Outside Looking In
Fates Warning Lyrics


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Staring, silent, naked and cold
Outside looking in
Peeling away this fragile shell
To face the fear within

And the man in the mirror looks on
As the cuts begin
Outside looking in
Getting over my fears and under my skin
Tearing myself apart to feel whole again
Outside looking in

Running, tired, tortured and torn
Outside looking in
Clawing away these open scars
To heal the wounds within

And the man in the mirror looks out
As he reaches in

Outside looking in
Getting over my fears and under my skin
Tearing myself apart to feel whole again
Outside looking in

Outside looking in
Getting over my fears and under my skin
Tearing myself apart to feel whole again
Outside looking in

Too many things left undone, too late to turn back
I could change course before the end
But when all is said and done
All I really want is a chance to start again

Staring, silent, naked and cold
Outside looking in
Feeling my way through this wilderness
For a place to begin

And the man in the mirror reaches out
To the man within

Outside looking in
Getting over my fears and under my skin
Tearing myself apart to feel whole again
Outside looking in

Outside looking in
Getting over my fears and under my skin




Tearing myself apart to feel whole again
Outside looking in

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Fates Warning's "Outside Looking In" speak of a journey of self-discovery, of peeling away one's exterior and confronting the fears that lie within. The singer of the song begins by acknowledging their own vulnerability and isolation, feeling like an outsider looking in on the world. They then begin to consciously dismantle their own emotional barriers, painfully tearing away the layers of defense that shield their innermost self. The man in the mirror is both a reflection of the singer's physical form as well as a metaphor for the persona they present to the world. Over the course of the song, the man in the mirror becomes a more active participant in the singer's psychological transformation, reaching out to the man within and helping to bridge the gap between the two selves.


The chorus of the song repeats the refrain "Getting over my fears and under my skin / Tearing myself apart to feel whole again / Outside looking in," emphasizing the idea that true wholeness can only be achieved by fully embracing and confronting one's darkest fears and insecurities. The final verse of the song speaks of regret and the desire to start anew, suggesting that the singer has finally overcome the obstacles of self-doubt and self-loathing and is ready to begin a new chapter in their life.


Line by Line Meaning

Staring, silent, naked and cold
Feeling vulnerable and exposed, emotionless, and alone


Outside looking in
Being on the outside, observing but not fully participating in one's own life


Peeling away this fragile shell
Breaking down one's own walls and defenses


To face the fear within
Confronting one's own inner anxieties


And the man in the mirror looks on
Observing oneself from an outside perspective


As the cuts begin
As the self-destructive behaviors begin


Getting over my fears and under my skin
Confronting and overcoming one's own anxieties


Tearing myself apart to feel whole again
Breaking oneself down in order to rebuild and start anew


Running, tired, tortured and torn
Feeling exhausted, tormented, and emotionally drained


Clawing away these open scars
Trying to heal old emotional wounds


To heal the wounds within
Addressing and overcoming one's inner pain


And the man in the mirror looks out
Looking inward and reflecting on oneself


As he reaches in
As he tries to address and heal his own pain


Too many things left undone, too late to turn back
Feeling regretful and unable to change the past


I could change course before the end
Recognizing that there is still time to make positive changes


All I really want is a chance to start again
Longing for an opportunity to start fresh


Feeling my way through this wilderness
Navigating through an uncertain and difficult time


For a place to begin
Searching for a new starting point or direction


And the man in the mirror reaches out
Taking action and actively trying to make changes in his life


To the man within
Addressing and trying to heal his own inner turmoil and pain




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JIM MATHEOS

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