There You Are
Goo Goo Dolls Lyrics


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Give me a reason now that I can understand
I pick up the pieces now and put 'em in my hand
I've been up and down for you
My suffering extreme
I fell on my face for you
Now I know what it means
And I self destruct
I close my eyes and there

There you are
There you are
You are
There you are

Yeah you can run out west, forget you know my name
You say you got your shit together, but you ain't got no faith
Method in madness
Now there's madness in my soul
I run from the darkness now
I've got no place to go
And I self destruct
I close my eyes and there,

There you are
There you are
You are
There you are

And there you are
There you are
You are
There you are
There you are




There you are
There you are

Overall Meaning

The first stanza of "There You Are" by Goo Goo Dolls seems to be about finding closure and understanding after a relationship ends. The singer is asking for a reason to help him understand why the relationship failed, as he is trying to pick up the pieces and move on. He admits to experiencing extreme suffering and even self-destructing, but alludes to the idea that he has gained self-awareness and understanding from the experience. The repetition of "There you are" in the chorus may suggest that while the relationship may be over, the memories and feelings associated with it still remain and are hard to escape.


In the second stanza, the singer seems to be addressing the other person directly. He implies that the other person has left, possibly moving out west, and is now trying to start over without him. The singer says that the other person claims to have their life together, but he doubts that they have any faith or real connection to something greater. He speaks of there being madness in his own soul, almost as if he is trying to run from it, but cannot escape the memories of the other person. Again, the repetition of "There you are" suggests that the other person and their influence is hard to escape from.


Overall, the song seems to be about trying to come to terms with the end of a relationship and finding closure. The repetition of the phrase "There you are" emphasizes the idea that even though the other person may be physically gone, their memory and impact on the singer's life still remain.


Line by Line Meaning

Give me a reason now that I can understand
I need an explanation that I can comprehend and make sense of.


I pick up the pieces now and put 'em in my hand
I'm trying to rebuild myself after a difficult situation.


I've been up and down for you
I've gone through a lot of emotional ups and downs because of you.


My suffering extreme
The pain and anguish I feel is intense.


I fell on my face for you
I experienced failure and embarrassment because of my love for you.


Now I know what it means
I finally understand the true extent of my feelings for you.


And I self destruct
I have a tendency to sabotage myself and my relationships.


I close my eyes and there
I shut down emotionally and feel lost.


There you are
You are the cause of my emotional turmoil and struggles.


Yeah you can run out west, forget you know my name
You can try to escape from me and our past, but you won't be able to completely forget about me.


You say you got your shit together, but you ain't got no faith
You claim to have your life together, but you lack faith and trust in others.


Method in madness
I'm trying to find a logical reasoning for my chaotic emotions.


Now there's madness in my soul
My emotions have become overwhelming and uncontrollable.


I run from the darkness now
I try to escape from my negative thoughts and emotions.


I've got no place to go
I feel lost and have no sense of direction.


And there you are
You're still causing me pain and turmoil even when I try to move on.


There you are
You continue to be a constant source of emotional turmoil in my life.


You are
You are the reason for my emotional struggles and turmoil.


There you are
You still have a grip on my emotions and thoughts, even after everything we've been through.


There you are
You continue to be a prominent presence in my life, whether I want you to be or not.


There you are
You are a reminder that I can't escape the pain and struggles of my past.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: GEORGE TUTUSKA, JOHN RZEZNIK, ROBERT C. JR. TAKAC

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@fwysrecords

Old Goo Goo Dolls is the best. They wrote some of the catchiest punk rock. Super Replacements style. Awesome band, and I back them hard. Sometimes I only listen to Superstar Car Wash, Hold Me Up, and Jed front to back.

@markrosenquist8259

This is a great album.

@jamesmeyer4228

And why do you ask? Because those 3 albums are quite possibly THE BEST albums of all time genre-wide

@BGalligan65

Word

@yeahdogify

So clearly ripping off Paul Westerberg, and i couldnt be happier about it. I love this band.

@nicolasarevalo1851

This song is so simple but so good like it’s for when your sad but also happy

@MisterJayFar

All things considered, GGD are one of the most underrated musical acts of all-time. Just churning out bangers for 30 years.

@FIDIOT-cringe

By far! Along with one of their influences, The Replacements.

@julietteoscaralphanovember2223

My son knows I'm a huge fan and took me to see them twice, the last time it was the GGD and Train, great concert!!

@janinetollot209

Can the whole world just please go back to this hair style, clothes style and music style? I'd be in a heaven full of awesomeness

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