Selfish
Fantasia Barrino/Missy Elliott Lyrics


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Boy, stop playin' tricks on me
Cause when I think I found the right one
I end up lonely
So don't judge me
Before you get to know me
I don't wanna share your love
Make me your one and only
Ooh, oh yeah

[chorus]
I don't want nobody else
I want you to myself
You can call me selfish if you want to
I don't need nobody else
I don't wanna share your love
I wanna be the only one you run to

My heart
Can't take another heart break
Because every time I fall deep in love
Somebody go and hurt me
So this time
There will be no mistakes
If you allow me to prove myself
Boy, I can make you happy
Ooh, oh yeah

[chorus]
I don't want nobody else
I want you to myself
You can call me selfish if you want to
I don't need nobody else
I don't wanna share your love
I wanna be the only one you run to

[Missy Elliott]
I'm stingy with my man
I'm stingy with the goodies
If you think my style fly
Then check the way I boogie
This one tough cookie
With shell toes and hoddies
Will approach any chic that walk up to my man
Never understand my man, be my man
I shut the game down
This dude is mine now
Bring it to the ring
K.O. in one round
Miss Demeanor and Fantasia with the break down, uh

I want to be the only one (i want to be)
The only one that you run to (suga, suga, suga, suga, suga)
I sure don't need nobody else (baby i don't need)
You're the one, you're the one, you're the one, you're the one
I wanna be (yeah,yeah,yeah,yeah)
I want to be the only one (oh baby)
The only one that you run to (only one that you could run to)
I sure don't need nobody else (I don't need nobody else)
You're the one, you're the one, you're the one, you're the one
I wanna be(oh,yeah)


[chorus]
I don't want nobody else
I want you to myself
You can call me selfish if you want to
I don't need nobody else




I don't wanna share your love
I wanna be the only one you run to

Overall Meaning

The song Selfish by Fantasia Barrino featuring Missy Elliott is a song about wanting to be in a committed relationship and being exclusive with the one she loves. Fantasia sings about the pain of falling in love and getting hurt repeatedly, and how she would like to make her man happy and be his one and only. She doesn't want to share his love with anybody else and wants him all to herself. Missy Elliott comes in with a rap verse that emphasizes how she is stingy with her man and won't let any other woman come close to him.


The chorus repeats the theme of exclusivity and reinforces the idea that Fantasia wants to be the only one her man runs to. She doesn't need anybody else, and anyone who calls her selfish for wanting to be with her loved one exclusively is welcomed to do so.


Overall, the lyrics of Selfish express the longing for a committed and exclusive relationship free from any outside interference. It's a love song that celebrates the joy and contentment that comes with being in love with someone.


Line by Line Meaning

Boy, stop playin' tricks on me
Stop deceiving me and playing games in our relationship


Cause when I think I found the right one
Each time I feel like I've met the right person


I end up lonely
It always ends up with me being alone


So don't judge me
Don't make assumptions about me without getting to know me


Before you get to know me
Take the time to understand me first


I don't wanna share your love
I don't want anyone else to have your love but me


Make me your one and only
I want to be the only person in your life


My heart
My emotional center and feelings


Can't take another heart break
I can't handle being heartbroken anymore


Because every time I fall deep in love
Whenever I get emotionally invested in a relationship


Somebody go and hurt me
Someone always ends up causing me emotional pain


So this time
This time around


There will be no mistakes
I won't allow any mistakes to happen in our relationship


If you allow me to prove myself
If you let me demonstrate my worth to you


Boy, I can make you happy
I can bring happiness to your life, if given the chance


I'm stingy with my man
I'm possessive of my partner


I'm stingy with the goodies
I don't want to share the affection and affectionate gestures we have together


If you think my style fly
If you're impressed by the way I present myself


Then check the way I boogie
Watch me dance and move my body


This one tough cookie
I'm strong and resilient


With shell toes and hoddies
Wearing comfortable and fashionable clothing


Will approach any chic that walk up to my man
I won't let any woman come between us, and I won't hesitate to make that clear


Never understand my man, be my man
You'll never fully understand our relationship, but you can be with me if you want


I shut the game down
I make sure no one can interfere with our relationship


This dude is mine now
I have claimed my partner and he belongs to me now


Bring it to the ring
I'm ready to fight for my man


K.O. in one round
I'll win easily and quickly


Miss Demeanor and Fantasia with the break down, uh
Missy Elliott and Fantasia will break down the song together


I want to be the only one (i want to be)
I desire to be the sole focus of my partner's attention


The only one that you run to (suga, suga, suga, suga, suga)
I want to be the only person my partner turns to for love and affection


I sure don't need nobody else (baby i don't need)
I don't need anyone else in my life but my partner


You're the one, you're the one, you're the one, you're the one
My partner is the one for me in every way


I wanna be (yeah,yeah,yeah,yeah)
I want to be his everything


I want to be the only one (oh baby)
I want to be his one and only love


The only one that you run to (only one that you could run to)
I want to be the first and only person he goes to when he needs love


I sure don't need nobody else (I don't need nobody else)
My partner is all I really need in my life


You're the one, you're the one, you're the one, you're the one
My partner is the only one for me


I wanna be(oh,yeah)
I desire to be everything to my partner


I don't want nobody else
I don't want anyone else to be with my partner


You can call me selfish if you want to
Some may view my possessiveness as selfishness, but I believe it's necessary for my relationship


I don't need nobody else
I don't need anyone else in my life except my partner


I wanna be the only one you run to
I want to be the only person he seeks for love and affection




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