implies a lack of intelligence or knowledge, further emphasizing his feelings of inadequacy.


The song then touches upon the singer's military service, where he fought for his country and gained the respect of his sergeants. This experience was likely seen as a defining moment in his journey towards manhood. However, upon returning to his hometown, he still struggled to find his place and ended up working as a street cleaner. Despite this seemingly menial job, the singer acknowledges that hard work is necessary to prove oneself as a man.


The final verse introduces a romantic relationship, where the singer bought his partner a golden wedding band. However, she leaves him when the ring turned her finger green. This event serves as a metaphor for the singer's repeated failures in establishing stable relationships and finding lasting happiness. In the end, the lyrics imply that the singer has come to accept that life is a series of challenges and disappointments, and that these experiences have shaped him into the man he is.


Line by Line Meaning

Well it seems I've had a lifetime filled with misery
Throughout my life, I have experienced continuous unhappiness and sorrow.


I remember how it all began
I recall the initial stages and events that shaped my life.


The doctor grabbed my feet, slapped me on the cheek
During my birth, the doctor firmly held my feet and delivered a gentle slap on my cheek.


That's what it takes to make a man
These experiences, even from infancy, are believed to build character and prepare one for manhood.


Even as a baby they were pinnin' things on me
Even during my infancy, people had expectations and assigned certain qualities and traits to me.


Daddy called me mother's little lamb
My father affectionately referred to me as a vulnerable and innocent child.


But you should have seen 'em rave
However, there was great enthusiasm and excitement when they witnessed my unconventional actions.


When I gave the dog a shave
One memorable instance was when I shaved the fur of our pet dog.


They thought I was a genius, when I first went to school
When I initially started attending school, people regarded me as exceptionally intelligent.


Then I flunked my very first exam
Unfortunately, I failed my very first examination.


And for all the books I've read
Despite reading numerous books and acquiring knowledge.


There's just sawdust in my head
My intellectual capacity seems to be lacking or insufficient.


Well I finally finished highschool, tried some college too
Eventually, I completed my high school education and even attempted to pursue higher education in college.


Then I did a hitch with Uncle Sam
Subsequently, I served a period of military service for my country.


I fought the enemy, sergeants I'll agree
During my time in the military, I engaged in combat with the enemy and adhered to the commands of my superior officers.


That's what it takes to make a man
These challenging experiences and military service are believed to be necessary for the development of manhood.


Well I went back to my hometown
Following my military service, I returned to my place of origin.


Where the mayor was my friend
In my hometown, I had a friendly relationship with the mayor.


Said he knew a job that I could lend
The mayor informed me about a job opportunity that I could take up.


Well I got that job alright
I successfully acquired that job as expected.


Cleaned the streets up every night
My responsibility in the job was to clean the streets during nighttime.


That's what it takes to make a man
Performing manual labor and fulfilling one's duties diligently is considered a part of the process of becoming a man.


Well I got a new position in a dry good store down town
Eventually, I obtained a different job position in a store that sold textiles and other dry goods, located in the downtown area.


Bought my gal a golden wedding band
With the income from my job, I purchased a valuable golden wedding ring for my significant other.


But she up and fled the scene
However, she suddenly and unexpectedly left without any explanation.


When it turned her finger green
The ring I bought caused a discoloration or irritation on her finger, leading to her departure.


That's what it takes to make a man
Experiences like heartbreak and disappointment are considered integral parts of the journey towards manhood.


Oh yeah, that's what it takes to make a man
Indeed, these trials and tribulations are crucial elements in shaping one's masculinity and maturity.




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Comments from YouTube:

BodsnVimto

I first came across this song on Revolver. I taped it with the mic up to the telly and me pushing the record and play buttons simultaneously.

Mauricio Garcia Mauk

From "Thriller" 1979. :)

Jaime Alejandro Rodríguez Muñoz

Hi

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