dear insecurity
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Dear insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Proud of who I am?
Oh insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Just the way I am?
Dear insecurity

I hate the way you make me feel
I hate the things you make me think
You make me sick to my stomach
I wish that I wasn't me
Some days, when I wake up I see myself in the mirror
I feel like what shouldn't be couldn't be clearer
My nose to my clothes, from my chin to my skin
I'll never be good enough ever again
For you, so I changed for you
Then I'd died for you, then you made me blue
If I were you, I'd hate me too
But I already feel like you do
Because, you tell me I'm not worth shit
And the bad luck's on purpose
And if I'm sad then I deserve it
But underneath the surface
I'm hurting, searching and learning
My imperfections make me perfect

Dear insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Proud of who I am?
Oh insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Just the way I am?
Dear insecurity

I feel like I'm dying on the inside
But I smile it off
I'm a mess, I'm depressed, I'm alone and it's all my fault
Did I do something wrong? This feeling's unfair
You're making me anxious but why the fuck do I care?
I overthink everything til' my thoughts are impaired
I hate everything about me I think I need some air
Drink some water, take a breath
Take a moment to be thankful for the reasons that you're blessed
It's not about mistakes you made or failures that you had
It's all about the memories & little things you have
Your freckles and flaws to your body and bruises
Your scars to your beautiful birth marks, the truth is
We're one in the same
So play the cards that your dealt
Nobody likes you more than when you're being yourself

Dear insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Proud of who I am?
Oh insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Just the way I am?
Dear insecurity

I am
Proud of the person who I am
Nobody's gon' tell me who I am
Or who I can be
I am
Taking my life into my hands
Their tired of hiding who I am
I am me, so

Dear insecurity
When you gonna take your hands off me?
When you ever gonna let me be
Proud of who I am?
Oh insecurity
It's time I make you take your hands off me
Set me free, I'm gonna let you see
I'm proud of who I am





Just the way I am
I'm proud of who I am

Overall Meaning

The song "Dear Insecurity" by gnash Ben Abraham is a powerful and emotional ode to coming to terms with one's insecurities and learning to love oneself in spite of them. The lyrics describe the singer's struggles with their own self-worth, influenced and perpetuated by their own internal insecurities. The repetition of the question "When you gonna take your hands off me?" indicates a desire to break free from these negative thoughts and beliefs. The song acknowledges that insecurity can be all-consuming and can make a person feel like they are never good enough, leading to self-hate and self-doubt. However, the song ultimately encourages the listener to embrace their own imperfections and to recognize that they are perfect as they are.


The lyrics touch on the singer's self-consciousness about their physical appearance, as well as their internal thoughts and feelings. There is a focus on the impact that insecurity can have on mental health, with lines such as "I feel like I'm dying on the inside" and "You're making me anxious but why the fuck do I care?". The internal dialogue of the song speaks to the way that negative self-talk can erode a person's self-esteem, leaving them feeling hopeless and alone.


Overall, "Dear Insecurity" is a raw and emotional exploration of the ways that insecurity can impact a person's mental and emotional well-being. The song encourages the listener to recognize their own worth and to embrace their imperfections, ultimately finding freedom from the constraints of self-doubt and self-hate.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear insecurity
The singer addresses their own feelings of insecurity.


When you gonna take your hands off me?
The singer questions when they will be rid of their insecurities.


When you ever gonna let me be Proud of who I am?
The singer wishes to be able to feel confident and proud of themselves despite their insecurities.


Oh insecurity
The artist restates the theme of the song.


I hate the way you make me feel
The artist despises the negativity that comes with their insecurity.


I hate the things you make me think
The singer dislikes the negative thoughts that arise due to their insecurity.


You make me sick to my stomach
The insecurities cause discomfort and unwellness to the singer.


I wish that I wasn't me
At times, the artist wishes that they were someone else to avoid feeling insecure.


Some days, when I wake up I see myself in the mirror
The artist reflects on how insecurity can be triggered by simply looking in the mirror or seeing oneself in a vulnerable state.


I feel like what shouldn't be couldn't be clearer
The artist feels that their flaws and insecurities are apparent and impossible to ignore.


My nose to my clothes, from my chin to my skin
The singer analyzes every aspect of themselves, both physical and mental, and finds faults in each one.


I'll never be good enough ever again
The artist believes they'll never reach a level of satisfaction or contentment with themselves due to their insecurity.


For you, so I changed for you
The singer conveys how insecurity can cause them to change themselves to meet the standards of others.


Then I'd died for you, then you made me blue
The singer expresses how their insecurity may have caused them to make significant sacrifices for others, but their efforts were not appreciated.


If I were you, I'd hate me too
The singer acknowledges that their self-hatred could be perceived negatively by others.


But I already feel like you do
The artist feels that their insecurity causes them to assume others also dislike them.


Because, you tell me I'm not worth shit
The artist receives negative feedback from their insecurity, telling them that they are not valuable or worthy of love and respect.


And the bad luck's on purpose
The singer feels as if their insecurity attracts negative outcomes and situations in their life.


And if I'm sad then I deserve it
The singer feels as if they are the cause of their own sadness and pain due to their insecurities.


But underneath the surface
The artist implies that there is more to them than what their insecurities reveal.


I'm hurting, searching and learning
The artist reflects on how their insecurity causes them pain, but also prompts them to search for ways to improve and learn about themselves.


My imperfections make me perfect
The artist finds beauty and perfection in their imperfections, and embraces their flaws as part of who they are.


I feel like I'm dying on the inside
The singer experiences significant emotional pain due to their insecurities.


But I smile it off
The artist hides their pain and puts on a façade of happiness to avoid revealing their insecurities.


I'm a mess, I'm depressed, I'm alone and it's all my fault
The singer blames themselves for their negative emotions and feels isolated due to their insecurities.


Did I do something wrong? This feeling's unfair
The singer questions themselves and wonders if they are to blame for their insecurities or if they are being unfairly inflicted on them.


You're making me anxious but why the fuck do I care?
The singer recognizes that their insecurity causes them anxiety, but questions why they still give it power over them.


I overthink everything til' my thoughts are impaired
The artist tends to overanalyze things to the point of damaging their mental state.


I hate everything about me I think I need some air
The artist becomes overwhelmed by their negative self-talk and criticism and feels the need to take a break.


Drink some water, take a breath
The singer suggests simple ways to help calm oneself down and ease anxiety.


Take a moment to be thankful for the reasons that you're blessed
The singer suggests practicing gratitude to shift the focus from negative to positive thoughts.


It's not about mistakes you made or failures that you had
The artist reinforces that flaws and mistakes do not define a person's worth or value.


It's all about the memories & little things you have
The artist encourages focusing on the positive aspects of one's life, such as cherished memories or small joys, to combat insecurity.


Your freckles and flaws to your body and bruises
The artist finds beauty in the imperfections, such as freckles and scars, that make them unique.


Your scars to your beautiful birth marks, the truth is
The singer continues to highlight the beauty in the things that make someone different, such as scars or birthmarks.


We're one in the same
The artist suggests that their audience can find common ground with them when it comes to feeling insecure or flawed.


So play the cards that your dealt
The singer advises accepting oneself and working with what one has.


Nobody likes you more than when you're being yourself
The singer suggests that embracing one's true self is essential to gaining self-respect and acceptance.


I am Proud of the person who I am
The singer declares that they have found pride in themselves despite their insecurities.


Nobody's gon' tell me who I am
The artist asserts that they will not allow others to define or limit them.


Or who I can be
The artist emphasizes that they have the power to choose their own path and identity.


Taking my life into my hands
The singer feels empowered to take control of their own life and decisions.


Their tired of hiding who I am
The singer is no longer willing to hide or be ashamed of who they are.


I am me, so
The artist embraces their true identity and declares that they will no longer be controlled by their insecurities.


It's time I make you take your hands off me
The artist expresses their desire to rid themselves of their insecurities and take back control of their life.


Set me free, I'm gonna let you see
The artist hopes that overcoming their insecurities will allow others to see the true, unguarded version of themselves.


I'm proud of who I am
The singer comes full circle and reiterates the newfound self-respect and confidence they have gained.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BEN ABRAHAM, GARRETT NASH, JIMMY ROBBINS, JON HOLMES, MAX ANGLES, RILEY KNAPP, ROSABELLE EALES, SCOTT HARRIS, SEAN EADS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Hplss_Drmr

"ur freckles
& flaws
to ur body
& bruises
ur scars
to ur beautiful
birth marks
the truth is
we're one & the same
so play the cards that ur dealt
nobody likes u more than when ur being urself"

Yeah. That part actually made me cry? I don't think I've ever felt so...connected to a song like I feel to this one... It's scary how relatable this song is to me. I love you and how talented you are. I'm so happy I stayed up for this. :): 💜



All comments from YouTube:

@gnash

thank u for being here, thank u for listening, & thank u for existing. i hope this song helps 📝 :): 💜 - g

@justignoreme5842

Thank you for the good music

@desayan7915

it does help ((((: thank you so much!!

@rarissime5015

Of course this song helps! Thank you Gnash, for your existence, your songs, your lyrics and you! Keep rocking cause we’re rooting for you! ❤️

@andreagadaleta4777

i follow yuo since you started and this is the perfect song for my girl , thanks :D

@madi9279

This song made me cry when you played it in Detroit. It was so good and I relate to it so much😭❤️❤️

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@dartheart7973

That "nobody likes you more than when ur being yourself" is underrated damn I felt that.

@turner9019

Reminding you to listen to this again :)) i hope you found yourself and doing fine.

@rebeckapoli2855

Honestly, every single person in the world should listen to this song. Believe it or not, everyone goes through a period of insecurities and in some people those never go away... This made me tear up, but it made me feel better Thank you

@emilia-ws5yp

your comment made me tear up so much wow-

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