It Girl
Elle King Lyrics


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You know I hate to wait
So, I always put out on the first date
My reputation's great
Just ask any of my first dates

In middle school, I wasn't very cool
But slutty girls taught me the golden rule
To be a hit
It's all in the wrist
You could be the it, girl
If you use a little spit, girl

Just take this advice from me
You might be as popular as can be

You'll be the it girl
You'll be the shit girl
You'll be the hit, call girl
You'll be the it, girl
You'll be the shit, girl
Show us your tits

To be a tough girl
You gotta wrap it up girl
If it ain't enough girl
You can always nip it in the bud, girl

Momma's acting so innocent
Don't doubt it
When she was your age she was all about it

Boys are dicks
It hurts a little but it's quick
Just the tip girl (It's never just the tip, girl)

So, next time they talk some shit
All you gotta do is blow them a little kiss

Fuck it, blow him a little kiss
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Or you can show them your tits





I'm the shit, girl
You could be the shit, girl

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elle King's song "It Girl" are a bold and unapologetic exploration of female sexuality and empowerment. The singer begins by expressing her disdain for waiting, implying that she is not interested in playing games when it comes to relationships. She proudly states that she always puts out on the first date, which she believes has contributed to her great reputation among her past partners. The line "My reputation's great, just ask any of my first dates" suggests that she takes ownership of her sexual experiences and sees them as a source of pride.


The second verse delves into the singer's past experiences in middle school, where she admits she wasn't considered cool. However, she mentions that "slutty girls taught me the golden rule," indicating that she has learned from others who have embraced their sexuality without shame or judgment. The chorus emphasizes the notion that being the "it girl" is within everyone's reach, suggesting that confidence and a little playful experimentation can lead to popularity and empowerment.


The bridge of the song shifts the focus to the singer's mother, implying that she was also not unfamiliar with exploring her own sexuality during her youth. This serves to normalize and challenge any societal judgment regarding female sexual expression. The verse further highlights the singer's frank and humorous attitude towards sex, stating that boys can be selfish or disappointing partners, but ultimately encourages the audience to assert their power by either giving a flirty gesture or, cheekily, by revealing their breasts.


Overall, "It Girl" can be seen as a celebration of female sexual agency, encouraging women to embrace their desires and confidently navigate relationships on their own terms.


Line by Line Meaning

You know I hate to wait
I dislike waiting for things


So, I always put out on the first date
Therefore, I engage in sexual activity quickly in a relationship


My reputation's great
People have a positive opinion about me


Just ask any of my first dates
Feel free to inquire with my previous partners to confirm


In middle school, I wasn't very cool
During my time in middle school, I lacked popularity or social status


But slutty girls taught me the golden rule
However, promiscuous girls offered valuable guidance to me


To be a hit
To become popular or well-liked


It's all in the wrist
The key to success lies in one's skillful actions


You could be the it, girl
You have the potential to become the center of attention


If you use a little spit, girl
By utilizing charm or seduction techniques


Just take this advice from me
I recommend following my suggestions


You might be as popular as can be
You could achieve a high level of popularity


You'll be the it girl
You will become the person everyone wants to be


You'll be the shit girl
You will be exceptional or outstanding


You'll be the hit, call girl
Others will consistently seek your company


You'll be the it, girl
You will possess the qualities of an influencer or trendsetter


You'll be the shit, girl
You will be highly impressive or admirable


Show us your tits
Expose your breasts to gain attention or approval


To be a tough girl
To be perceived as strong or resilient


You gotta wrap it up girl
You must use protection during sexual encounters


If it ain't enough girl
If the situation is unsatisfactory


You can always nip it in the bud, girl
You can address the issue and resolve it quickly


Momma's acting so innocent
My mother pretends to be innocent


Don't doubt it
Do not question or hesitate


When she was your age she was all about it
During her youth, she was highly interested in such matters


Boys are dicks
Males can be unkind or insensitive


It hurts a little but it's quick
Although it may cause some discomfort, the experience is brief


Just the tip girl (It's never just the tip, girl)
Engaging in sexual activity without full penetration (which is often a lie)


So, next time they talk some shit
Therefore, when someone speaks negatively about you


All you gotta do is blow them a little kiss
Simply disregard their comments and respond with a small gesture of indifference


Fuck it, blow him a little kiss
Ignore the negative remarks and convey your lack of concern to that individual


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That action was neglected or omitted


Or you can show them your tits
Alternatively, you can expose your breasts to provoke a reaction


I'm the shit, girl
I possess exceptional qualities and abilities


You could be the shit, girl
You have the potential to become exceptional or impressive




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Cameron Neal, Dave Scalia, Jason Frederick, Jesse Gibbon, Joseph Mcclellan, Paul Dominick Devincenzo, Tanner Schneider

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