On Your Mind
Family & Friends Lyrics


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I wear tight clothing and high heel shoes
It doesn't mean that I'm a prostitute
I like rap music wear hip hop clothes
That doesn't mean that I'm sellin' dope
Oh please forgive me, for having straight hair
It doesn't mean there's another blood in my heirs
I might date another race or color
Doesn't mean I don't like my strong black brothers

Why oh why must it be this way
Before you can read me you gotta learn how to see me, I said
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow.
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow

So I'm a sistah
Buy things with cash
That really doesn't mean that all my credit's bad, oooh
So why dispute me and waste my time
Because you really think the price is high for me
I can't look without being watched, no
You rang my buy before I made up my mind, ow!
Oh now attitude, why even bother
I can't change your mind, you can't change my colour

Why oh why must it be this way?
Before you can read me you gotta learn how to see me, I said
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind

Why oh why must it be this way?
Before you can read me you gotta learn how to see me, I said
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind and the rest will follow




Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Free your mind

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "On Your Mind" by Family & Friends convey a powerful message about stereotypes, prejudice, and the importance of being open-minded and accepting of others regardless of their appearance or background. The first verse challenges preconceived notions and stereotypes associated with clothing and physical appearance. The singer highlights that wearing tight clothing and high heels does not define one's character or profession, nor does enjoying rap music and hip hop culture equate to criminal activity. The lyrics emphasize the absurdity of judging someone based on superficial attributes rather than their true identity.


The chorus reinforces the idea of breaking free from societal expectations and embracing diversity. The repeated plea to "Free your mind and the rest will follow, be color blind, don't be so shallow" urges listeners to look beyond surface differences and strive for a more inclusive and understanding mindset. The call to be "color blind" emphasizes the need to see people for who they are as individuals, rather than making judgments based on race, ethnicity, or appearance.


In the second verse, the singer addresses misconceptions about financial status and racism. The mention of buying things with cash and the assumption of bad credit challenges stereotypes linked to economic status and racial prejudice. The frustration expressed towards being watched and judged based on external factors speaks to the indignity of being unfairly scrutinized and discriminated against because of one's appearance or background.


The repetition of the chorus throughout the song underscores the importance of introspection and empathy. By asking "Why oh why must it be this way?" and urging listeners to learn how to truly see and understand others, the lyrics encourage a deeper reflection on the impact of prejudice and the necessity of cultivating a more inclusive and compassionate society. Ultimately, "On Your Mind" by Family & Friends serves as a poignant reminder of the harmful effects of narrow-mindedness and the transformative power of breaking free from stereotypes and biases.


Line by Line Meaning

I wear tight clothing and high heel shoes
Just because I dress a certain way doesn't define my character


It doesn't mean that I'm a prostitute
Judging me based on my appearance is unfair and inaccurate


I might date another race or color
My preferences in relationships should not be misconstrued as a rejection of my own community


Doesn't mean I don't like my strong black brothers
Being open to diverse relationships doesn't diminish my love and respect for my own culture


Before you can read me you gotta learn how to see me, I said
To truly understand me, you must look beyond superficial judgments and preconceptions


Be colour blind, don't be so shallow
Don't let skin color or appearance cloud your perception of a person's worth


So I'm a sistah, buy things with cash
My identity as a black woman and my financial choices don't define who I am


That really doesn't mean that all my credit's bad, oooh
Assuming negative stereotypes about my financial status based on my race is unjust


I can't look without being watched, no
Being constantly judged and scrutinized based on my appearance is exhausting


You rang my buy before I made up my mind, ow!
Jumping to conclusions about me without giving me a chance to prove myself


I can't change your mind, you can't change my colour
I can't control your biased opinions, but my race is an inherent part of who I am




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Denzil Foster, Thomas McElroy

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Comments from YouTube:

@willfarrell

I like this

@Maya-kk8hu

This is such a good song

@The94Dan

Whoa sounds like the U2 b-side Holy Joe like a lot. Pretty sick though

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