The Jealous Kind
Etta James Lyrics


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Don't be angry
If I seem rude
Each time we meet
A girl that you once knew
You say that used to be so close to you

It's just that I'm so afraid
Someone might steal you away
Oh, I'd lose my mind
I can't help myself
The way I feel sometimes
Yeah, I'm the jealous kind

It was alright
When I first met you
Oh, I didn't mind
But now things have changed
And I'm just not the same
Oh, and now I find

I want you all to myself
I don't want to share you
With nobody, nobody, nobody else
You must forgive me
For the way I act sometimes
Yeah, I'm the jealous kind

Oh, baby
Oh, baby

If you only knew
How much it hurts me
Oh, to hear you say
How you can't forget
That before we met
Those were the good old days

Why must you hurt me so?
Lord, I can't stand it no more
Boy, I'm really, really, really, oh I'm really tryin'
And I can't help myself
The way I act sometimes
I'm the jealous kind

Oh, baby
Oh, baby
I'm the jealous kind
I know, I know
And I know, baby, I know
Oh, I know, I know
I know I'm the jealous kind




Ooh, I can't help it, I can't help it, baby
I can't help that I, I'm the jealous kind

Overall Meaning

Etta James's "The Jealous Kind" is a soulful love song about jealousy and possessiveness in a relationship. The singer is admitting to her significant other that she has been acting angry and rude towards an old friend of his, who he used to be close to. She explains that she can't help these feelings because she is afraid someone might steal him away from her. As the song progresses, she reveals that she wants him all to herself, and doesn't want to share him with anyone else. She is jealous of anyone who had a past with him, and it hurts her to hear about his life before they met.


The lyrics of the song perfectly capture the complex emotions that come with love and jealousy. Sometimes, when people fall in love, they become possessive and fearful of losing their partner. The lyrics of the song show that these emotions can be hard to control, despite the negative effect they may have on the relationship. The singer's honesty about feeling jealous in her relationship is poignant and relatable to many listeners.


Overall, "The Jealous Kind" is a beautiful love song that explores the difficulties of navigating a relationship in which one partner struggles with jealousy. Its soulful melody and poignant lyrics have ensured its place as a beloved classic among fans of soul music.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't be angry
Please don't be upset


If I seem rude
If I appear impolite


Each time we meet
Whenever we come across each other


A girl that you once knew
A lady that you knew before


You say that used to be so close to you
You mentioned that you were once very close with her


It's just that I'm so afraid
It's just that I am extremely frightened


Someone might steal you away
Someone could take you from me


Oh, I'd lose my mind
Oh, I would go insane


I can't help myself
I am unable to control myself


The way I feel sometimes
How I feel on some occasions


Yeah, I'm the jealous kind
Yes, I'm the type to be jealous


It was alright
It was fine


When I first met you
At the beginning when we first met


Oh, I didn't mind
Oh, it didn't bother me


But now things have changed
But now the situation is different


And I'm just not the same
And I'm not like I used to be


Oh, and now I find
Oh, and now I realize


I want you all to myself
I want you exclusively


I don't want to share you
I don't want to split you between others


With nobody, nobody, nobody else
With no one else


You must forgive me
You have to excuse me


For the way I act sometimes
For my actions sometimes


Oh, baby
Oh, dear


If you only knew
If you were only aware


How much it hurts me
How much it pains me


Oh, to hear you say
Oh, when you confess


How you can't forget
That you are unable to move on from


That before we met
That you had previous experiences before we became acquainted


Those were the good old days
Those were the enjoyable times


Why must you hurt me so?
Why do you have to cause me so much pain?


Lord, I can't stand it no more
My God, I can't endure this any longer


Boy, I'm really, really, really, oh I'm really tryin'
I'm putting in a great effort, oh boy, I'm really doing my best


And I can't help myself
And I am impotent to control myself


The way I act sometimes
How I behave on some occasions


I'm the jealous kind
I'm the type to be jealous


I know, I know
I understand


And I know, baby, I know
And I know, dear, I know


Oh, I know, I know
Oh, I understand, I understand


I know I'm the jealous kind
I know that I have a tendency to be jealous


Ooh, I can't help it, I can't help it, baby
Ooh, I'm powerless over it, I'm powerless over it, dear


I can't help that I, I'm the jealous kind
I am unable to aid that I am the type to be jealous




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Written by: Robert C. Guidry

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Erik brodland


on I Just Want to Make Love to You

Love this song so much, it makes me think of my son's Beautiful mommy jasmin and her amazing.voice.

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