The Promise
Holly Near Lyrics


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Can′t you see a promise just makes us feel good now
Then tomorrow, if we break up, one of us will be asking
How could you do this to me darling
When we promised life a rose
The promises that lovers make are wishful thinking I suppose

How can anyone know if love is forever
Or only for a moment
How can anyone know
Stay with me awhile, it may be a long while

Maybe we'll live together and the years will have their way
One morning we will wake up and one of us will say
How could you do this to me darling
Did you know it from the start
The promises we never made were outlasted by the heart

Can′t you see a promise just makes us feel good now
And we grew up with the notion that lovers must take a vow
But I can tell you in this moment as life unfolds each day




The way that we've been making love
I don't want to go away

Overall Meaning

In "The Promise," Holly Near explores the concept of promises within relationships and questions their validity and permanence. The lyrics reflect the uncertainty and fragility of love, highlighting the idea that promises can bring temporary happiness but often lead to disappointment when they are broken.


Near suggests that promises provide a temporary sense of security and well-being. They make us feel good in the present moment, offering hope and reassurance. However, the reality is that promises can be easily broken, leading to heartache and confusion. The question of "How could you do this to me darling?" arises when one person feels betrayed or let down by the other, emphasizing the disappointment and hurt caused by broken promises.


Near further explores the transience of love, wondering how one can truly know if love is forever or only meant for a fleeting moment. This uncertainty highlights the impermanence of relationships and the unpredictability of human emotions. The lyrics suggest that love is fluid and subject to change, making long-term commitments difficult to fulfill.


The song also acknowledges the passage of time within relationships. Near muses that staying together may require enduring difficult periods and embracing the passage of many years. However, she brings forth the inevitability that at some point, one person may question the other about their actions, expressing the pain of realizing that the promises they never made have been overshadowed by the depth of their feelings.


In the final paragraph, Near reiterates the perspective that promises are fleeting and often fail to withstand the test of time. She expresses a desire to stay in the present moment, cherishing the love that is being nurtured without wanting it to end. The way they have been making love is meaningful and significant to her, and she does not wish for it to fade away. This conclusion reinforces the central theme that love cannot be confined or guaranteed by promises; it is a continuous journey that unfolds each day.


Line by Line Meaning

Can't you see a promise just makes us feel good now
A promise gives us temporary comfort and reassurance


Then tomorrow, if we break up, one of us will be asking
In the future, if our relationship ends, one of us will question why


How could you do this to me darling
Why did you hurt me, my love?


When we promised life a rose
When we had hopes and dreams for a beautiful future together


The promises that lovers make are wishful thinking I suppose
Promises made in love are often based on unrealistic hopes


How can anyone know if love is forever
It's impossible to determine if love will last eternally


Or only for a moment
Or if it will only be temporary


Stay with me awhile, it may be a long while
Stay with me for some time, it could be a significant duration


Maybe we'll live together and the years will have their way
Perhaps we will share our lives and the passing years will influence us


One morning we will wake up and one of us will say
One day, we will wake up and one of us will express


How could you do this to me darling
Why did you hurt me, my love?


Did you know it from the start
Did you anticipate this outcome from the beginning?


The promises we never made were outlasted by the heart
The unspoken promises endured longer than the explicit ones


And we grew up with the notion that lovers must take a vow
We were raised believing that lovers should make a formal commitment


But I can tell you in this moment as life unfolds each day
However, I can assure you, in this present moment as life progresses


The way that we've been making love
The way we have been expressing our love physically and emotionally


I don't want to go away
I have no desire to separate




Writer(s): Nial Toner, Barry Tashian, Holly Tashian

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