Silence Is Golden
Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons Lyrics
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To see someone do something to her
Oh don't it pain to see someone cry
How especially if that someone is her
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
Even though there is no where to go
How could she tell he deceived her so well
Pity she'll be the last one to know
How many times will she fall for his lines
Should I tell her or should I be cool
And if I tried I know she'd say I lied
Mind your business don't hurt her you fool
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
In "Silence Is Golden," Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons sing about the pain of watching someone they care about being hurt or deceived by another person. The lyrics are characterized by a sense of frustration and helplessness, as the singer is torn between wanting to intervene and being told to mind their own business. The title of the song, "Silence Is Golden," is a reference to the idea that sometimes it is better to keep quiet and not get involved, even if it means bearing witness to someone else's suffering.
The first verse captures the heartbreak of watching someone cry and suffer, particularly if that person is a loved one. The second verse takes a more philosophical approach, suggesting that talking is cheap and people often follow blindly, even when there is nowhere to go. The final verse reveals the singer's internal struggle as they debate whether to speak up and warn their friend or stay silent and avoid causing harm. Through it all, the refrain of "silence is golden" underscores the idea that sometimes the best course of action is simply to stay quiet.
Line by Line Meaning
Oh don't it hurt deep inside
Isn't it painful to feel so deeply emotionally
To see someone do something to her
To witness someone causing her harm or hurt
Oh don't it pain to see someone cry
Isn't it heart wrenching to see someone in tears
How especially if that someone is her
It is particularly hard if that person crying is her
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
It's best to stay quiet, but I can't help noticing things
Talking is cheap people follow like sheep
People are easily led by words and actions
Even though there is no where to go
There is no clear way out of the situation
How could she tell he deceived her so well
It's difficult for her to recognize he has lied so convincingly
Pity she'll be the last one to know
Unfortunate that she will be the last to realize the truth
How many times will she fall for his lines
She has been in this situation before and been deceived
Should I tell her or should I be cool
Do I intervene or stay out of it
And if I tried I know she'd say I lied
She would dismiss me as a liar if I told her the truth
Mind your business don't hurt her you fool
Stay out of it and avoid causing her more pain
Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
It's best to stay quiet, but I can't help noticing things
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
Staying quiet is valuable, but I can't ignore what I'm witnessing
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BOB CREWE, BOB GAUDIO
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Connie Archer
Frankie Valli should have been given the Kennedy Honors! I’m nominating Mr. Valli., who’s with me?
Marie Labellarte
I'm with you!!
Joel Raab
Totally!!
Vin Sullivan
Me! The first 45 I ever got was a Christmas present from my folks. Big girls don’t cry. I was 8. Looking back, they probably thought it was a life lesson for kids. lol.
Fred Christian
Yes Absolutely
Lionheart Roar
I'm shocked that he has not been honored. If you overlook a legend like Valli your awards programs are IRRELEVANT.
MrACRocha
It is incredible how he has preserved his peculiar voice for all these years and remains active and productive. There is no way not to admire this fabulous performer.
Debbie Pennington Crowe
I hope the reply was really from you.I live in a south ga town called Americus and I'm sure you probably haven't heard of it. I have been a huge fan forever.You are one of a kind
David Lang
This is just perfect!!
Squilliam Fancyson
I mean... he IS lip-syncing. That is a fact, sad to say. He has been for many years now.