Brides Have Hit Glass
Guided by Voices Lyrics


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I don't come around
Never call or let her know
I got a life of my own
You know I hate to be around her
When she's like that
I wrote a song once about her
Called "The Brides Have Hit Glass"
You know it just won't last
To be on top of your own world
With no guardrails to cling to
You fall so very fast
It's very odd to find her up again
Staking out expansion
Seeking new exposure

And when she holds out an empty glass
And she comes for a handout
I ask for the same thing-it's sad
And I hold on so sure I can take all she can
Just to be around her
Just to feel bad

One day I will know
That's it's a waste of time
And there's a better road ahead of me
I just don't know how to make it there
So I'll just hang around and take my chance
Once again I'll roll the dice
And try to hang on to my shrinking paradise

And I'll hold out an empty glass
And I'll come for a handout
And I'll ask for the same thing-it's sad
And I'll hold on so confident
That's it all I can give




To try to find my way back
Just to hit glass

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Guided by Voices' "Brides Have Hit Glass" seem to tell a story of a tumultuous relationship, where the singer seems to be struggling to break away from a destructive cycle. He admits that he does not call or come around, and he hates being around her when she is in a certain mood. Despite writing a song about her ("The Brides Have Hit Glass"), he knows the relationship just will not last. It seems the singer is drawn to her, though, and he admits to coming back even when he knows he shouldn't. The line "just to feel bad" suggests that he is caught in a cycle of seeking out this relationship that ultimately leads to pain.


The singer also seems to question his own behavior, acknowledging that one day he will know that it is a waste of time to be in this relationship. However, for now, he continues to hang around and take his chances. He seems to feel as though he is on top of his own world, but without any guardrails to cling to, he falls very fast. The repetition of holding out an empty glass and asking for a handout suggests that the singer is looking for something from this relationship that he may never find.


Ultimately, the final line "just to hit glass" seems to suggest that the singer knows that his actions will lead to heartbreak, but he does it anyway. The repeated imagery of holding out an empty glass suggests that the singer is always wanting more, but ultimately he will end up empty-handed.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't come around
I rarely visit her.


Never call or let her know
I don't communicate much with her.


I got a life of my own
I have my own life to lead.


You know I hate to be around her When she's like that
I don't like being around her when she's in a certain state.


I wrote a song once about her Called "The Brides Have Hit Glass"
I wrote a song about her called "The Brides Have Hit Glass".


You know it just won't last To be on top of your own world With no guardrails to cling to You fall so very fast
Being at the top of your own world without any support can lead to a fast fall.


It's very odd to find her up again Staking out expansion Seeking new exposure
It's surprising to see her trying to grow and search for new opportunities.


And when she holds out an empty glass And she comes for a handout I ask for the same thing-it's sad
When she asks for help, I do too.


And I hold on so sure I can take all she can Just to be around her Just to feel bad
I hold on to the belief that I can handle everything just to be around her, even if it makes me feel terrible.


One day I will know That's it's a waste of time And there's a better road ahead of me
Someday I'll realize that it's pointless and there's a better path for me.


I just don't know how to make it there So I'll just hang around and take my chance Once again I'll roll the dice And try to hang on to my shrinking paradise
I don't know how to get there, so I'll stay and see if I can make it work. I'll take the gamble and try to hold onto what little paradise I have left.


And I'll hold out an empty glass And I'll come for a handout And I'll ask for the same thing-it's sad And I'll hold on so confident That's it all I can give To try to find my way back Just to hit glass
I'll ask for help and hold on to the belief that it's all I can do, even if it only leads me to failure.




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