I’d Rather Be Dead
Harry Nilsson Lyrics


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I'd rather be dead, I'd rather be dead
I'd rather be dead than wet my bed
I'd rather be dead, I'd rather be dead
I said dead than wet my bed
Oh, I'd rather be gone,

Than carry on
I'd rather go away
Than feel this way
Oh, I'd rather be there
Where you haven't got a care
And you're better off dead
Though it doesn't seem fair
Oh, I'd rather be dead
I'd rather be dead

I'd rather be dead than wet than wet my bed
I'd rather be dead, I'd rather be dead
I'd rather be dead than wet than wet my bed

I'd rather keep my health, and dress myself
But you're better off dead than sitting on a shelf

I'll tie my tie 'till the day I die
But if I have to be fed then I'd rather be dead
And when he takes my hand on the very last day
I will understand because it's better that way

Oh! It's nice to be alive
When the dream comes true
You'll be better off dead
It could happen to you
Oh! I'd rather be dead
I'd rather be dead
I'd rather be dead than wet my bed
I'd rather be dead, I'd rather be dead




I'd rather be dead than wet than wet my bed
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Overall Meaning

The song "I'd Rather Be Dead" by Harry Nilsson features a jarring title that catches the listener's attention. It speaks about preferring death to a humiliating and helpless situation, which is wetting the bed. The lyrics are simple but deep and poignant. It conveys the character's extreme despair and the desire to escape from scenarios where they lack control.


The character in the song is not only talking about wetting the bed but also a more significant feeling of being trapped, helpless, and ashamed. The character prefers death than to live in such a state. The phrase "I'd rather be gone than carry on" exemplifies this feeling. The character imagines a place where there are no worries and wants to be "where you haven't got a care." The song ends with the idea that "it's nice to be alive when the dream comes true," but there is still the possibility of being "better off dead."


Overall, the song shows that despite being a simple refrain, it speaks deeply about how desperation can lead to thoughts of death. It's an intense expression of what can happen when a person feels out of control and helpless in their lives.


Line by Line Meaning

I'd rather be dead, I'd rather be dead
I would rather not exist at all, I would choose death over anything else.


I'd rather be dead than wet my bed
I would rather be lifeless than lose control of my bodily functions while sleeping.


Oh, I'd rather be gone,
I would prefer to vanish, cease to exist.


Than carry on
Continuing to live seems unbearable.


I'd rather go away
I would rather depart from this life, never to return.


Than feel this way
The current emotional state is unbearable.


Oh, I'd rather be there
Anywhere else, as long as it's not here.


Where you haven't got a care
A place without worries or troubles.


And you're better off dead
Even death is preferable to the current situation.


Though it doesn't seem fair
Despite the injustice of the situation, death is the better option.


Oh, I'd rather be dead
I would rather not exist, death would be preferable.


I'd rather keep my health, and dress myself
I want to maintain my independence and not rely on others for my basic needs.


But you're better off dead than sitting on a shelf
Being confined to a life of immobility and stagnation is worse than death.


I'll tie my tie 'till the day I die
I will continue to dress myself as long as I live.


But if I have to be fed then I'd rather be dead
If I lose my ability to eat on my own, I would rather die.


And when he takes my hand on the very last day
Referring to death, when it comes for me.


I will understand because it's better that way
I will accept my fate, as dying is better than living in such conditions.


Oh! It's nice to be alive
Life can be pleasant and enjoyable at times.


When the dream comes true
When aspirations are fulfilled.


You'll be better off dead
Ironically, even when wishes come true, death is still preferable to some.


It could happen to you
Anyone can end up feeling like death is the better option.


I'd rather be dead than wet my bed
I would prefer death over losing control of bladder or bowels while sleeping.


I'd rather be dead, I'd rather be dead
Death is the preferred choice over life.


I'd rather be dead than wet than wet my bed
Death is preferable over the potential humiliation of wetting the bed.




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: HARRY NILSSON, RICHARD PERRY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@nunyanunya6398

i watched The Point over and over as a child.,strange..i kinda sound and look like him!


Hey ma! Was harry ever a milkman? Lol


My very first friend in life... his dad was rambkin frontman for a rocknroll band.,,


unrelated...yo 3 dog night! U for forgot something backstage in SLC bro



All comments from YouTube:

@HarryNilssonCatalogue

Only Nilsson would write a song about the one thing no one wants to write a song about.

@brendamoore3775

The group singing with him is the Senior Citizens of the Stepney & Pinner Choir Club No. 6, London, England. They are adorable!!!

@bobdudy7177

I remember hearing this in High School in the 70's and thinking, now "those are some Hip Oldsters." I miss Harry.

@johnnydepp3801

Theyre all dead

@Bogframe

Not to mention soused to the gills on brandy, G-d bless 'em!πŸ˜€

@Nico-pl6sf

They ded

@LazyIRanch

Those three adorable ladies dancing in a circle together brought back memories of my mom and her two sisters. They loved to sing, and when they were together they constantly cut up and laughed. Their maiden name was "Cagle" but my dad called them the "Cackle Sisters". The older they got, the more they didn't give a crap what people thought.
They were cracking up at a restaurant so much once, the waiter came over, looking disturbed and asked, "Have you ladies been DRINKING!?" None of them drank, and my oldest aunt said, "Darling, we get this way from breathing AIR!"

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@mikeohagan2206

these old folks lived through 2 world wars with a depression in between,, much tougher than we will ever be. break out the sherry dance and sing. while you still can.

@jeffryhammel3035

That's exactly what I thought. Perceptive comment!

@99madneon

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚tougher, you said. These are brainwashed by the government and they were scared of black people. Tougher my ass

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