The Fear
Hefner Lyrics


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Inside the fear we find the tenderness,
Inside the thought we find the urge,
Inside the love we find the heart,
But the heart is weak and so it breaks, inside we find the fear

Inside the language we find joy,
But stupidity can only annoy,
The stupid can also feel the pain,
I have reasons for my joy, but not for being lame

Be strong for me when I can't be strong for you,
Be there for me but only if your true,
Though I try hard I will sometimes let you down,
I will sometimes let you down.

Don't be faithful if your hearts not truly there,
We are useless if we don't embrace the fear,
Though I try hard I will sometimes let you down,
I will sometimes let you down.

Your hair was unwashed it was greasy,
You had the dirt beneath your nails,




I could tell from your clothes you were trustworthy,
I could tell from your eyebrows, you had lots to tell

Overall Meaning

The song "The Fear" by Hefner explores the intertwined emotions of fear, tenderness, love, and pain. The lyrics suggest that inside the fear we find tenderness, inside the thought we find the urge, inside the love we find the heart, but the heart is weak and can easily break leading to fear. The language can bring joy but can also be annoying if used stupidly. The stupid can also feel pain just like everyone else. The singer explains that they have reasons for their joy but not for being lame.


The song talks about the importance of being strong for each other even when we can't be strong for ourselves. But at the same time, the singer urges their partner to be there only if they are true. The singer admits that they will sometimes let their partner down despite their best efforts. The lyrics seem to suggest that faithfulness is key in a relationship, and if one's heart is not truly there, then there is no point in being faithful.


The song ends with an interesting verse where the singer seems to visually describe a person, perhaps their partner. From their unwashed hair, dirty nails, and clothes, the singer could tell that they were trustworthy. The eyebrows also suggest that there was a lot to tell. The lyrics are open to interpretation but seem to suggest that outward appearances can be misleading, and we should look deeper to truly understand the people around us.


Line by Line Meaning

Inside the fear we find the tenderness,
Fear and tenderness coexist. Fear makes us vulnerable and tender.


Inside the thought we find the urge,
Thoughts give rise to our desires and urges.


Inside the love we find the heart,
Love is the core of human emotion and it comes from the heart.


But the heart is weak and so it breaks, inside we find the fear
The heart is fragile and susceptible to pain which ultimately leads to fear.


Inside the language we find joy,
Language is a medium to express feelings of joy and happiness.


But stupidity can only annoy,
Lack of intelligence can lead to annoyance and unpleasantness.


The stupid can also feel the pain,
Even those who lack intelligence can experience emotional pain.


I have reasons for my joy, but not for being lame
I have justifications for my happiness, but not for being foolish.


Be strong for me when I can't be strong for you,
Support me when I am not capable of supporting you.


Be there for me but only if your true,
Be present for me, but only if your intentions are genuine.


Though I try hard I will sometimes let you down,
Despite my efforts, I may disappoint you at times.


Don't be faithful if your hearts not truly there,
Do not pretend to be faithful if your heart is not invested in it.


We are useless if we don't embrace the fear,
We cannot make progress without facing our fears.


Your hair was unwashed it was greasy,
Your hair was not clean, and it had excess oil.


You had the dirt beneath your nails,
There was dirt stuck under your fingernails.


I could tell from your clothes you were trustworthy,
Your clothes suggested that you were reliable and honest.


I could tell from your eyebrows, you had lots to tell
Your eyebrows showed that you had many stories to share.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: DARREN HAYMAN

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