Leading up the release of her new EP in 2019, GRAACE has released two melancholic pop singles titled ‘Have Fun at Your Party’ and ‘21st Century Love’. The lyrics in both songs are raw and honest, and they provide listeners with an inside look into GRAACE’s life as a songwriter and as an individual. Connecting with her fan base is important to GRAACE, and the sense of transparency that comes along with this connection is a welcomed dose of reality for a young woman who wants to use her music to help others.
Selfish
GRAACE Lyrics
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maybe get to know myself
but it's hard when the lights all turn off
I feel like I'm living hell
maybe I just need time
think that I read somewhere that shit helps
but it's hard when the lights all turn off
But, how are you doing? How's your mother?
I've been worried about her
and are your panic attacks getting easier or harder?
feels like I'm pulling teeth out, the silence.. no conversation.
been speaking to myself, I think she thinks I'm going crazy
Did you get the job you want? you always said you hate your boss
and I know it's selfish but I hate that you're smiling when I'm not
I know it's selfish, but I can't help it.
In the first verse, GRAACE expresses her struggle with finding herself and dealing with the darkness that consumes her when the lights go out. She had hoped that she would be okay and find solace in self-discovery, but instead, she feels like she is living in a personal hell. She contemplates whether time alone could help, as she read somewhere that it might, but it becomes difficult when the lights turn off and she runs out of the pills that might bring her temporary relief. This verse highlights the internal turmoil and loneliness she experiences.
In the second verse, GRAACE shifts her focus to someone else, asking how they are doing and expressing concern particularly for their mother. She also inquires about their panic attacks, wanting to know if they have become easier or harder to deal with. By asking these questions, GRAACE shows that even in her own struggles, she still cares for the well-being of others and maintains a sense of empathy.
The bridge introduces a sense of frustration and loneliness. GRAACE compares the difficulty of finding connection and having meaningful conversations to pulling teeth out, emphasizing the silence and lack of communication she experiences. She confesses to speaking to herself more often, which may give the impression to others that she is going crazy. This suggests that she is craving genuine connection and feels isolated in her experiences.
In the final lines of the song, GRAACE reveals her inner conflict. She asks about the person's job, knowing that they previously expressed dissatisfaction with their boss. However, she admits that it is selfish of her to feel resentful when she sees them smiling, realizing that her own happiness is lacking. By acknowledging her own selfishness, she conveys her struggle with wanting the best for others while simultaneously longing for her own happiness. It showcases her vulnerable and introspective nature as she grapples with her own emotions.
Line by Line Meaning
I thought that I'd be fine
I believed that everything would be okay
maybe get to know myself
perhaps learn more about who I am
but it's hard when the lights all turn off
yet it becomes difficult when everything becomes dark and lonely
I feel like I'm living hell
I feel as if I am trapped in a state of torment and suffering
maybe I just need time
perhaps I simply require some time to heal and find myself
think that I read somewhere that shit helps
I recall reading somewhere that certain substances can aid in coping
but it's hard when the lights all turn off
yet it remains difficult when everything becomes dark and empty
and I've run out of my pills
and I have depleted my supply of medication
But, how are you doing? How's your mother?
However, I am genuinely curious about how you are managing. Additionally, I am concerned about the well-being of your mother
I've been worried about her
I have been filled with anxiety and concern for her
and are your panic attacks getting easier or harder?
Furthermore, I wonder if your episodes of intense anxiety are becoming more manageable or increasingly challenging
feels like I'm pulling teeth out, the silence.. no conversation.
It feels as if extracting teeth, the absence of communication leaves me feeling empty and isolated
been speaking to myself, I think she thinks I'm going crazy
I have found myself engaged in conversations with my own thoughts, leading me to believe that others perceive me as unstable
Did you get the job you want? you always said you hate your boss
Have you acquired the desired occupation? You frequently expressed your disdain towards your superior
and I know it's selfish but I hate that you're smiling when I'm not
I acknowledge that it is self-centered, but it troubles me to witness your happiness when I am unable to experience the same
I know it's selfish, but I can't help it
I am aware that it is self-indulgent, but I am unable to control this feeling
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Grace Pitts
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Grace Chanbee
This is beautiful ❤
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Julie Williams
Such an incredible voice! 🥰
Steve Music
Love this already 🙂✌️💞
Nele Becker
Beautiful ❤️
Milan Thapa Magar
Love you team 😍😍🥰
Static
Wish it was longer
Tiaan du Preez
❤️🇿🇦
Stem
nice 👍
WhatKindOfBlue
yayy new EP