Good Man
India.Arie Lyrics


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La-la-la
La-la-la, la
La-la-la
La-la-la, ooh

I remember the first day
I met you
We were so young
You were a blessing
And there was no guessing
You were the one
Love is so crazy
We had a baby
And said our vows
That's when you told me
Should anything happen
I can hear you now
You told me

If the sun comes up
And I'm not home
Be strong
If I'm not beside you
Do your best to
Carry on
Tell the kids about me
When they're old enough to understand
Tell them that their daddy was
A good man, yeah

La-da-da
Da-da-da-da-da

First anniversary
Remember we
Chose a star
And as I stand under it
I can't help but wonder if
You see it where you are
For whatever reason
We don't see the seasons
Change again
Go there with peace of mind
We'll meet on the other side
'Cause true love don't end
Ooh baby

If the sun comes up
And you're not home
I'll be strong
If you're not beside me
I'll do my best to
Carry on
I'll tell the kids about you
When they're old enough to understand
I'll tell them that their daddy was
A good man

La-da-da, la-da-da ooh
La-da-da, la-da-da ooh

Two eyes
Looking
Up at me
Pointing to the picture like, "Where is he?"
Mama, are you okay?
What did the paper say
To make you cry that way?
It said your daddy lived for you
And your daddy died for you
And I'll do the same

Now, baby if the sun comes up
And I'm not home
Be strong
If I'm not beside you
Do your best to
Carry on
Tell your kids about me
When they're old enough to understand
Tell them that your daddy was
A good man, a good man





La-da-da
Da-da-da-da-da

Overall Meaning

India.Arie's song "Good Man" is a heartfelt tribute to her lover, who she envisions leaving her behind after his untimely death. The song begins with a nostalgic account of their earliest days together, reminiscing on infancy of their love, how their family and friends would be amazed and talking about their eternal devotion to each other. On the first anniversary of their union, they decided to choose a star and look at it often - a symbol of their love.


Throughout the song, the listener is led to believe that the couple is married and has children together as Arie sings about telling the kids about their Daddy and how he was a good man. The third verse, which is the bridge of the song, is where the emotions reach their peak. Arie takes the role of the mother here, holding a photograph of her partner and children asking about him. It is explained that the father lived and died for his children and she will do the same.


The overall sentiment of "Good Man" is one of incomparable love, devotion, and commitment. India.Arie's tender vocals and lyrics highlight the pain of the loss of a lover - but also a sincere appreciation of the time they spent together and the knowledge that it will never be forgotten.


Line by Line Meaning

La-la-la
Intro


La-la-la, la
Intro


La-la-la
Intro


La-la-la, ooh
Intro


I remember the first day
Reflecting on the first time she met her lover


I met you
Referring to the person she fell in love with


We were so young
They were young when they met


You were a blessing
Her lover was a blessing in her life


And there was no guessing
There wasn't any doubt in her mind that her lover was the one for her


You were the one
Her lover was the one she chose


Love is so crazy
Love can be unpredictable and inexplicable at times


We had a baby
They had a child together


And said our vows
They made a commitment to each other


That's when you told me
Her lover made a promise to her


Should anything happen
In case something goes wrong


I can hear you now
She remembers her lover's words vividly


If the sun comes up
When the morning comes


And I'm not home
If she's not there with her lover


Be strong
Be strong without her


If I'm not beside you
If she's not there with him


Do your best to
Try your hardest to


Carry on
Move on with life


Tell the kids about me
Tell their children about their love story


When they're old enough to understand
When their kids are mature enough to comprehend


Tell them that their daddy was
Tell them that their father was


A good man, yeah
A good man who loved his family well


First anniversary
Celebrating their first wedding anniversary


Remember we
She reminisces about their past


Chose a star
They chose a star together


And as I stand under it
As she stands under the star


I can't help but wonder if
She wonders whether he can see the same star where he is


You see it where you are
Referring to her lover


For whatever reason
For unknown reasons


We don't see the seasons
They aren't able to experience life changes together


Change again
Things will never be the same like before


Go there with peace of mind
She wishes him peace of mind


We'll meet on the other side
She hopes to meet him again on another plain of existence


'Cause true love don't end
Their love will never die or diminish


Ooh baby
Expresses her love for him


Two eyes
Their child's eyes


Looking
Looking at her


Up at me
Her child is looking at her


Pointing to the picture like, "Where is he?"
He is asking where his daddy is


Mama, are you okay?
Her child is concerned about her tears


What did the paper say
Asking about the reason for her sadness


To make you cry that way?
Her child wants to know why she's upset


It said your daddy lived for you
Referring to her lover's obituary


And your daddy died for you
Her lover gave his life to protect his family


And I'll do the same
She assures her child that she will do the same as her lover


Now, baby if the sun comes up
Addressing her child


If I'm not home
If she's not there with her child


Be strong
Be strong without her


If I'm not beside you
If she's not there with him


Do your best to
Try your hardest to


Carry on
Move on with life


Tell your kids about me
Tell their children about their love story


When they're old enough to understand
When their kids are mature enough to comprehend


Tell them that your daddy was
Tell them that she will always love them like their father did


A good man, a good man
A good man who loved his family well


La-da-da
Outro


Da-da-da-da-da
Outro




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: India Arie, Shannon Sanders, Andrew Ramsey, Will Baker

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