Def Ears
Eric Roberson Lyrics


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God, I don't know where to begin
I'm so lost, I can't even pretend
Like the girl that I see right in front of me
Don't have control, she's like a friend to my heart
Key to my future lover of soul

Crazy thing, I didn't even know her name
Who she was and where she came from
But she passed me this passion
Pushed back my action like we couldn't deal
Said something 'bout timing
Paths not aligning but I need her still

Left my heart with lovely stranger
One way street headed for danger
Closed my eyes but still can't fade her
She's been there for years

I've been heart messin' with lesser
Even though I do no better
I spend my nights writing love letters
Landing on def ears

So I ask
Can she be a simple friend also made for me?
Is it a phase just passing by
Or could she be missing pieces in my life?

God, I ask u for clarity
There's an answer there's gotta be
If it was just a crush or infatuation I'd understand
But she reaches for me
Uses words when we speak like I was her man





Left me heart with lovely stranger

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Eric Roberson's song Def Ears explore the experience of feeling lost and confused in matters of the heart. The singer is enamored by a girl whom he has just met. She appears to have a significant impact on his life and could be the key to his future. However, the singer is unsure about whether the girl is just a passing phase or if she truly plays a vital role in his life. He is struggling with his feelings because he is aware that his actions might lead him down a dangerous path.


The song expresses deep-seated emotions regarding love and relationships, highlighting the confusion and anxiety that often accompany such experiences. The singer is aware that he has made mistakes in the past and has messed with his heart, even though he knows he could do better. Despite his desire to connect with this new girl, the singer feels like his love letters to her have been falling on "def ears," unreciprocated and unheard. He is asking for clarity from God about whether he should pursue a relationship with this girl or see her as a simple friend.


Overall, Eric Roberson's "Def Ears" is a moving depiction of the complexities of love and relationships. It skillfully captures the emotions of confusion, fear, and hope that come with being vulnerable in matters of the heart.


Line by Line Meaning

God, I don't know where to begin
I feel completely lost and unsure about this situation


I'm so lost, I can't even pretend
I can't even fake that I know what's going on


Like the girl that I see right in front of me
Referring to the woman he has feelings for


Don't have control, she's like a friend to my heart
He has strong feelings for her but feels like he can't control them


Key to my future lover of soul
She holds the key to his future lover or soulmate


Crazy thing, I didn't even know her name
It's crazy that he has these strong feelings for someone he doesn't even know


Who she was and where she came from
He doesn't know anything about her background


But she passed me this passion
She sparked a strong passion in him


Pushed back my action like we couldn't deal
Their paths didn't seem to align and it was hard for him to pursue her


Said something 'bout timing
They couldn't be together because the timing wasn't right


Paths not aligning but I need her still
Despite their paths not aligning, he still needs her in his life


Left my heart with lovely stranger
He left his heart with this woman he barely knows


One way street headed for danger
He knows it's risky to pursue someone he barely knows


Closed my eyes but still can't fade her
He can't stop thinking about her


She's been there for years
He has been thinking about her for a long time


I've been heart messin' with lesser
He has been wasting his time and emotions on people who don't compare to her


Even though I do no better
He knows he should do better, but can't help himself


I spend my nights writing love letters
He spends his time trying to express his feelings for her


Landing on def ears
His words are falling on deaf ears, she doesn't seem to notice or reciprocate


Can she be a simple friend, also made for me?
He wonders if they can just be friends, or if there's something more there


Is it a phase just passing by
He's unsure if his feelings are just a passing phase


Or could she be missing pieces in my life?
He wonders if she could be the missing piece to his life's puzzle


God, I ask u for clarity
He's asking for help and guidance from a higher power


There's an answer there's gotta be
He believes there's an answer to his confusion


If it was just a crush or infatuation I'd understand
He'd be able to accept it as just a crush or infatuation if that were the case


But she reaches for me
She shows signs that she's interested in him


Uses words when we speak like I was her man
He feels like she speaks to him as if they're already in a romantic relationship




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