Old Friend
Elton John Lyrics


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I want to be good, I want to be strong,
But I treated him bad, I've done him wrong.

I've taken his money, I'm given him hell
And he takes it all cause he knows me well.

We can say what we mean and mean what we say
We don't like to mess around,
But we're there to hold each other up
When we're falling down.

Just like an old friend
Putting me on my feet again,
Giving me back my pride then
Letting me go.
Just like an old friend
Putting me in my place again,
Giving me back my hope then
Letting me know that he's an old friend

I don't suffer no fools, I testify
But he must be one for being by my side.
I've broken his heart,
I've shaken his tree
But still he doesn't want anything from a fool like me.

We won't talk for a year or two
Maybe when we do we won't say much.
Even so we know that out of mind is never out of touch.

We're having a man-to-man
Don't want to get sentimental





But both of us understand
We'll never have to say goodbye, just see you later.

Overall Meaning

In this song, Elton John is reflecting on a friendship that has withstood the test of time, through both good and bad times. He acknowledges that he hasn't always been a good friend, having mistreated and taken advantage of his friend in the past. However, his friend has always been there for him, no matter what. The bond between them is strong, and they have an unspoken understanding that allows them to be there for each other, even when they don't see or speak to each other for extended periods of time.


The lyrics suggest that their friendship is a source of strength and grounding for both of them. They don't have to put on airs or pretend to be something they're not with each other – they can say what they mean and mean what they say. They don't waste time on superficial conversation; instead, they're there to offer support and hold each other up when needed. In a world that can be superficial and untrustworthy, this kind of friendship is invaluable.


The song is a testament to the enduring power of friendship, even when it's not always easy or perfect. The bond between these two friends is built on a foundation of honesty, trust, and mutual respect, and it has stood the test of time. Even if they don't see each other as often as they used to, they know that they'll always be there for each other, and that's what really matters.


Line by Line Meaning

I want to be good, I want to be strong,
I have the desire to be a good and strong person.


But I treated him bad, I've done him wrong.
I have mistreated this person and hurt them in some way.


I've taken his money, I'm given him hell
I have taken advantage of this person for my own gain and given them a hard time.


And he takes it all cause he knows me well.
Despite my mistreatment, this person still puts up with me because they understand who I am.


We can say what we mean and mean what we say
We are honest and direct in our communication with each other.


We don't like to mess around,
We don't waste time or play games.


But we're there to hold each other up
We support and encourage each other.


When we're falling down.
Especially during tough times when we need it most.


Just like an old friend
Our bond is like that of long-time friends.


Putting me on my feet again,
Helping me stand back up and get back on track.


Giving me back my pride then
Restoring my confidence and self-respect.


Letting me go.
Allowing me to move forward on my own.


I don't suffer no fools, I testify
I have no tolerance for foolishness and I am very honest about it.


But he must be one for being by my side.
Despite my attitude, this person must be a fool to continue supporting me.


I've broken his heart,
I have hurt this person emotionally.


I've shaken his tree
I have caused problems and difficulties for this person.


But still he doesn't want anything from a fool like me.
This person doesn't expect anything in return from me, even though I have treated them poorly.


We won't talk for a year or two
We may go some time without communicating.


Maybe when we do we won't say much.
We may not have a lot to catch up on when we eventually talk again.


Even so we know that out of mind is never out of touch.
Despite not talking, we still have a strong connection and understanding of each other.


We're having a man-to-man
We are having a serious and honest conversation with each other.


Don't want to get sentimental
We don't want to get overly emotional.


But both of us understand
We both recognize and appreciate our friendship.


We'll never have to say goodbye, just see you later.
Our friendship will last a lifetime, even if we don't always stay in touch.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: NIK KERSHAW

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