When The First Tear Shows
Elton John Lyrics


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Hold my hand girl much tighter, much much tighter
'Cause what I've got to say I only hope and pray
Comes out as well as I rehearsed it yesterday

And baby when the first tear shows
It's a sign for you to go
And baby when the first tear shows
It's a sign for you to go and leave her alone
With the broken dreams that she owns

It's a crime for me to tell you
It's a sin for me to stay
And I'll never look behind me
When I start to walk away
Firl I'm sorry but it's all that I can say

you know that I used to love you so
Enjoy every moment together




Well I'm not the kind of man
To forever hold your hand

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elton John's song "When The First Tear Shows" depict a difficult conversation between two people in a relationship. The singer asks the girl to hold his hand tighter because he is about to say something that he has been rehearsing for a while. He hopes that his words will come out as he intends them to. The singer then goes on to say that when the girl sheds her first tear, it would be a sign for her to leave and go away. He wants her to leave where she should be and find her own life and closure, leaving behind her broken dreams.


The lyrics are reflective of how hard it is to end a relationship, especially when one partner knows it has run its course. The singer is aware that what he is about to say is going to hurt the girl, but it's something he must do, for both their sakes. It is evident that the relationship has changed to the point where the singer can no longer hold on, and he needs to part ways even though it's tough. The line "It's a crime for me to tell you, it's a sin for me to stay" emphasizes how hard it has become for the singer to stay in the relationship, but still, it's equally challenging to leave.


In conclusion, "When The First Tear Shows" tells a story of a complex relationship that has run its course. The song is about having the courage to say goodbye to someone we once loved, even if it's hard, and move on. The lyrics remind us that there comes a time when we have to choose between staying with someone we once loved or leaving them and finding closure.


Line by Line Meaning

Hold my hand girl much tighter, much much tighter
The singer wants the listener to hold his hand tighter in anticipation of what he is about to say.


'Cause what I've got to say I only hope and pray Comes out as well as I rehearsed it yesterday
The singer is nervous about what he is going to say and is hoping that he can express it as well as he had rehearsed it.


And baby when the first tear shows It's a sign for you to go And baby when the first tear shows It's a sign for you to go and leave her alone With the broken dreams that she owns
The singer is telling the listener that when the person they are with shows the first tear, it is a sign for them to leave and allow that person to deal with their own broken dreams.


It's a crime for me to tell you It's a sin for me to stay And I'll never look behind me When I start to walk away Firl I'm sorry but it's all that I can say
The artist is expressing that it is wrong for him to tell the listener what he knows and that it is even worse for him to remain in the situation. He is apologizing but knows that he must walk away for the good of everyone involved.


you know that I used to love you so Enjoy every moment together Well I'm not the kind of man To forever hold your hand
The artist is reminiscing about how he used to love the listener but knows that he cannot stay in their current situation. He is not the kind of man to hold on forever and feels that the listener should enjoy every moment with someone who can love them fully.




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Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

not like todays crap

Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

Even at 56 years old, this music still sounds so good to me, how music should sound.....

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