My Son
Gary Puckett & The Union Gap Lyrics


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And with his first breath
His mother died
I alone was there
To hear him cry

This way my only child
My son
Sarah chose his name
Twas Benjamin
My son

Red was his hair
And green his eyes
Looking up at dad
Three times his size

First day of grade school
I walked him there
Looking through the tears
Of pride, I stare at my son

I was his father
His closest friend
Now our house was blessed
With two grown men

At twenty he told me
That he could see
How I tried to be
A family
For my son

Oh, how I miss him
Here with me
Reminiscing how it used to be
Here in my hand
They ave to me
Medals my boy won
For bravery
My son





Oh, oh, ho, he's gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Gary Puckett & The Union Gap's song My Son, poignantly narrate the life journey of a father and his son. The opening lines of the song "And with his first breath, his mother died, I alone was there to hear him cry" establish the underlying melancholy of the song. From the outset, the lyrics express the father's utter devotion and commitment to his son, as he chooses to be present at his son's birth despite his wife's death. The father then goes on to talk about his son's childhood - his son's red hair and green eyes, looking up to his dad three times his size. The lyrics further delve into his son's life, his first day of school, and how he recalls walking him to school, filled with tears of pride, while watching him take his first steps into the world. The song also highlights the close relationship that the father shared with his son, him being his son's closest friend.


As the song progresses, the lyrics portray a transition in their relationship, as both the father and his son become grown men. The father witnesses his son's growth- "At twenty, he told me, that he could see, how I tried to be, a family, for my son." The father takes pride in his son's achievements as he reminisces fondly about the moments they shared. The song takes on an emotional tone as the father holds on to the medals won by his brave son who is now gone, and he misses him deeply.


In summary, the lyrics of the song 'My Son' by Gary Puckett & The Union Gap captures the love and dedication between a father and his son. The song accurately depicts a father's involvement in his son's life as he witnesses his growth and transformation into a grown man.


Line by Line Meaning

And with his first breath
From the moment he was born


His mother died
His mother passed away


I alone was there
No one else was present


To hear him cry
Except for me, who heard him crying


This way my only child
He was my only son


My son
The focus of my life


Sarah chose his name
His mother had picked out his name


Twas Benjamin
The name chosen for him was Benjamin


My son
The most important person in my life


Red was his hair
He had red hair


And green his eyes
His eyes were green


Looking up at dad
When he looked at me


Three times his size
I was much taller than him


First day of grade school
When he first began elementary school


I walked him there
I accompanied him to school


Looking through the tears
Through tears in my eyes


Of pride, I stare at my son
I looked at him with admiration and pride


I was his father
I was not only his dad, but also his close friend


His closest friend
Someone he could confide in and trust


Now our house was blessed
Our home was lucky enough to have two adult men who deeply cared for each other


With two grown men
Us, his father and him as an adult


At twenty he told me
When he turned 20 years old


That he could see
He became aware of


How I tried to be
My attempts to act as a parent


A family
Not just one individual, but us as a whole


For my son
For the sake of my son, To have a family


Oh, how I miss him
I miss him deeply, now that he's gone


Here with me
By my side, in this moment


Reminiscing how it used to be
Thinking about how things were in the past


Here in my hand
What I am holding right now


They gave to me
What he had been awarded


Medals my boy won
Recognitions and medals that he had earned


For bravery
For showing courage and bravery in his life


My son
The center of my life around which everything revolved


Oh, oh, ho, he's gone
My son is not with me anymore




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