Not Alone
Harry Gardner Lyrics


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Open your eyes and tell me what you see
Am I among the forgotten?
Please say you remember me
In a room where light hides behind the curtains
In a bed where you′re lost in a dream
In a time the world is full of darkness
In a house that doesn't suit quieter than these
We know you′re there somewhere inside
I say a prayer for you to smile
Looks like the angels owe me one today
But I stay strong, I know it won't be long
Till I see the old days
Open your eyes and say hello
Open your mind and just let go
Tell me to get the remote
So we can watch your favourite show
And ruffle my hair and say it's bad and tell me there′s chocolate in your handbag
And tell me just how much I′ve grown
And let me know I'm not alone
It happens too fast
I find it all so strange
I never knew that this could happen
I blinked once, and everything had changed
I remember how you′d come around and see us
And you'd always have the same cup for your tea
Oh that cup sits on the shelf now
Waiting for the day you come back to me oh

We understand good things don′t last
But I'd give anything just to see you laugh
Looks like the angels owe me one today
But I stay strong I know it won′t be long
Till we see the old days
Open your eyes and say hello
Open your mind and just let go
Tell me to get the remote
So we can watch your favourite show
And ruffle my hair and say it's bad and tell me there's chocolate in your handbag
And tell me just how much I′ve grown
And let me know I′m not alone
And I will never understand how a
Precious memory can fade away
But I'm not worried about that ′cos I
Know you're in good hands
And you are safe
Piano plays
Open your eyes and say hello
Open your mind and just let go
Tell me to get the remote
So we can watch your favourite show
And ruffle my hair and say it′s bad and tell me there's chocolate in your handbag




And tell me just how much I′ve grown
And let me know I'm not alone 3x

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Harry Gardner's song "Not Alone" revolve around the memory of a loved one who is no longer present. The first verse starts with a series of questions asking if the loved one has been forgotten or not. The following verses talk about wanting to see the loved one again and be reassured that they are not alone. The song's tone is emotional and reflects the longing for the loved one's company. The chorus repeats the lines "Open your eyes and say hello, open your mind and just let go" while hoping the loved one is in a happier, comfortable place.


The song's bridge contains a piano instrumental that sets a somber mood. The lyrics mention how memories fade, but the singer knows the loved one is in good hands and safe. The song ends with the last repetition of the chorus, echoing the singer's desire to connect with the loved one.


The song is a tribute to Harry Gardner's grandmother, who had dementia. He wrote and performed the song on Britain's Got Talent in 2017, which was widely appreciated and emotionally gut-wrenching. The song connects with anyone who has felt the loss of a loved one, and the singer's voice brings out the raw emotions behind the lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

Open your eyes and tell me what you see
Are you aware of your surroundings and notice me?


Am I among the forgotten?
Do you remember me or have I been lost in your memory?


Please say you remember me
I hope you haven't forgotten about me and our shared memories.


In a room where light hides behind the curtains
In a dimly lit room where everything appears bleak and lacking energy.


In a bed where you're lost in a dream
In a place where you're deep in dreamland and not cognizant of your surroundings or me.


In a time the world is full of darkness
At a time in history where everything seems uncertain and negative.


In a house that doesn't suit quieter than these
In a place of solitude where it's too unsettlingly silent for comfort.


We know you're there somewhere inside
We know that you're still there within yourself, regardless of the physical distance between us.


I say a prayer for you to smile
I hope that wherever you are, you're happy and content with your life.


Looks like the angels owe me one today
I feel like I've done something good and now I'm due to be rewarded for it.


But I stay strong, I know it won't be long
I'm tough and I'm determined to be patient, knowing that it'll all work out sooner or later.


Till I see the old days
Until we're able to reminisce like we used to about the good old days.


Open your eyes and say hello
Be alert and greet me, recognize my presence.


Open your mind and just let go
Be open to my suggestions and ideas, and be willing to relax and let things happen.


Tell me to get the remote
Ask me to handle the small tasks that you used to enjoy doing but now can't.


So we can watch your favourite show
Let's spend time watching the things that you used to enjoy, and create a more relaxed environment.


And ruffle my hair and say it's bad and tell me there's chocolate in your handbag
Let's be silly like we used to, with gentle teasing and the sharing of your favorite treats.


And tell me just how much I've grown
Let's catch up on lost time and talk about everything that's happened since we last spoke.


And let me know I'm not alone
Offer some comfort by ensuring me that I'm not the only one struggling and that you're still with me in spirit.


It happens too fast
Life is fleeting and goes by in the blink of an eye.


I find it all so strange
It's disorienting and hard to comprehend how quickly things can change in life.


I never knew that this could happen
I was unprepared for the changes that life would bring, and didn't realize how much things could change.


I blinked once, and everything had changed
Things shifted so quickly that I barely had time to react before everything was different.


I remember how you'd come around and see us
I cherished the times that you used to make an effort to visit and spend time with us.


And you'd always have the same cup for your tea
I remember the small, repetitive details that made up our time together and how they brought a sense of comfort.


Oh that cup sits on the shelf now
Now that you're gone, that same cup sits idle and collects dust, unseen and unused.


Waiting for the day you come back to me oh
Hoping that one day you'll return and we can pick up where we left off, and that cup can once again have purpose.


We understand good things don't last
We know that all things must end, even the good ones.


But I'd give anything just to see you laugh
Despite the knowledge that things can't last, I'd still do anything to see you happy and joyous.


And I will never understand how a precious memory can fade away
It's hard to accept that even the most cherished memories can blur and be forgotten over time.


But I'm not worried about that 'cos I know you're in good hands
Even though memories may fade, I'm at peace knowing that you're in a good place and that your happiness is ensured.


Piano plays
The music is a reflection of the emotions I'm feeling, and helps me express them.




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Verse 1:
Open your eyes,
And tell me what you see,
Am I among the forgotten?
Please say you remember me,
In a room where might hides behind the curtains,
In a bed where you're lost in a dream,
In a time the world is full of darkness,
In a house, that doesn't suit quiet and peace,

Pre Chorus:
We know you're there, somewhere inside,
I say a prayer, for you to smile,
Looks like the angels, owe me one today,
But I stay strong, I know it won't be long till I see the old days

Chorus:
Open your eyes and say hello,
Open your mind and just let go,
Tell me to get the remote, so we can watch your favourite show,
And ruffle my hair and say it's bad,
And tell me there's chocolate in your hand bag,
And tell me just how much I've grown,
And let me know I'm not alone

Verse 2:
It happened too fast,
I find it all so strange,
I never knew that this could happen,
I blinked once and everything had changed,
I remember when you'd come around to see us,
And you'd always have the same cup for your tea,
Oh that cup sits on the shelf now,
Waiting for the day you come back to me ohh,

Pre Chorus 2:
We understand good things don't last,
But I'd give anything to hear you laugh,
Looks like the angels, owe me one today,
But I stay strong, I know it won't be long till I see the old days

Chorus:
Open your eyes and say hello,
Open your mind and just let go,
Tell me to get the remote, so we can watch your favourite show,
And ruffle my hair and say it's bad,
And tell me there's chocolate in your hand bag,
And tell me just how much I've grown,
And let me know I'm not alone

Verse 3:
And I will never understand, how a precious memory can fade away,
But I'm not worried about that because I know you're in good hands,
And you are safe

Chorus:
Open your eyes and say hello,
Open your mind and just let go,
Tell me to get the remote, so we can watch your favourite show,
And ruffle my hair and say it's bad,
And tell me there's chocolate in your hand bag,
And tell me just how much I've grown,
And let me know I'm not alone,
And let me know I'm not alone,
And let me know I'm not alone



All comments from YouTube:

@catty8363

I'm so obsessed with this song. He's sooooooo talented

@morcellemorcelle618

my grandpa passed away last year after having lived his last ~10 years with Alzheimers.
I can relate to this so badly💔😢

@amywilliams7338

Yrsa Hagström I'm exactly the same 💓

@patriciamaxine7792

mine died from it 1.1.2019

@rosiegold4367

Morcelle Morcelle I’m so sorry.my grandad has Alzheimer’s and I’m so scared to los whim too after losing my nan ;0;

@malloryvandoren2085

Me too my cousin has Alzheimer’s

@DaDON1432

@@rosiegold4367 me too I feel u girl just hold on to the memories and see your grandad as much as possible That's what I do xx

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@catherinedenby2621

who else crys every time?

@joeulmer9760

Me crying right now at 9:42pm

@johnwinter3395

@@joeulmer9760 same 😭😭

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