Reliance
Flaw Lyrics


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So you think the areas gray but it continues each day
A bad example of the attitude you portray
Act like I owe you my life you should be
Burdened with strife

So I continue to pray hope that
You'll go away
A bad addiction to a home wrecking thing who plays
With my heart and that's the bottom line

I feel so empty
What can you give me that I can't give myself
And what part of my life can you fix, that I
Can't fix my damn self

God I'm losing patience each day I've put
Myself in harms way
Can't seem to justify none of the shit you say
Can't find another way out here's nothing left

But pure doubt
I'm on the verge of pulling my hair straight out
So if you listen to me not to the powers that be
We're not supposed to be together can't you see

In decision is the bottom line I feel so empty now

I'm gonna show you now this time I'm getting out
I've said it many times but this time I have

Figured out
Just how I'm moving on it's taken way too long




Inside I know I'll feel much better when you're
Really gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Flaw's song Reliance express a feeling of emptiness and frustration in a toxic relationship. The singer addresses their partner, who they feel acts entitled and burdens them with their negative attitude. The singer recognizes that their partner is like an addiction, someone who plays with their heart and damages their life. However, the singer realizes that they have the power to fix their own life and they question what their partner can offer that they cannot give themselves. The singer is losing patience with the situation and explains that it's time to move on, they have made a decision to not be with their partner anymore and they look forward to feeling better when their partner is gone.


The song is a powerful expression of the emotional struggles that can arise in a relationship of reliance. The singer conveys a sense of disillusionment, disappointment, as well as the courage to take control of the situation and move forward. The lyrics show the damaging effects of reliance and the realization that one needs to take ownership and responsibility for one's own life.


Line by Line Meaning

So you think the areas gray but it continues each day
You have this pessimistic view that nothing changes or improves, but life moves in a continuous manner.


A bad example of the attitude you portray
Your behavior is not ideal and sets a bad example for others around you.


Act like I owe you my life you should be
You expect me to do everything for you when in reality, you should be taking responsibility for your own life.


Burdened with strife
You should be dealing with your own problems and difficulties, not forcing them onto me.


So I continue to pray hope that
I am hoping and praying that things will get better and that you will leave me alone.


You'll go away
I want you to disappear and leave me alone.


A bad addiction to a home wrecking thing who plays
You are a destructive force in my life, like a bad addiction that ruins everything.


With my heart and that's the bottom line
You are hurting me emotionally and that is the central issue that needs to be addressed.


I feel so empty
Your presence in my life has left me feeling drained and hollow.


What can you give me that I can't give myself
I don't need you to provide me with anything as I am capable of taking care of myself.


And what part of my life can you fix, that I
There is nothing in my life that you can fix that I cannot handle on my own.


Can't fix my damn self
I am capable of fixing my own problems without relying on you.


God I'm losing patience each day I've put
I am growing increasingly impatient with your toxic presence as each day passes.


Myself in harms way
I have put myself in a dangerous situation by being involved with you.


Can't seem to justify none of the shit you say
None of the things you say or do make any sense or have any justification.


Can't find another way out here's nothing left
I am struggling to find a way to escape this situation as I feel trapped and hopeless.


But pure doubt
All I feel is uncertainty and doubt about everything, especially my future without you.


I'm on the verge of pulling my hair straight out
I am so stressed and frustrated that I am close to losing my mind.


So if you listen to me not to the powers that be
I hope you hear me out and not just follow what others tell you to do.


We're not supposed to be together can't you see
It's clear that we are not meant to be together and it's time to move on.


In decision is the bottom line I feel so empty now
My inability to make a decision is at the root of my problem, and it leaves me feeling hollow.


I'm gonna show you now this time I'm getting out
This time I am determined to leave you and show you that I am done with this toxic relationship.


I've said it many times but this time I have
I know I have said this before, but now I truly mean it and am ready to follow through on my words.


Figured out
I have come to a realization and am confident in my decision to leave.


Just how I'm moving on it's taken way too long
I know exactly how to move on, but I regret not doing it sooner.


Inside I know I'll feel much better when you're
I am certain that my life will improve and I will feel better once you are no longer in it.


Really gone
When you are actually gone, I can finally be free from this toxic situation and start to heal.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: CHRIS VOLZ, CHRISTOPHER BALLINGER, JASON DAUNT, LANCE ARNY, RYAN JURHS

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Flaw reliance lyrics:
So you think the areas gray but it continues each day
A bad example of the attitude you portray
Act like I owe you my life you should be
Burdened with strife
So I continue to pray hope that
You'll go away
A bad addiction to a home wrecking thing who plays
With my heart and that's the bottom line
I feel so empty
What can you give me that I can't give myself
And what part of my life can you fix, that I
Can't fix my damn self
God I'm losing patience each day I've put
Myself in harms way
Can't seem to justify none of the shit you say
Can't find another way out here's nothing left
But pure doubt
I'm on the verge of pulling my hair straight out
So if you listen to me not to the powers that be
We're not supposed to be together can't you see
In decision is the bottom line I feel so empty now
I'm gonna show you now this time I'm getting out
I've said it many times but this time I have
Figured out
Just how I'm moving on it's taken way too long
Inside I know I'll feel much better when you're
Really gone

Nipulkrad Msinatagras

This hits hard back then!

Hip Hop Head

That intro is insane

Satanicballs

damn