I Don't Wanna Be In Love
Good Charlotte Lyrics


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She's going out to forget they were together
All that time he was taking her for granted
She wants to see if there's more
Than he gave she's looking for

He calls her up
He's trippin' on the phone now
He doesn't want her out there
And alone now

He knows she's movin' it
Knows she's using it
Now he's losing it, she don't care

Everybody put up your hands
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feel the beat now
If you've got nothing left
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Back it up now
You've got a reason to live
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feelin' good now
Don't be afraid to get down
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

He was always giving her attention
Looking hard to find the things she mentioned
He was dedicated but most suckers hate it
That girl was fine but she didn't appreciate him

She calls him up
She's trippin' on the phone now
He had to get up
And he ain't comin' home now

He's tryin' to forget her
That's how we come with him
When he first met her
When they first got together

Everybody put up your hands
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feel the beat now
If you got nothing left
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Back it up now
You got a reason to live
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feelin' good now
Don't be afraid to get down
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

To the beat, to the beat, to the beat
You got nothing to lose
Don't be afraid to get down

We break up, it's something that we do now
Everyone has got to do it sometime
It's okay, let it go
Get out there and find someone

It's too late to be trippin' on the phone here
Get off the wire, know everything is good here
Stop what you're doin', you don't wanna ruin
The chance that you got to find a new one

Everybody put up your hands
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feel the beat now
If you got nothing left
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Back it up now
You got a reason to live
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feelin' good now
Don't be afraid to get down
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

No, no




Now you know what to do
So come on, get up, girl

Overall Meaning

The song "I Don't Wanna Be In Love" by Good Charlotte is about a girl who is trying to move on from a relationship where she felt taken for granted. She wants to find someone who will appreciate her and give her more than her previous partner did. Her ex-boyfriend is upset when he finds out she is out and about without him, but she doesn't care and continues to look for someone who will treat her better. The chorus of the song is an anthem for anyone not looking for love or trying to move on from a relationship.


The first verse of the song talks about the girl going out to forget her ex-boyfriend. It shows that she is hurt and wants to move on from the relationship. The second verse talks about her ex-boyfriend and how he is trying to forget about her too. The chorus is repeated multiple times, which makes it a memorable and catchy part of the song.


Overall, the song is about being okay with not being in love or trying to move on from a toxic relationship. It tells the listener that it's alright to not be in love and that it's better to focus on finding yourself and living your life.


Line by Line Meaning

She's going out to forget they were together
She's going out to have some fun and forget about her past relationship with him


All that time he was taking her for granted
He didn't appreciate her and took her for granted for all the time they were together


She wants to see if there's more
She wants to explore and see if she can find something better than what she had with him


Than he gave she's looking for
She wants more from a relationship than what he was willing to give her


He calls her up
He calls her on the phone


He's trippin' on the phone now
He is emotional and upset when talking to her on the phone


He doesn't want her out there
He doesn't want her out having fun and moving on without him


And alone now
He doesn't want her to be alone without him


He knows she's movin' it
He knows she's out having fun without him


Knows she's using it
He knows she's using her freedom to move on without him


Now he's losing it, she don't care
He's emotionally unstable and she doesn't care about his feelings anymore


Everybody put up your hands
Everybody raise their hands up in the air


Say I don't wanna be in love
Declare that you don't want to be in a romantic relationship


Feel the beat now
Feel the rhythm of the music


If you've got nothing left
If you have nothing left to give


Back it up now
Move backwards


You've got a reason to live
You have a reason to keep living


Feelin' good now
Feeling good about yourself now


Don't be afraid to get down
Don't be afraid to dance and have fun


He was always giving her attention
He was always trying to get her attention and show her affection


Looking hard to find the things she mentioned
He tried hard to find and do the things that were important to her


He was dedicated but most suckers hate it
He was loyal and committed to the relationship, but most people don't like that


That girl was fine but she didn't appreciate him
She was attractive, but she didn't value him and his efforts in the relationship


She calls him up
She calls him on the phone


She's trippin' on the phone now
She is emotional and upset when talking to him on the phone


He had to get up
He had to leave his place and go somewhere else


And he ain't comin' home now
He is not coming home to her now


He's tryin' to forget her
He's trying to forget about her and move on


That's how we come with him
That's how he copes with the situation


When he first met her
When they first met each other


When they first got together
When they first started dating


We break up, it's something that we do now
Breaking up is a common thing that happens now


Everyone has got to do it sometime
Everyone will go through a breakup at some point in their life


It's okay, let it go
It's okay to let go of the past and move on


Get out there and find someone
Go out and find someone else to love


It's too late to be trippin' on the phone here
It's too late to be upset on the phone


Get off the wire, know everything is good here
Stop calling and know that everything is okay now


Stop what you're doin', you don't wanna ruin
Stop being upset or trying to interfere, because you could ruin the other person's chance to move on


The chance that you got to find a new one
The opportunity to find a new person to love


No, no
No, don't do that


Now you know what to do
Now you know what you need to do


So come on, get up, girl
Come on and get up, girl




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JOEL MADDEN, BENJI MADDEN, DON GILMORE

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She's going out to forget they were together
All that time he was taking her for granted
She wants to see if there's more
Than he gave she's looking for

He calls her up
He's trippin' on the phone now
He doesn't want her out there
And alone now

He knows she's movin' it
Knows she's using it
Now he's losing it, she don't care

Everybody put up your hands
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feel the beat now
If you've got nothing left
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Back it up now
You've got a reason to live
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feelin' good now
Don't be afraid to get down
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

He was always giving her attention
Looking hard to find the things she mentioned
He was dedicated but most suckers hate it
That girl was fine but she didn't appreciate him

She calls him up
She's trippin' on the phone now
He had to get up
And he ain't comin' home now

He's tryin' to forget her
That's how we come with him
When he first met her
When they first got together

Everybody put up your hands
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feel the beat now
If you got nothing left
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Back it up now
You got a reason to live
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feelin' good now
Don't be afraid to get down
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

To the beat, to the beat, to the beat
You got nothing to lose
Don't be afraid to get down

We break up, it's something that we do now
Everyone has got to do it sometime
It's okay, let it go
Get out there and find someone

It's too late to be trippin' on the phone here
Get off the wire, know everything is good here
Stop what you're doin', you don't wanna ruin
The chance that you got to find a new one

Everybody put up your hands
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feel the beat now
If you got nothing left
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Back it up now
You got a reason to live
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

Feelin' good now
Don't be afraid to get down
Say I don't wanna be in love
I don't wanna be in love

No, no
Now you know what to do
So come on, get up, girl



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