Breakup Song
Harry James Angus Lyrics


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Why would you raise a hand against me?
You used to hold yourself against me
Any man, any man, any man would be broken
By the words that you have spoken

It's nothing much, everybody does it
There's a hater in every lover
It's just that breaking up is hard to do

And the next time that I see you
I'll say "Hi, how have you been?"
And then I'll turn around and leave you, "well, I guess I'll see you"
We used to stay up all night talking about all our hopes and dreams

And it's nothing much, everybody does it
There's a hater in every lover
It's just that breaking up is hard to do

And Should she wait another day now
Before she says what she's been thinking?
She thinks you're weak and you're lazy, man you used to be amazing
I guess I must admit that I have changed

And it's nothing much, everybody does it
There's a hater in every lover
It's just that breaking up is hard to do

It's nothing much, everybody does it




There's a hater in every lover
It's just that breaking up is hard to do

Overall Meaning

The song "Breakup Song" by Harry James Angus is a ballad about the emotional turmoil of a relationship coming to an end. The lyrics are reflective and melancholic, describing the pain and confusion that comes with a breakup. The opening lines, "Why would you raise a hand against me? / You used to hold yourself against me" suggest a change in the dynamics of the relationship, where the singer is now being hurt by their partner. The second stanza acknowledges that the end of the relationship is a common experience, with the uncomfortable realization that "There's a hater in every lover". The repetition of the line "It's just that breaking up is hard to do" highlights the difficulty of moving on and accepting the loss of a relationship.


The bridge of the song shifts to a contemplation of the future and the possibility of running into the ex-partner. The singer describes a superficial conversation, where they will ask how their former partner is doing, but ultimately walk away. The final stanza suggests that the relationship may have ended due to a change in the qualities of the partner ("She thinks you're weak and you're lazy, man you used to be amazing / I guess I must admit that I have changed"), but ultimately reaffirms that the pain of a breakup is something that everyone must experience.


Line by Line Meaning

Why would you raise a hand against me?
Why would you hurt me, when I always stood by your side


You used to hold yourself against me
You used to be my support, and now you are my enemy


Any man, any man, any man would be broken
Anyone would be hurt or shattered by the cruel words you have spoken


By the words that you have spoken
Your harsh words have caused too much pain and left me broken


It's nothing much, everybody does it
Breaking up may be common, but it still hurts too much to admit


There's a hater in every lover
Even in the sweetest love, there is an ability to hate and hurt one another


And the next time that I see you
The next moment we meet, I will put on a brave face, pretending to be with you


I'll say "Hi, how have you been?"
I will be polite and ask about your life, to not create a scene


And then I'll turn around and leave you, "well, I guess I'll see you"
After a short conversation, I'll leave, pretending that we will soon meet again


We used to stay up all night talking about all our hopes and dreams
We used to share our deepest thoughts and desires, that now only seem like they were just dreams


And Should she wait another day now
Should she delay her confession, trying her best to eliminate her doubts once and for all


Before she says what she's been thinking?
Before saying what she had been holding back for long


She thinks you're weak and you're lazy, man you used to be amazing
She thinks you have become directionless and lacking your previous impressive quality


I guess I must admit that I have changed
I must say that after a breakup, life seems different and nothing remains the same


It's nothing much, everybody does it
Breaking up is a universal experience, and it happens to everyone because of compatibility issues and differences


There's a hater in every lover
True passion can turn into fierce hatred if we do not understand or adjust to each other's differences


It's just that breaking up is hard to do
The song is all about how heart-wrenching it is to let go of someone who was once an essential part of our life.




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