Father And Son
Gino Vannelli Lyrics


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Once in a life there comes a man like you
And you bear a son so much like yourself
And it's hard to believe that he's a grown man
But pop I understand

Once every night I thank my lucky stars
You've given me some guiding light
But there comes a time when a father and a son
Can no longer be as one

It took me so long to recover
From the pain of having denied the love I once relied upon
It takes more than time to discover
That for both the young and old
The truth is sometimes cold but right

This is my life
And I've got to hold my own
Even if it means hurting us both
And the wrongs become right when
We stop and wonder how




Look at us
We're better friends now

Overall Meaning

The song Father and Son by Gino Vannelli is a touching tribute to the father-son bond. In the first verse, the singer reflects on how much he resembles his father and how it is hard to believe that he has grown up. However, he assures his father that he understands him. In the second verse, the singer thanks his father for being his guiding light but acknowledges that there comes a time when they cannot be as one anymore. He then goes on to talk about how he had denied the love he once relied upon and how it took him a long time to recover from the pain. The singer concludes the song by talking about how they are better friends now and that sometimes the truth is cold but right.


The song beautifully captures the complexities of the father-son relationship. Although there is love and admiration between them, there are also moments of conflict and pain. The lyrics emphasize the importance of understanding and accepting each other's differences. It also highlights the fact that sometimes letting go is necessary for growth.


Line by Line Meaning

Once in a life there comes a man like you
There are certain rare men who make a huge impact in people's lives and you are one of them


And you bear a son so much like yourself
You have a son who bears a remarkable resemblance to you in character and mannerisms


And it's hard to believe that he's a grown man
It's difficult to comprehend that your son has already become an adult


But pop I understand
However, I comprehend the complexities of our relationship and its evolving nature despite its challenges


Once every night I thank my lucky stars
Every night I express gratitude that I am blessed to have you as my father


You've given me some guiding light
You have provided me with invaluable guidance and support over the years


But there comes a time when a father and a son
However, at some point, every father-son relationship must evolve


Can no longer be as one
As each individual grows and develops, their paths may diverge and the previous closeness may become impossible to maintain


It took me so long to recover
I struggled for a long time to overcome the pain of denying myself the experience of being close to you


From the pain of having denied the love I once relied upon
I denied myself the love that you had offered me in the past and it caused me great pain


It takes more than time to discover
Healing from this kind of emotional wound requires more than just the passage of time


That for both the young and old
This is true for both the younger and the older generations


The truth is sometimes cold but right
The truth can be harsh, but accepting it is the right thing to do


This is my life
I have to live my life on my own terms


And I've got to hold my own
I must take care of myself and be independent


Even if it means hurting us both
Even if this hurts the relationship between us


And the wrongs become right when
When things are put right eventually


We stop and wonder how
We take a moment to contemplate our situation and how we got to this point


Look at us
We need to evaluate how we both are doing


We're better friends now
Our relationship has evolved and we are now better friends than we were father and son previously




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: GINO VANNELLI

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