Understanding Women
Elton John Lyrics


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Rolling over trying to sleep
And understanding women
Thinking of you out there somewhere
Looking for a new beginning

Just let me be the final word
In the book we haven't written
I won't be another page
In understanding women

I could drive to Mexico
On understanding women
Throw myself against the waves
And answer up to heaven

How come her heart's so stubborn
And what's so wrong with giving
Ask the big sky talking
About understanding women

And I'm not just anyone who ever stood outside your door
And I'm not any man you've ever known before
Don't judge this picture by the frame
Every man is not the same




Some men reach beyond the pain
Of understanding women

Overall Meaning

Elton John's song "Understanding Women" is a ballad about a man who is trying to comprehend the complexity of women. The lyrics convey his frustration and bewilderment in trying to understand women. The opening lines are about his inability to sleep and his thoughts which are consumed with the idea of understanding women. Elton is inquisitive about where his lady is and what's she doing. He pleads to be the final word in the book that they haven't written, to have an exclusive place in her life, but not as a page in the book titled Understanding Women.


In the second verse, Elton takes an extended metaphor describing how he could drive to Mexico to fathom the workings of every woman's heart. He finds himself a victim of his own insecurities, the stubbornness of his lady's heart, and his own thoughts of guilt. He raises questions about what's wrong with giving, and the significance of understanding our partners. However, in the end, he points out that not all men are the same. Some go beyond the pain of understanding women, implying that he's one of them.


Line by Line Meaning

Rolling over trying to sleep
Struggling to sleep due to thoughts about women


And understanding women
The topic of understanding women is causing restless thoughts


Thinking of you out there somewhere
Contemplating someone special who may be seeking a new beginning


Looking for a new beginning
A desire to start fresh and leave past troubles behind


Just let me be the final word
Requesting to have the last say in a relationship that has yet to be fully written


In the book we haven't written
Referring to a story that has yet to unfold and be written


I won't be another page
Ensuring that the singer's contribution will not simply be a small part in a larger story


In understanding women
The artist does not want to only be known for their ability to understand women


I could drive to Mexico
Hyperbole used to express extreme frustration over trying to understand women


On understanding women
Continuation of the aforementioned exaggeration


Throw myself against the waves
An equally extreme expression of frustration and confusion


And answer up to heaven
Looking for a divine answer, something beyond human comprehension


How come her heart's so stubborn
Questioning why someone could be so resistant to opening up emotionally


And what's so wrong with giving
Asking why someone may be hesitant to reciprocate emotions


Ask the big sky talking
A call for divine intervention, as the sky is often associated with an idea of a higher power


About understanding women
Continuation of the theme of grappling with the complexity of understanding women


And I'm not just anyone who ever stood outside your door
Highlighting the artist's unique perspective and relationship with the woman in question


And I'm not any man you've ever known before
Emphasizing that the singer is not just another person, but someone with unique qualities and experiences


Don't judge this picture by the frame
A warning to not judge based on appearances, as there may be more to the situation than initially meets the eye


Every man is not the same
Acknowledging that each person has their own unique qualities and experiences


Some men reach beyond the pain
Not everyone is held back by their past or by their emotions


Of understanding women
Despite the difficulties in doing so, some men are able to understand and connect with women on a deeper level




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BERNARD J.P. TAUPIN, BERNIE TAUPIN, ELTON JOHN

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Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

not like todays crap

Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

Even at 56 years old, this music still sounds so good to me, how music should sound.....

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