Disconnection
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Anne Hvidsten You wanna know what love is Well, you can taste it…
Chaos In Control Distraught by the sight of my own being So much that…
CLLLAPS Disconnection This disconnection will be my resurrection T…
fourseasns Disconnection in my message. Going through it can’t help it…
Jill Cunniff 8 o'clock comes, you bring me some flowers Tell me how…
Jolaurlo I want fight, I want cry, I want sucker...I want…
Rockoko Everyone is a hostage of mobile network. We always try…
Ruby Station I drink tonight to lose control I drink tonight but I feel…
Shadi G You lift it all up Why it hurts so bad to…

The Mr. T Experience My old girlfriend just went insane Disconnection in her bra…
Vita Bergen Change is coming faster now I cannot keep this world in…

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12Heaven's Backdoor4:31

13Disconnection4:09

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Krzysztof Kierlanczyk

2y↑30

Would recommend Wisdom of Trauma movie by Gabor Mate. On its official website you can donate $0 and get acess to it. Eye opener

Eldon Moore

2y↑4

Thank you for mentioning this.🙏🏼

rescuediaries

2y↑18

Thank you Dr. Maté. I never tire of hearing you say it. It's a simple truth, so simple that it slips between your fingers the second you turn your back. You made a real difference to my life. Love and connection.

Acidobay

2y↑6

Go into your own ground and know yourself there. Be fearless. Faith and Trust over fear.

Erik

1y↑2

What an eye opener! I’ve been following Gabor Maté since a while and everything he says feels so true. All those personalities I had during my life and now when I’m 50 years old I see the patterns and be more aware of my true self. I was never myself due to traumatic childhood. Labels like adhd, borderline and so on, medication all over the place and this is the real reason for everything. Thank you Gabor. I’m from Budapest also

Kimber Knutson

2y↑16

This is brilliant and profound. I have been interested in psychology most of my life, and I just turned 58 two days ago. As part of past graduate work, I read many of the primary works of such psychological luminaries as Freud, Jung, Klein, Kristeva, Lacan, Winnicott, and many others because my "subject position" for my graduate work was psychoanalytic criticism. I also have been in therapy myself off and on for about 25 years. Last year, my current therapist recommended Besel van der Kolk's book The Body Keeps the Score, which has been on the New York Times Best Seller list for quite some time with good reason. His argument that the body can carry trauma around at the cellular level of which the mind has zero memory just blew my mind and made me re-evaluate everything I thought that I understood. I think what is presented here today so beautifully by Dr. Mate explains why trauma can live in the body and there be no mental memory of it. Sometimes things can happen that are so traumatic, the "organism" cannot survive without loss of memory and disconnection from the various feeling apparatuses. I say organism because I think animals can have similar effects from similar causes. My daughter used to volunteer for Kares, a no-kill animal shelter, when she was in high school. The founder of Kares kept all of the dogs that were not good candidates for adoption. She and her husband lovingly called them, "the criminals." These were dogs who would never recover from, say, their owners intentionally throwing them down a flight of stairs. I agree that this ability to disconnect and forget is an adaptive trait that allows the organism to survive the trauma, especially when we have to spend more time dependent on the folks who caused the original trauma. When this happens, traditional "talk therapy" not only has no value. It can be downright threatening to someone stuck in survival made because going back can re-enliven the original feelings and cause a negative outcome, like a "fight or flight" response. I believe that it is the traumatized body that initiates this response, not the mind. I particularly appreciate the part here about the trauma itself not being the long-term problem. The real problem is the disconnect that is engendered by the trauma. Not all trauma causes disconnection. The whys and wherefores of disconnection are too overdetermined to be able to explain or predict why and when or how. If you put 100 people in the same circumstance, you are going to get 100 different responses. I listened to something
recently on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, which I have appreciated for various reasons and in various ways for many years. The second tier of Maslow's pyramid above food and shelter concerns personal safety. It seems to me that a traumatized person who disconnects to survive will probably spend the remainder of their lives stuck at level two and never get to enjoy the other tiers that include affiliation, esteem, and self-realization. What a senseless tragedy and a monumental waste of life. I actually got excited today when I saw this posted because Dr. Gabor's work has meant as much to me as Dr. van der Kolk's work. Thank you so much. : )

Kimber Knutson

@DJK 2816 Indeed. Wow. : )

DJK 2816

2y↑1

Wow.

David Robinson

Thankyou for your reco.mendations on books and your comment...
48 and 2nd tier has allways seemed like a rainbow I've chased all my life, never finding gold , but narsisistic parasites and bad people who are willing to give me time..
I'm sorry to say, but to hear you say it's a waste, when referring to victims, talking about someone's lifelong struggle, as a waste may have truth , but real victims already know how fucked up they really are, there is shit all help and support regardless how many billions our goverment wastes on shit that dosnt equate to real front line lives being saved...no wonder not many make it to being old..
Any victim of childhood abuse, who manages to even make it to 21 yrs ,30 yrs, 40 yrs of age are not a waste..they are fuckin warriors of the highest class...suicide or overdose or jail or mental hospital,
The missed richness of what a person can experience in this wonderful life is taken away ...trust, love connection, and the rest ya mentioned..the only thing wasted was the love and compassion ,the perpetrators once held in thier heart, ....not having a go, appreciate ya comment..just saying a life is a waste ,when the person is reading, didn't make for peace ....but I see what ya meant too...
I spent most my life feeling like I was watching my life as a movie....
A character ..no ability to feel much, connect for real..now I'm 48 single and broke and broken down with inflammatory issues, stomach issues, ulcers and much more.....
Thankyou everyone for being a part of addressing truth and freedom..

David Robinson

@Krzysztof Kierlanczyk what is imf therapy..please

Kimber Knutson

@Way Of Thinking : )

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Richard Jack

2y↑2

I just found this page. Yes, I checked every box you mentioned, then it got weird. At 9yrs old, I told my father he would die very soon. I felt the agony of his death 3 days later. From that point forward I've been tumbling through space. I desperately need to reconnect with that energy. I've basically gone through the motions . I feel like I lost my spirit.

lolotta

That's very powerful informations Dr. Gabor! It's exactly what I've been working on, alone, for over 30 years now. All my grattitude and admiration to you and your amazing work.

Ila P

2y↑2

so true, it's about the connection to self, never thought about it before. very powerful

Einar Einarsson

2y↑4

Its so bright. You dont want to be vulnerable and weak if its damaging you psychologically and grinds you down. If your nervous-systeme believs that your life is under attack its not strange it reacts in someway to protect you. If its necessary you may have to kill all your weaknessess that anyone can attack. At all costs.... If it means you are not soon a human anymore you do it for defence. So all those dysfunctional adaptatiins have just emerged from one only simple reason.... Defence and survival. You have to be this or that, a mean son of a gun for getting those girls, the worthiness, protecting my most valuable thing. My sense of feeling goid with myself. And people will try your strenghts and the stringer you get the more is the reward and acchievement to breaking through those defensive systems and the more you have to develope them into absurdum. And then you of course as a intelligent and wise person say: This is absurd, its out of proportions, its not life. You start to compensate. You starve for attention, you do anything for it. Destroy yourself for it and you want to just say. Hey... This is absurd, this is insanity though relatively functioning. I have had enough of this... And you wabt to find your purpose..To belong to somethi g bigger than me... To be a part of a society a group servi g higher purposes than my. Im miserable alone and you are soon declining. Your peak in life is wasted. You are wasted. Im angry. People wasted away my life... They are stupid and its not the case. But its a pandoras bow but for certainly this is a way for me to make my footpri ts on this earth, leave my mark, attention, beeing important, be good, be smart and you know you are victimizing yourself... Ahaaaa.... Thats good and bad. The good thing and reason it releases dopamin in your brain to comfort you in an awful situatiln and works a while but is poison in the long run and leave you more miserable. So you say.... Ok... I will carry this with dignity, no bitterness, no hate, no resentment. You just make that choice and its a good thing. You are less miserable than yesterday. And then you say.... Ok..... Im done..... My life is a tragedy beyond comprehension, no one understands what an chievement Im doing here. Im wasted. I am robbed by I am a partner in crime with those thieves so in that stadge you have nothing left so you crucifying yourself, give your last parts of life for ransom. I have nothing.... I have nothi g left..... If I have nothing left I have nothing to give.... The only thing I can give now is my life... So what to do now?

Franklin Gauer

"Ok... I will carry this with dignity, no bitterness, no hate, no resentment." You would not believe how long I've carried that phrase with me to get through. It's been the impetus behind my entire adult life. Thank you very much for your words here!!

Snowy Tuesday

1y↑1

I pray that my sweet darling baby inner-child
will completely totally entirely permanently heal 100%, on every level, in every way.
That she will constantly have benevolent powerful guardian spirits and angels to help her along the way, eternally.

Ayélen Ayelen

1y↑1

thank you very much for this video ...thak you for your lights ! you give answers ... can you give us some hints on how to connect to ourselves, to our deep inside and dicover how to dicover who we really are ?? psychoanalysis ? how ?? 🙏 ... thank you ...🙏

david cohen

2y↑2

Thank you for this video!

Way Of Thinking

thanks to you David

Mariana Feliciano

1y↑3

But what if my trauma wasn't as intense. Like I had generally happy childhood. There were only 3 events that happened to me as a child but it wasn't abuse nor I was abandoned by my parents on the contrary, they are loving and supporting. My trauma is based on being bullied as a child and teeneager and having 3 different older men touched me inappropriately when I was 7, 11 and 12. Yet lately I just feel so disconnected. I feel lonely but I don't want to talk to anyone or connect with anyone at the moment 🤔

sonia beinroth

Being touched inappropriately at 7,11 and 12 is deeply traumatising for any child and it is abuse.You seem to be down playing it ..dismissing your trauma and thus dismissing yourself.

Mariana Feliciano

1y↑1

@Franklin Gauer thank you so much for responding! So my trauma it is valid. My mind play trick on me cause I tend to think the worst of myself because of it

Franklin Gauer

1y↑2

Dr. Mate addresses this specifically in one of his videos or books. I just can't recollect where he mentions this. He specifically states that it's not the intensity of the Trauma, but it IS trauma nonetheless. I believe the book might be the one I'm reading now called In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts.

Hind Oubraim

1y↑2

Of you have connection , do you need validation ? The world is built on trauma .

Katherine Lydon

That’s where borderline personality comes from in my opinion. So tragic

Monique Lageweg1111

So true

H. Badger

😔💔

Chris GTW

2y↑1

You explained everything to the perfect but didn’t explain how to fix this.

Cypress

A quote from a separate interview that might serve as a starting place: “There are multiple ways in, but it begins with the recognition that the healing process is necessary and possible. What all good healing processes have in common is reconnecting you with yourself, both on the emotional and the physiological levels. Whether you look at Somatic Experiencing, expressive dance, EMDR, Brainspotting, Internal Family Systems, or my particular work, Compassionate Inquiry, it’s all about reconnecting people with their authentic feelings and emotions.

Just a few weeks ago, I found myself in the shoals of some psychological travail, so I called up a breath therapist and I’ve started a daily breath practice. It can even be something on that simple level.”

Hope that helps!

My_houSe

2y↑3

That's the "problem". There's no one solution and different for everyone. But the solution is at least in yourself, thats for sure. No one can say what you have to do but most of the time it starts with selfcare, try to figure out what you want and not want, setting boundaries and stop helping everyone else and therefore forget yourself. Something like that...it's difficult