Love Is
Emmylou Harris Lyrics


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To know, know, know him
Is to love, love, love him
Just to see him smile
Makes my life worthwhile
To know, know, know him
Is to love, love, love him
And I do
I'll be good to him
I'll bring love to him
Everyone says there'll come a day
When I'll walk alongside of him
Yes, just to know him
Is to love love love him
And I do

Why can't he see
How blind can he be?
Someday he will see
That he was meant for me, oh

To know, know, know him
Is to love love love him
Just to see him smile
Makes my life worthwhile
To know, know, know him




Is to love love love him
And I do

Overall Meaning

The song "To Know Him Is to Love Him" by Emmylou Harris is a cover of the 1958 hit written by Phil Spector, who started his career as a singer before he became one of the most influential producers in the history of pop music. The original version was performed by his band, The Teddy Bears, and it became a No. 1 hit in the US. The main theme of the song is the happiness and fulfillment that come from being in love, and the conviction that the subject of the song is the right person to love.


The lyrics are simple and straightforward, but they convey a deep emotional truth that resonates with many couples: the feeling that knowing your partner is a privilege that fills your life with joy and purpose. The repetition of the phrase "to know, know, know him" creates a sense of certainty and determination that underlines the singer's commitment to her lover. The line "I'll be good to him, I'll bring love to him" shows the singer's willingness to be a supportive and caring partner, and her confidence in her ability to make their relationship work.


The bridge of the song introduces a note of sadness and frustration, as the singer wonders why her beloved is not reciprocating her feelings. The lines "why can't he see, how blind can he be?" suggest that the singer feels like her lover is missing out on something wonderful by not recognizing her love. However, the final verse reasserts the strength of her bond, as she declares that "someday he will see that he was meant for me". This message, combined with the upbeat melody and the catchy chorus, make the song an iconic expression of romantic love that has inspired many covers and adaptations over the decades.


Line by Line Meaning

To know, know, know him
Knowing him completely is the only way to love him


Is to love, love, love him
Being completely acquainted with him fills my heart with love


Just to see him smile
Happiness simply radiates from him, and it brings me joy


Makes my life worthwhile
The delight he brings me adds purpose to my existence


I'll be good to him
I vow to treat him with respect and kindness always


I'll bring love to him
I will show him love every chance I get


Everyone says there'll come a day
Many individuals believe that a day will come when we are together


When I'll walk alongside of him
We will walk together in happiness, side by side


Why can't he see
I wonder why he doesn't see how wonderful we could be together


How blind can he be?
I am baffled how someone could fail to see the possibilities


Someday he will see
Eventually, he will comprehend how much we belong together


That he was meant for me, oh
He is the one I have been searching for all my life




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Abkco Music Inc.
Written by: Phil Spector

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