In an article from Billboard, Cari Fletcher shared an open letter describing her experience with harassment. She writes about how she is tired of influential men abusing their power and making the victims feel powerless.
“I mean, what do you even say to someone who has been sexually assaulted? For me, the right words were ‘I believe you.’ Like the day my best friend confessed, that while we were in high school, her boss attacked her during a late night shift. Like the time my classmate came into my room and informed me she had been raped in her dorm. Like the time a member on my own team had to take a meeting with the man that harassed her as an intern, and like the close collaborator of mine who shared her story of sexual assault by her very own manager.”
The “Me, too” and “I believe you” are direct references to the #MeToo movement, which strives to give voice to the voiceless and give hope to victims.
“This song is for all of the amazing women I work with every day who have been felt up, shut up and kicked down. And for all the women whose stories I haven’t heard, this song was made to let them know that I’m listening, we all are.”
I Believe You
Fletcher Lyrics
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It's the memory you ignore, but you can't erase
It's the text in the middle of the night you didn't ask for
It can help your career, but at what cost?
Are you holding back something that you're dying to say?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
To make somebody listen to you?
Me, too
It's the room full of rumors and everybody starin'
Did they tell you you were asking for it by what you were wearin'?
It's the stains from your makeup and tears on your pillow
It's a piece of yourself that you let go
Do you wanna scream but just can't find the air?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Are you losing your mind thinking what will it take
To make somebody listen to you?
Me, too
They say step up and sit down
Shut up and back down
So what's up, yeah, what's up with that?
So we dress up, get felt up
Get shot down, don't speak up
Yeah, what's up, yeah, what's up with that?
Are you holding back something
That you've just been dying to say?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Do you know every battle that you've had to face
Is making you bulletproof?
Me, too
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Do you know every battle that you've had to face
Is making you bulletproof?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
The song "I Believe You" by Fletcher is a powerful anthem that speaks to the experiences of those who have been victims of sexual harassment and assault. The opening lyrics capture the mix of emotions that can come with these experiences, ranging from the "sick to your stomach feeling" to the "smile on your face". It's a complicated mix of emotions that can be hard to articulate, but the song captures this complexity well.
The song then goes on to highlight some of the common experiences that victims of harassment and assault face, such as the text in the middle of the night that you didn't ask for, the room full of rumors and everyone staring, and the feeling that you're not being listened to. The lyrics also touch on some of the ways in which society can blame victims, from the old refrain of "asking for it" by what you wear to the pressure to stay quiet and not speak up about what happened. But despite all of this, the song ultimately has a message of solidarity and support, with the repeated refrain of "me too, girl, I believe you".
Line by Line Meaning
It's the sick to your stomach feeling with a smile on your face
It's the feeling of uneasiness and discomfort even when you try to remain cheerful
It's the memory you ignore, but you can't erase
It is the memory that you try to forget, but it still haunts you
It's the text in the middle of the night you didn't ask for
It's getting an unsolicited message in the middle of the night
It can help your career, but at what cost?
It may benefit your career, but it might not be worth the price you will pay
Are you holding back something that you're dying to say?
Are you afraid to speak up and share what you truly feel?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
I can relate to your struggles, and I support you
Are you losing your mind thinking what will it take
To make somebody listen to you?
Are you frustrated that no one is willing to listen to your concerns?
It's the room full of rumors and everybody starin'
Did they tell you you were asking for it by what you were wearin'?
It's being judged and blamed by others, who assume it was your fault
It's the stains from your makeup and tears on your pillow
It's a piece of yourself that you let go
It's the emotional pain that leaves a physical mark in your life
Do you wanna scream but just can't find the air?
Do you wish you could express your feelings but you can't find the courage to do so?
They say step up and sit down
Shut up and back down
So what's up, yeah, what's up with that?
Society expects you to speak up and be silent at the same time, which is contradictory
So we dress up, get felt up
Get shot down, don't speak up
Yeah, what's up, yeah, what's up with that?
Women are expected to dress nicely, but that shouldn't give license to others to touch them without consent
Do you know every battle that you've had to face
Is making you bulletproof?
Every hardship you've faced has made you stronger and resilient
Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, CTM Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ALEX HOPE, CARI FLETCHER, DAVID DAHLQUIST, LAUREN AMBER AQUILINA, TOBY GAD
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LYRICS :
It’s the sick to your stomach feeling with a smile on your face
It’s the memory you ignore, but you can’t erase
It’s the text in the middle of the night you didn’t ask for
It can help your career, but at what cost?
Are you holding back something that you’re dying to say?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Are you losing your mind thinking what will it take
To make somebody listen to you?
Me, too
It’s the room full of rumors and everybody starin’
Did they tell you you were asking for it by what you were wearin’?
It’s the stains from your makeup and tears on your pillow
It’s a piece of yourself that you let go
Do you wanna scream but just can’t find the air?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Are you losing your mind thinking what will it take
To make somebody listen to you?
Me, too
They say step up and sit down
Shut up and back down
So what’s up, yeah, what’s up with that?
So we dress up, get felt up
Get shot down, don’t speak up
Yeah, what's up, yeah, what's up with that?
Are you holding back something
That you’ve just been dying to say?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Do you know every battle that you've had to face
Is making you bulletproof?
Me, too
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
Do you know every battle that you've had to face
Is making you bulletproof?
Me, too
Girl, I believe you
@unicornrainbowz5293
Supreeta Sagere
Statistics show that innocent convicts rarely ever face charges. Yes, there are some unfortunate cases but overall, most rapists don’t even get convicted.
Studies have also shown that half of all false accusations are inflicted by someone other than the victim.
That being said.
Only 100 out of 1000 rapists are reported. That of which only 30 face trial and lastly only 10 are jailed.
The statistic of imprisoning any rapist is extremely low.
The movement was encouragement for women to speak out and connect due to most women are afraid of the consequences of speaking the truth.
@hailey5854
She’s one of the artists that actually uses their power to help other people. This is so so beautiful
@user-jl6ze7ch8y
I was sexually harassed by my cousin pretty much my whole life and this song inspired me to get help and I’m in therapy now. from the bottom of my heart, thank you.
@theweirdkidnextdoor219
Im here to if u need to talk about anything I'm here
@user-jl6ze7ch8y
Natalie Elskamp I’m so sorry. I hope you can heal and get justice if you want it!
@user-jl6ze7ch8y
Delaney Parker I love you!
@amylastuvkova7778
Same for me.
@anikaanjum2210
we love you.. so proud of you!!
@rairey506
Fletcher is so underrated and I hate it shes so good love you Fletcher...
@fl.gl_3957
No you dont
@theweirdkidnextdoor219
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