Better Him Than Me
Gang of Four Lyrics


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He drives all week
Where does he go?
Only down one way streets
He does not know

The car's not his
Car's not his
What does he care?
Does he care?
Goes A to Zed
A to Zed
And back from there
And back from there

Parks in a mall
Hears taped birds call
They built these walls
A palace for us all
They built these walls
A palace for us all
A palace for us all
A palace for us all

Sits fountain side
To ease his mind
The passers by
Avoid his eyes

He always says
always says
You got your health
got your health
Shit happens, yeah
happens, yeah
Just be yourself
Just be yourself

Delayed when he
Slowed down to see
Crash casualty
Better him than me

Crash casualty
Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me

Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me

Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me

He listens to
Talk radio
Strangers who
Break down on the phone

Strangers who
Break down on the phone
down on the phone
down on the phone

Delayed when he
Slowed down to see
Crash casualty
Better him than me

Crash casualty
Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me

Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me
Better him than me

Better him than me
Better him than me




Better him than me
Better him than me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “Better Him Than Me” by the Gang of Four seem to depict the mundane routine of a man who drives around without any purpose or direction. He’s not concerned with the fact that he’s driving a car that isn’t his, and instead only cares about getting from point A to point Z and back again. He parks in a mall, a place that symbolizes consumerism and materialism, and listens to the sound of fake birds as a way to escape from his reality. He seems detached from the world around him, as passersby avoid making eye contact with him.


The song takes a dark turn when the man witnesses a car crash and feels relieved that it’s someone else and not him. He listens to talk radio, where strangers break down on the phone, and again, he feels grateful that he’s not the one in their position. The song seems to criticize our culture of individualism, where people are so consumed with their own lives that they’re indifferent to the plight of others. In a society where self-preservation is prioritized over communal well-being, the line “better him than me” takes on a more sinister tone, suggesting that one can only be happy at the expense of others.


Line by Line Meaning

He drives all week
He spends his entire week driving


Where does he go?
It's unknown where his driving leads him


Only down one way streets
He travels solely on one way streets


He does not know
He lacks knowledge of where he's heading


The car's not his
He's driving a car that isn't his


What does he care?
He doesn't care about the car's ownership


Goes A to Zed
He travels everywhere, from A to Zed


And back from there
And then returns from where he came


Parks in a mall
He parks his car in a shopping mall


Hears taped birds call
He listens to recorded bird sounds


They built these walls
The mall's walls were constructed by someone else


A palace for us all
The mall is a grand place for everyone to visit


Sits fountain side
He sits next to a fountain


To ease his mind
He does this to calm himself


The passers by
People who walk by him


Avoid his eyes
Avoid making eye contact with him


He always says
He has a habit of saying this


You got your health
Being healthy is important


Shit happens, yeah
Bad things can happen to anyone


Just be yourself
It's important to be true to oneself


Delayed when he
He caused a delay when


Slowed down to see
He decelerated to observe


Crash casualty
Someone has suffered an accident


Better him than me
He's glad it wasn't him


Talk radio
He listens to radio shows where people talk


Strangers who
People he doesn't know


Break down on the phone
Break down emotionally while talking on the phone




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