Sad About Girls
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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To all the girls that awake to escape in the morning
You want to leave him without even a warning, a trace, or a calling card
Sad about girls who know perfectly well why he's so sad about this girl
He's so mad about this girl tonight

So understanding--oh, she's so undemanding
So in control, so on the whole--she's so good to you until it gets to you
Sad about girls in your polythene world
Where you unwrap and rewrap and know when she leaves
That the next girl to suffer, putting you [posed?]
Unwrap and love you before she can know you
She's just got to show you the way that you're gonna be sad

Sad about girls that awake to escape in the morning
Get up and leave without even a warning
But no where is sad as the girls in the night
So ready to please you, so ready to bite
Sad about girls who know perfectly well he's so sad about this girl
You're so sad about your girl tonight





Sad about girls tonight
So sad about girls tonight

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elvis Costello & The Attractions' song Sad About Girls paint a picture of a man who is perpetually sad about the girls in his life. He longs for escape from them, but cannot seem to break free. The opening lines address the girls who sneak away in the morning, leaving without a trace. The singer is so sad about these girls that he cannot help but be mad about them. He seeks comfort in an understanding and undemanding girl who seems to be in control of their relationship, but she too becomes a source of sadness once he realizes he cannot keep up with her expectations. The overarching theme of the song is the cycle of heartbreak that the singer cannot seem to escape, no matter how hard he tries.


The lyrics of Sad About Girls are a commentary on the tumultuous nature of relationships and the impact they can have on one's emotional well-being. The repetitive nature of the song's structure reinforces the cyclical nature of the singer's romantic experiences - he is consistently let down by the girls in his life, and no amount of change seems to alter his predicament. The song is a melancholic reflection on the struggles of seeking love and companionship.


Line by Line Meaning

To all the girls that awake to escape in the morning
This line addresses girls who wake up early in the morning just to leave their partner without telling anything, which suggests that they don't want to be with that person anymore.


You want to leave him without even a warning, a trace, or a calling card
The girl wants to leave without letting her partner know by leaving any signs, giving a warning or without even leaving any contact information behind.


Sad about girls who know perfectly well why he's so sad about this girl
This line talks about those girls who already know why he is so sad and depressed about his girl.


He's so mad about this girl tonight
He is really angry and upset about this girl he is with tonight.


So understanding--oh, she's so undemanding
She is understanding and not at all demanding, which makes her appear to be someone who will be very easy to get along with and be in a relationship with.


So in control, so on the whole--she's so good to you until it gets to you
She seems to be in control of everything and does everything right, but eventually it gets to him, which could mean that he is asking too much from her.


Sad about girls in your polythene world
This line describes the girls in his world whom he perceives as being plastic, fake and not genuine.


Where you unwrap and rewrap and know when she leaves
This line refers to how he treats women as being disposable and replaceable, just like something which can be unwrapped and rewrapped without any emotional consequence.


That the next girl to suffer, putting you [posed?]
The next girl that he gets involved with will suffer the same fate as the previous one, and he doesn't seem to understand how this could be hurtful for both him and the girl.


Unwrap and love you before she can know you
This line suggests that the next girl he is with will fall in love with him before even knowing him completely.


She's just got to show you the way that you're gonna be sad
The girl will show him how the sadness he carries in his heart will continue to affect his future relationships if he doesn't change his ways of treating women.


But nowhere is sad as the girls in the night
The girls who leave at night after spending time with him are really sad and unhappy in their own way, and he doesn't seem to care about their feelings towards him.


So ready to please you, so ready to bite
The girls he spends time with pretend to be happy and interested in him, but they are just biting time until they get what they want from him.


You're so sad about your girl tonight
He is so sad about the girl he is with tonight.


Sad about girls tonight
This line is a repetition of the title of the song, which means he is still upset and unhappy about the girls he has been with tonight.




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Written by: FAY HART, STEVE NIEVE

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Comments from YouTube:

Kelly Smith

Loved this song from the first time I heard it. Another hidden gem. Would have been an excellent addition to the wonderful Trust LP.

leononder

i really love the album mad about the wrong boy its as timeless as inspiration

The Elder

One of Earth's most perfect songs....

dripdried

Wow, that would have been a great addition to Trust. I wore down the grooves on that album as I did on every other EC and Co. record through the late 80's.

Tara Avery

An indispensable outtake. Thank you.

John Fleming

Previously only knew this as a tune off "Mad About the Wrong Boy " Attractions album without Costello. Not on my copy of Trust... Good to hear a missed song from 30 years ago. Thanks.

charlyW34

Very cool indeed.

Timothy Shoemaker

chilling

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