Father's Day
Frank Turner Lyrics


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When I was sixteen I cut myself a Mohawk,
Because I wanted to walk the walk,
And not just talk the talk,
But it was a bit of a disaster because
I did the sides with kitchen scissors,
Because I didn’t have any clippers,
And I didn’t want to use a beard-trimmer
I’d made that mistake before.

When you got home you didn’t want to talk about what I’d done.
You said I’d let you down, I’d fucked around, when I was only having fun.
With the way that you’ve been lately, you’ve no right to scream and shout.
You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.

What’s the point in making vows that you’re never going to keep?
A lifetime lying awake means you’ll never get to sleep.
And all the promises you made, that were painful and untrue,
Of all the things you do they reflect worst on you.

We all have our own devices
For handling mid-life crises
Usually involves a motorbike and
Suspicious fashion decisions.
But you choose to stave off grey hairs by
Lamely hacking at the sides
With lies and flimsy alibis
For your suspicious expeditions.

When I get home I don’t want to talk about what you’ve done.
Yes you’ve let me down, you’ve fucked around, but I guess you were having fun.
With the way that I’ve been lately, I’ve no right to scream and shout.
You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.

You always told me Father’s Day was just another way
Of selling Hallmark greeting cards
Twenty Years of waking sleep, of lying through your teeth,
Meant every Father’s Day spent wondering who the hell you are.

What’s the point in us making vows that we’re never going to keep?
I keep trying to keep you up, but you keep on falling asleep.




And all the promises we made were painful and untrue,
But for better or for worse, I am turning into you.

Overall Meaning

The song "Father's Day" by Frank Turner explores the complex relationship between a father and son. The song starts with the son reminiscing about his teenage years when he had a mohawk. He talks about how he wanted to walk the walk and not just talk the talk. However, when his father returns home, he does not want to talk about what his son has done. The father says that the son has let him down and was only having fun.


The son then talks about how the father has been lately and how he has no right to scream and shout. The father promises things that he cannot keep, and the son points out that lying awake all night means that you will never get to sleep. The son continues to talk about how promises made painfully and untruthfully reflect worst on them. The father tries to stave off grey hairs by lamely hacking off the sides, and the son points out that we all have our ways of handling mid-life crises.


The song then shifts to the Father's Day holiday. The father always told the son that the day was just another way of selling Hallmark greeting cards. However, twenty years of waking sleep, and the father has been lying through his teeth. Every Father's Day, the son is left wondering who the father is. The song ends with the realization that for better or for worse, the son is turning into his father.


Overall, the song explores the themes of disappointment, broken promises, and the complexity of family relationships. It shows how unresolved issues can lead to further misunderstandings and frustrations within the family.


Line by Line Meaning

When I was sixteen I cut myself a Mohawk, Because I wanted to walk the walk, And not just talk the talk, But it was a bit of a disaster because I did the sides with kitchen scissors, Because I didn’t have any clippers, And I didn’t want to use a beard-trimmer I’d made that mistake before.
At sixteen, I wanted to prove that I was more than talk by cutting myself a Mohawk. I used kitchen scissors instead of clippers and avoided the beard-trimmer, which I had botched before.


When you got home you didn’t want to talk about what I’d done. You said I’d let you down, I’d fucked around, when I was only having fun. With the way that you’ve been lately, you’ve no right to scream and shout. You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.
When I showed you my new haircut, you were disappointed and angry, accusing me of messing around. But with your own behavior lately, you have no right to lecture me. We need to have a conversation.


What’s the point in making vows that you’re never going to keep? A lifetime lying awake means you’ll never get to sleep. And all the promises you made, that were painful and untrue, Of all the things you do they reflect worst on you.
Why make promises you cannot keep? Lying awake all nights will not help you sleep. The false promises you made reflect poorly on your character.


We all have our own devices For handling mid-life crises Usually involves a motorbike and Suspicious fashion decisions. But you choose to stave off grey hairs by Lamely hacking at the sides With lies and flimsy alibis For your suspicious expeditions.
During mid-life crises, people usually try to cope in their own ways, such as buying a motorbike and new fashion. However, you opted to hide your gray hairs by cutting your sides poorly and making excuses to go out suspiciously.


When I get home I don’t want to talk about what you’ve done. Yes you’ve let me down, you’ve fucked around, but I guess you were having fun. With the way that I’ve been lately, I’ve no right to scream and shout. You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.
Just like how you didn't want to discuss my mistakes, I don't want to discuss yours. You had your fun, but your actions bring consequences. I too have made mistakes recently, so we need to talk it out.


You always told me Father’s Day was just another way Of selling Hallmark greeting cards Twenty Years of waking sleep, of lying through your teeth, Meant every Father’s Day spent wondering who the hell you are.
You used to say Father's Day was a commercial holiday. But after twenty years of living with your lies and delusions, I am left wondering who you truly are every Father's Day.


What’s the point in us making vows that we’re never going to keep? I keep trying to keep you up, but you keep on falling asleep. And all the promises we made were painful and untrue, But for better or for worse, I am turning into you.
Why make vows we cannot keep? I always try to support you, but you just fall asleep. We both made false promises. But despite that, I am becoming like you, for better or worse.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: FRANCIS EDWARD TURNER

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Cam Von Barren

When I was sixteen I cut myself a Mohawk,
Because I wanted to walk the walk,
And not just talk the talk,
But it was a bit of a disaster because
I did the sides with kitchen scissors,
Because I didn’t have any clippers,
And I didn’t want to use a beard-trimmer –
I’d made that mistake before.

When you got home you didn’t want to talk about what I’d done.
You said I’d let you down, I’d fucked around, when I was only having fun.
With the way that you’ve been lately, you’ve no right to scream and shout.
You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.

What’s the point in making vows that you’re never going to keep?
A lifetime lying awake means you’ll never get to sleep.
And all the promises you made, that were painful and untrue,
Of all the things you do they reflect worst on you.

We all have our own devices
For handling mid-life crises –
Usually involves a motorbike and
Suspicious fashion decisions.
But you choose to stave off grey hairs by
Lamely hacking at the sides
With lies and flimsy alibis
For your suspicious expeditions.

When I get home I don’t want to talk about what you’ve done.
Yes you’ve let me down, you’ve fucked around, but I guess you were having fun.
With the way that I’ve been lately, I’ve no right to scream and shout.
You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.

You always told me Father’s Day was just another way
Of selling Hallmark greeting cards
Twenty Years of waking sleep, of lying through your teeth,
Meant every Father’s Day spent wondering who the hell you are.

What’s the point in us making vows that we’re never going to keep?
I keep trying to keep you up, but you keep on falling asleep.
And all the promises we made were painful and untrue,
But for better or for worse, I am turning into y



All comments from YouTube:

Lawrence Titley

This song has just gained an extra layer of meaning

M W

My father and I had a difficult relationship, and I barely spoke to him during the last year of his life. The day he died, I instinctively put this on while driving home from the hospital, and started crying so hard I nearly crashed. When giving his eulogy, I read out some of the lyrics.

It still makes me leak when I listen to it. I wish we’d talked more.

Chip Lyall

I love this song and Frank Turner so much. And this would make a fantastic A Day To Remember song :-)

kuzumurph

It’s 4:54am and let me tell you, cutting your hair into a shitty mullet/mohawk/shaved sides abomination with a tiny eyebrow razor while listening to this just hits different, especially when you and your father have a strange distanced relationship where he’s too close to let go but too far to be on good terms with

Bruce Wayne

Thank you so much for uploading this!

Kathy Condon

Love, Love, Love it!

LeighBlocks

The sequel to this song is going to be great

Drew and Charlie

Most of franks songs are simple fun anthems. This song is different

Cam Von Barren

When I was sixteen I cut myself a Mohawk,
Because I wanted to walk the walk,
And not just talk the talk,
But it was a bit of a disaster because
I did the sides with kitchen scissors,
Because I didn’t have any clippers,
And I didn’t want to use a beard-trimmer –
I’d made that mistake before.

When you got home you didn’t want to talk about what I’d done.
You said I’d let you down, I’d fucked around, when I was only having fun.
With the way that you’ve been lately, you’ve no right to scream and shout.
You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.

What’s the point in making vows that you’re never going to keep?
A lifetime lying awake means you’ll never get to sleep.
And all the promises you made, that were painful and untrue,
Of all the things you do they reflect worst on you.

We all have our own devices
For handling mid-life crises –
Usually involves a motorbike and
Suspicious fashion decisions.
But you choose to stave off grey hairs by
Lamely hacking at the sides
With lies and flimsy alibis
For your suspicious expeditions.

When I get home I don’t want to talk about what you’ve done.
Yes you’ve let me down, you’ve fucked around, but I guess you were having fun.
With the way that I’ve been lately, I’ve no right to scream and shout.
You and I, we’ve got a lot that we need to talk about.

You always told me Father’s Day was just another way
Of selling Hallmark greeting cards
Twenty Years of waking sleep, of lying through your teeth,
Meant every Father’s Day spent wondering who the hell you are.

What’s the point in us making vows that we’re never going to keep?
I keep trying to keep you up, but you keep on falling asleep.
And all the promises we made were painful and untrue,
But for better or for worse, I am turning into y

Nick M.

Real good, son. Wudn't ain't got that country accent I'm normally used to, but I'm kinda "diggin'" it as the kids say. Or, "fancy" it as you Brit's say? "A" Plus, Frank!! Go!!

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