The Wide-eyed and Laughing
Elton John Lyrics


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Are you still in control of the boat that you row
Or do you still cling to me when its sinking
I never condemned you, I only consoled you
When candlelight made me a King

For the wide-eyed and laughing
Passed like a season
Erasing a passion to sin
For no one knew better than the tealeaves and the tarots
That the wide-eyed and laughing
Were just one step ahead of the wind

And the hearts that you played on the porch swing for me
Was a song that I'd heard in the past
For I had an audience somewhere inside you
That applauded whenever you laughed

Gone is a word that I now rarely use
Though sometime in the course of a day




I go racing back like a man possessed
By the wide-eyed and laughing daughters of some different age

Overall Meaning

"The Wide-eyed and Laughing" by Elton John is a thought-provoking song that reflects on the nature of control and human relationships. The first stanza opens with a question that seeks to understand the extent of control that an individual has over their boat. The boat represents the individual's life journey, and the line "Or do you still cling to me when it's sinking?" suggests that the individual may rely on others during tough times. The persona in the song acknowledges that they have never judged the individual but have only comforted them. The reference to "candlelight made me a King" suggests that the persona found strength in comforting others.


The second stanza reflects on how time passes from the perspective of the "wide-eyed and laughing." The persona expresses that this season has erased the individual's passion for sin. The use of tarot and tealeaves alludes to the individual's attempts to understand the future. However, the "wide-eyed and laughing" were one step ahead of the wind. The third stanza references a song that the individual played on the porch swing for the persona. The persona indicates that the song was familiar to them, and they had an audience in the individual since they applauded whenever the individual laughed. The persona then reflects on how they rarely use the word "gone," but they are sometimes taken over by the memories of the "wide-eyed and laughing" daughters of a different age.


Line by Line Meaning

Are you still in control of the boat that you row
Do you still have control over your choices or are you relying on me to steer the ship?


Or do you still cling to me when its sinking
Do you seek my help only when things are going wrong?


I never condemned you, I only consoled you
I never judged you, I only gave you comfort and support.


When candlelight made me a King
My greatness and power were only temporary, like the flicker of a candle.


For the wide-eyed and laughing
Those who are innocent and carefree


Passed like a season
Came and went, like the changing of the seasons.


Erasing a passion to sin
Distracting from the desire for wrongdoing.


For no one knew better than the tealeaves and the tarots
Even fortune tellers and diviners could not predict the course of these people's lives.


That the wide-eyed and laughing
The carefree and innocent


Were just one step ahead of the wind
Their lives were unpredictable and constantly changing, like the wind.


And the hearts that you played on the porch swing for me
The emotions you shared with me on the porch swing.


Was a song that I'd heard in the past
It wasn't anything new to me, just a repeat of something I already knew.


For I had an audience somewhere inside you
You were performing for a part of me that was in you.


That applauded whenever you laughed
That part of me rejoiced whenever you were happy.


Gone is a word that I now rarely use
I don't often say that something is completely gone or lost.


Though sometime in the course of a day
Occasionally, even after all this time,


I go racing back like a man possessed
I'm suddenly overwhelmed and consumed by the memory.


By the wide-eyed and laughing daughters of some different age
By the carefree and innocent women I knew in the past.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: BERNARD J.P. TAUPIN, CALEB QUAYE, DAVEY JOHNSTONE, ELTON JOHN, JAMES NEWTON HOWARD

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Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

not like todays crap

Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

Even at 56 years old, this music still sounds so good to me, how music should sound.....

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