Friend
Hunter Hayes Lyrics


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Went from strangers to hello
From going out to going home
To ending up in what we didn't know we started
Went from saying this won't work
To you wrapped up in my shirt
And somehow now I have the keys to your apartment

I guess the best mistakes
Still can't be undone
I just hope that when you think of me
You don't think of me as one

I'm not asking for a lover
I just want us not to end, yeah
If I can't have you
Then I want the closest thing
No, I'm not asking to get back again
No, tonight, I'm just asking for a friend

(Ah, ah)

I went from waking up with you
To lonely filling up the room
To knowing you could never love me at my darkest
I can get over your kiss
And the late night talks I miss
It's the distance that you made that hits the hardest

Oh, I guess the best mistakes
Still can't be undone
I just hope that when you think of me
You don't think of me as one

I'm not asking for a lover
I just want us not to end, yeah
If I can't have you
Then I want the closest thing
No, I'm not asking to get back again
No, tonight, I'm just asking for a friend, yeah

(Ah) ooh, I'm just asking
(Ah) a friend, a friend, a friend
(Ah) oh, I'm just asking
(Ah) a friend, a friend, a friend

I'm not asking for a lover
I just want us not to end, yeah
If I can't have you
Then I want the closest thing
No, I'm not asking to get back again




No, tonight, I'm just asking for a friend
No, tonight, I'm just asking for a friend

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Friend" by Hunter Hayes tell a story of a complex relationship that has evolved from being strangers to intimately connected, yet unable to fully commit to each other. The singer reflects on the journey they have been on with this person, from the initial excitement of getting to know each other to the realization that their connection may not lead to a conventional romantic relationship.


The song explores the concept of making mistakes in relationships and how even the most significant ones cannot be undone. The singer seems to acknowledge that their relationship may not have been perfect, but they hope that they are remembered for more than just the errors they made along the way. There is a sense of longing and a desire for closure within the lyrics, as they express a hope that their presence in the other person's life was not solely defined by their missteps.


The singer clarifies that they are not seeking a romantic partner but rather a continued connection with the other person in some form. They express a wish for the relationship to not come to an end completely, indicating a desire for companionship and closeness even if it cannot be romantic. The lyrics convey a sense of acceptance and resignation, understanding that sometimes relationships may not lead to what we initially hoped for but can still hold value in different ways.


Overall, the song captures the bittersweet emotions of a relationship that has changed and evolved over time, with a plea for understanding, friendship, and the importance of maintaining a connection even if it cannot be romantic. It touches on themes of acceptance, longing, and the complexities of human relationships, showcasing the vulnerability and honesty of the singer's feelings as they navigate the aftermath of a significant connection.


Line by Line Meaning

Went from strangers to hello
Transitioned from being complete strangers to exchanging greetings


From going out to going home
Shifted from spending time together outside to heading home separately


To ending up in what we didn't know we started
Found ourselves in a situation we didn't anticipate or plan for


Went from saying this won't work
Initially believed the relationship wouldn't succeed


To you wrapped up in my shirt
Now you're wearing my shirt, symbolizing closeness and comfort


And somehow now I have the keys to your apartment
Surprisingly have access to your personal space, indicating trust and intimacy


I guess the best mistakes
Recognizing that even though mistakes were made, they led to positive outcomes


Still can't be undone
Even though they can't be reversed, the mistakes have brought growth and understanding


I just hope that when you think of me
Desiring a positive image in your thoughts


You don't think of me as one
Hoping not to be seen as just another failed relationship


I'm not asking for a lover
Not seeking a romantic partner


I just want us not to end, yeah
Simply wishing for the connection between us to continue


If I can't have you
In the absence of a romantic future together


Then I want the closest thing
Desiring the closest bond possible if a romantic relationship is not possible


No, I'm not asking to get back again
Not looking to rekindle a past romantic relationship


No, tonight, I'm just asking for a friend
Currently seeking companionship and support as a friend




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Daniel Michael Gleyzer, Hunter Easton Hayes, Roland Max Spreckley

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@Tennista641

Went from strangers to hello
From going out to going home
To ending up in what we didn't know we started
Went from saying this won't work
To you wrapped up in my shirt
And somehow now I have the keys to your apartment

I guess the best mistakes
Still can't be undone
I just hope that when you think of me
You don't think of me as one

I'm not asking for a lover
I just want us not to end
If I can't have you
Then I want the closest thing
No I'm not asking to get back again
No tonight, I'm just asking for a friend

I went from waking up with you
To lonely filling up the room
To knowing you could never love me at my darkest
I can get over your kiss
And the late night talks I miss
It's the distance that you made that hits the hardest

I guess the best mistakes
Still can't be undone
I just hope that when you think of me
You don't think of me as one

I'm not asking for a lover
I just want us not to end
If I can't have you
Then I want the closest thing
No I'm not asking to get back again
No tonight, I'm just asking for a friend

I'm not asking for a lover
I just want us not to end
If I can't have you
Then I want the closest thing
No I'm not asking to get back again
No tonight, I'm just asking for a friend

No tonight, I'm just asking for a friend



@astrosemyfriend

Hunter, Val, may I say this...

It truly made me SO happy 😊 to meet y’all in Mona, Utah. I was super excited 😆, happy 😁, proud 🥲, anxious 😬, and sort of embarrassed 😅. But the moment I came up ️to y’all, I felt like my whole life CHANGED (in a good way). I will NEVER forget that night and that awesome concert 🎫. I cannot wait to meet y’all again soon. Y’all were awesome to meet and hopefully we can meet again. Truly y’all inspire me every minute of my life and y’all made one of my dreams come true that night.
By the way, Asking For A Friend 👫🏼🫂: how did you write✍🏻 “Friend” and “Tell Me”? and where were the 2 music videos filmed 🎬? Also, what month are you gonna release Red Sky???
Can’t wait 😆 to see this epic music video and I truly cannot wait for Red Sky Part ll to be released!
Love y’all!
Signed,
Dakota (with love and inspiration) ❤
P.S.: That jacket looks good 👍🏻 on you.
P.P.S.: Y’all and the rest of the team are the best. Special shout-out to the team! Y'all are awesome! 📣



All comments from YouTube:

@redrain241

This is one of those songs you crank up driving alone in your car... and scream the lyrics with tears rolling down your face. This song hits me right in the heart.

@sharonvidrine8737

@Sintia2008_

😢 yes

@cheyannecollins4945

Hunter hayes is such an under-rated artist now a days he definitely deserves An award

@hunterhayes6725

@tanocosa

i agree! 🙌👏

@hunterhayes6725

@@tanocosa If I may ask what’s your favorite song of mine you love most and have you been to any of my Concert before.

@evanmomin9122

He was nominated for the grammys back at 2013

@derekcole3119

Yes he is

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@tamarmccarthy4700

You never cease to amaze me 😢 your voice and the words that leave you heart and soul in every song, you can’t deny the effects it does to your whole body, mind, heart and soul

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