Silence Is Golden
Frank Valli and the Four Season Lyrics
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To see someone do something to her
Oh don't it pain to see someone cry
How especially if that someone is her
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
Talking is cheap people follow like sheep
How could she tell he deceived her so well
Pity she'll be the last one to know
How many times will she fall for his lines
Should I tell her or should I be cool
And if I tried I know she'd say I lied
Mind your business don't hurt her you fool
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
The song "Silence is Golden" by Frank Valli and the Four Seasons is about the pain of seeing someone you care about being mistreated or deceived by another person. The lyrics talk about the agony of watching someone cry and feeling helpless to prevent their tears. The singer is expressing his frustration at not being able to speak out and warn the woman he cares about, even though he knows that talking is cheap and people often follow blindly.
The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "Silence is golden" as a reminder that sometimes it is better to remain quiet and observe than to speak up and risk causing more harm. Despite this advice, the singer's eyes "still see," implying that he cannot fully turn a blind eye to the situation. He is torn between wanting to protect the woman he cares about and not wanting to interfere in her life.
The lyrics also touch on the idea of repeated patterns in relationships, as the singer questions how many times the woman will fall for the same lines and be deceived. He struggles with the decision to tell her the truth or to stay silent, even though he knows that this silence may allow her to continue being hurt.
Overall, "Silence is Golden" is a powerful and emotional song about the struggle to balance the desire to help someone with the need to respect their autonomy and the potential consequences of speaking out.
Line by Line Meaning
Oh don't it hurt deep inside
It pains to the core
To see someone do something to her
When someone wrongs her
Oh don't it pain to see someone cry
It's difficult to see her cry
How especially if that someone is her
Especially when it's her
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Not saying anything is better, but I still notice
Talking is cheap people follow like sheep
People blindly follow others who talk a lot
Even though there is no where to go
Even when there is no substance
How could she tell he deceived her so well
She couldn't have known he lied so well
Pity she'll be the last one to know
Sadly, she'll find out last
How many times will she fall for his lines
She'll continue to be fooled by him
Should I tell her or should I be cool
Should I warn her or mind my own business?
And if I tried I know she'd say I lied
If I tried, she wouldn't believe me
Mind your business don't hurt her you fool
Stay out of it and don't cause her pain
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Not saying anything is better, but I still notice
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
Not saying anything is better, but I still notice
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BOB CREWE, BOB GAUDIO
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Connie Archer
Frankie Valli should have been given the Kennedy Honors! I’m nominating Mr. Valli., who’s with me?
Marie Labellarte
I'm with you!!
Joel Raab
Totally!!
Vin Sullivan
Me! The first 45 I ever got was a Christmas present from my folks. Big girls don’t cry. I was 8. Looking back, they probably thought it was a life lesson for kids. lol.
Fred Christian
Yes Absolutely
Lionheart Roar
I'm shocked that he has not been honored. If you overlook a legend like Valli your awards programs are IRRELEVANT.
MrACRocha
It is incredible how he has preserved his peculiar voice for all these years and remains active and productive. There is no way not to admire this fabulous performer.
Debbie Pennington Crowe
I hope the reply was really from you.I live in a south ga town called Americus and I'm sure you probably haven't heard of it. I have been a huge fan forever.You are one of a kind
David Lang
This is just perfect!!
Squilliam Fancyson
I mean... he IS lip-syncing. That is a fact, sad to say. He has been for many years now.