Benét's father loved classical music and inspired an interest in music in his son. By his teens, Eric had formed a vocal group with his sister and cousin called "Benét." The group released a self-titled album in 1992 that sold 70,000 copies.
Also in 1992, Benét's girlfriend, Tami Stauff, gave birth to a daughter they named India. The couple's happiness was short-lived when 25-year old Tami was killed in a car accident on April 24, 1993.
In 1994, Benét signed with Warner Bros. Records, releasing his solo debut album, True to Myself, in fall (1996). His next album, A Day in the Life, was released in 1999; its first single, "Georgy Porgy (featuring Faith Evans)" received significant airplay, but the second single, "Spend My Life With You (featuring Tamia)", became a smash hit. "Spend My Life With You" rose to number one on the American R&B charts, was certified gold, and nominated for a 2000 Grammy Award for Best R&B Performance by a Duo or Group. The album, A Day In The Life also won a Soul Train Music Award for Best R&B/Soul Album, Male. Benét also recorded for Earth, Wind, and Fire's 30th anniversary CD.
Benét has also been active as an actor; he had a recurring role on the television program For Your Love (1998 - 2002). He made his film debut in Glitter (2001).
Spanish Fly
Eric Benét Lyrics
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I feel what you're going through.
I've got the remedy.
Use me like Spanish Fly.
[Verse 1]
He let your love go.
You're a victim of a crime.
Your river just froze.
And now this happens every time you're faced with intimacy.
No one's been able to stable this painful phase.
It's like you just can't reach that high.
Would you mind it if I try?
Just lay back and close your eyes.
Guaranteed you'll feel the fire again.
[Chorus]
I know just what you need.
I feel what you're going through.
I've got the remedy.
Use me like Spanish Fly.
[Verse 2]
Don't be afraid, oh I promise you if you let it flow
Your face will be stuck with a smile
Let's take off our clothes then let's take it nice and slow.
Let's stare at each other for a while.
No one can figure your trigger that's what you say.
How about you give me give it a try?
Like an aphrodisiac, I can bring the fire back.
Cause I know exactly what to prescribe.
[Chorus: x2]
[Bridge]
It's been so long there a fire trapped inside you.
All I want is to be there when it burns you.
Baby, let me squeeze you, wanna hold you, wanna please you
Let me feel you, 'cause I need to
Lay you on the table, let me lick from your navel to your flowers, for hours
Baby, don't you see that there's nothing wrong with getting freaky,
When you need to, to release you
Baby, I'm on fire, we gonna take it a little higher
Till it's time to come inside you
The lyrics to Eric Benét's song Spanish Fly are about a man offering a woman his company and affection to help her recover from a heartbreak that has made her unable to connect with anyone physically or emotionally. He acknowledges her trauma and offers himself as a remedy to her pain. He understands that she has been unable to experience intimacy without being triggered, but he believes that he can help by taking things slow, making her feel comfortable, and bringing back the fire and passion she once had. He urges her to trust him and let him in, promising that together they can create an intense and fulfilling experience.
The lyrics are powerful because they offer an empathetic and sensitive response to someone who has been hurt and traumatized by love. The man doesn't judge the woman for her inability to connect, but instead offers himself as a source of healing and pleasure. He doesn't use force or pressure, but instead encourages her to let him into her world and slowly build a connection with trust and patience.
Overall, the song is a beautiful and sensual expression of love, connection, and healing. It offers hope and comfort to those who have been hurt and provides a roadmap for creating intimacy in a safe and healthy way.
Line by Line Meaning
I know just what you need.
I understand what you require.
I feel what you're going through.
I empathize with your emotional state.
I've got the remedy.
I possess the solution to your problems.
Use me like Spanish Fly.
Take advantage of me like you would the aphrodisiac Spanish Fly.
He let your love go.
Your previous lover let your relationship end.
You're a victim of a crime.
You were hurt and wronged by your ex-partner's actions.
You're heart broken treacherously.
Your heart was broken cruelly and without mercy.
Your river just froze.
Your emotions have been numbed and unable to flow.
And now this happens every time you're faced with intimacy.
You struggle to connect emotionally with new partners due to your past experiences.
No one's been able to stable this painful phase.
No one has been successful in helping you move past this difficult time.
It's like you just can't reach that high.
You are unable to experience the same level of intimacy and satisfaction as before.
Would you mind it if I try?
Can I attempt to help you overcome this issue?
Just lay back and close your eyes.
Relax and let me take control.
Guaranteed you'll feel the fire again.
I promise that you will regain your passion and desire.
Don't be afraid, oh I promise you if you let it flow
Do not be scared, if you allow yourself to feel, I guarantee...
Your face will be stuck with a smile
You will feel happy and content.
Let's take off our clothes then let's take it nice and slow.
Let us undress and engage in a slower paced intimacy.
Let's stare at each other for a while.
Let us gaze into each other's eyes for a moment.
No one can figure your trigger that's what you say.
You claim that no one can understand what triggers your emotional responses.
How about you give me give it a try?
Why don't you let me attempt to diagnose the issue?
Like an aphrodisiac, I can bring the fire back.
Similar to Spanish Fly, I can reignite your passion.
Cause I know exactly what to prescribe.
Because I possess the right solution to treat your problem.
It's been so long there a fire trapped inside you.
Your desire has been suppressed for a long time.
All I want is to be there when it burns you.
I desire to be present when your passion is reignited.
Baby, let me squeeze you, wanna hold you, wanna please you
Allow me to embrace you, make you feel good, and bring you satisfaction.
Let me feel you, 'cause I need to
Allow me to connect with you emotionally and physically.
Lay you on the table, let me lick from your navel to your flowers, for hours
Allow me to engage in an extended period of intimate exploration.
Baby, don't you see that there's nothing wrong with getting freaky,
There is nothing improper about engaging in unconventional intimacy.
When you need to, to release you
When you need to find release and satisfaction.
Baby, I'm on fire, we gonna take it a little higher
I am filled with passion and desire, we shall take things to the next level.
Till it's time to come inside you
Until it is time to engage in deeper intimacy.
Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group, BMG Rights Management
Written by: ERIC BENET, ALFRED CHALMERS, VIKTER DUPLAIX, PINO PALLADINO, JAMES JASON POYSER
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Mary Rodger
Today is 2/21/2022 and this is still a great song. Thanks Jose
shower Divine
love this album. Thanks for the upload..
kajol shahrukh
I love this song <3
Rodinei Campos da Silveira
Puro ritmo caribenho!
Pure Caribbean beat!
PABLO FLORES
Es R&B AND SALSA.
Tânia Coutinho
wollllllllll ,maravilha !!! <3
ss2 best
Love this song & live Eric Benet
2022
soulzboo1
2019 😍😍😍😍 always listening to this song ! So smooth and sweet ! love it
Jus
Still jams
claudia buică
FIRE!!! 🎶🎵🔥🔥🔥