You Didn't Know Me When
Harry Connick Jr. Lyrics


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There's a few things I haven't told you
And before you hear them from someone else
To clear up misconceptions
I'd rather tell you myself
There was a time

I rode a roller coaster
From Coney Island to Key West
I held on with one finger
So the other ten could rest
It may be hard to believe
Hard to comprehend
But baby, you didn't know me when

I played third chair trombone
In an out-of-work polka band
We looked for gigs on ships
In countries that had no land
It may be hard to believe
We hit the top ten
But baby, you didn't know me when

If you want a resume I'll put it in writing
It's only good for a day and the contents are frightening

I gave long-winded speeches
I was a head-of-state
I wrote an endless novel
Called See Jane Love And Hate
It may be hard to believe




I'm reticent
But baby, you didn't know me when

Overall Meaning

In Harry Connick Jr.'s song You Didn't Know Me When, the singer is revealing various aspects of their past to their current romantic partner. The singer mentions that there are a few things that they haven't told their partner yet, and they want to clear up any misunderstandings before their partner hears about it from someone else. The first thing the singer reveals is that in their past, they rode a roller coaster from Coney Island to Key West, while holding on with just one finger. This is a metaphor for the risks and challenges that the singer has taken in their life. It may have been hard for their partner to believe, but the singer assures them that they didn't know the singer when they were taking these risks.


The singer then goes on to reveal that they played third chair trombone in an out-of-work polka band, and they used to look for gigs on ships in countries that had no land. The singer states that it may be hard for their partner to believe, but their band actually hit the top ten at some point. This reveals a different side of the singer's personality- their love for music and their willingness to take whatever opportunities came their way. The singer then goes on to reveal that they gave long-winded speeches, were a head-of-state, and wrote a novel called See Jane Love And Hate. This may seem unbelievable to their partner because the singer is now reticent and reluctant to share these parts of their past. Overall, the song is about revealing the different facets of oneself, and allowing oneself to be vulnerable with their partner.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a few things I haven't told you
There are some things about my past that I haven't shared with you yet


And before you hear them from someone else
I want to tell you myself before you hear about it from someone else


To clear up misconceptions
I want to make sure there are no misunderstandings about my past


I'd rather tell you myself
I'd rather be the one to share my story with you


There was a time
In the past, before you knew me


I rode a roller coaster
I had some wild experiences


From Coney Island to Key West
All over the place


I held on with one finger
I barely held on


So the other ten could rest
I was tired and needed a break


It may be hard to believe
I know it might be difficult to imagine


Hard to comprehend
Or difficult to understand


But baby, you didn't know me when
But that was before you knew me


I played third chair trombone
I played in a not-very-important role


In an out-of-work polka band
In a band that didn't have many gigs


We looked for gigs on ships
We tried to find work wherever we could


In countries that had no land
Even in some unusual places


It may be hard to believe
This might be surprising to you


We hit the top ten
But we did have some success


But baby, you didn't know me when
But that was before you knew me


If you want a resume I'll put it in writing
If you want a full list of my experiences, I can write them down


It's only good for a day and the contents are frightening
But it won't be relevant tomorrow, and some of it might be scary


I gave long-winded speeches
I spoke for a long time


I was a head-of-state
I had an important political role


I wrote an endless novel
I wrote a very long book


Called See Jane Love And Hate
With a dramatic title


It may be hard to believe
I know this sounds far-fetched


I'm reticent
But despite all that, I'm still a little shy


But baby, you didn't know me when
But you didn't know me back then




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: HARRY CONNICK JR, RAMSEY MCLEAN

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Comments from YouTube:

@lucalascola

We played this at my grandfather's funeral. He was my hero. This song just sends me wonderful memories of him.

@NeoSoul.

I remember tripping out over the creative musical riffs in this song back in the day ! Peace and light to all you jazzers out there! 🙌🙏

@sjgreene785

He is one of a kind!
Loving it today..it is cold & rainy and sunshine when you sing. Thank you!
One day I will dance with my love to all !💃❤💃❤

@harryconnickjr254

t is my uttermost pleasure seeing your amazing and pleasant comment on my music channel. 😍This really brought great joy to my heart, remain blessed. I know you will be shock Seeing my mail, that to show you how grateful I am😍❤

@biancamoya-winegar8601

I miss him!! I used to play this and dance around cleaning the house...I can't believe that was 20 years ago!!

@harryconnickjr254

Yes it was such a great memory, I hope all is well with you?

@shannonthomas8629

Harry is still around creating all sorts of awesome music. Huge fan for over 30 years. Endless, amazing talent.

@LadyAnna.888

I adore Harry Connick,his music is great! I have lots of it to listen to! This one is among my favourites!

@harryconnickjr254

t is my uttermost pleasure seeing your amazing and pleasant comment on my music channel. 😍This really brought great joy to my heart, remain blessed. I know you will be shock Seeing my mail, that to show you how grateful I am😍❤

@Auggeeee93535

If i could sing Like anybody in the world I'd love to sing like Harry !! I Love this guy!!

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