Grown Men Cry
J. Paul Jr And The Zydeco Nubreeds Lyrics


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Rita J Verse 1:
Do real men cry have feelings kinda shy hardbody stone face yeah coming out the Chi somebody no place to express my guy in the trap it's a wrap yeah set him up to die stifled on the emo tip rifled on a ego trip trifled on the evil’s whip upheaval yo get a grip deebo’d your ancestors on a ship payment slip dip in the gazebo they auctioning your people body parts in shipping carts stop listening to sheeple selling us a wicked dream but we were never equal threw envy on the glow whitewashing that’s blow get snuffed or get low get rich or be po crime pays illegal time plays like sequel swoop down like seagulls on black and brown people mama on the go development in fetal lethal pain in tow pay the rent no repo.

Chorus:
Real men have to cry sometime too (REPEAT 3x) Oh didn’t I didnt I didn’t I...... yeah

Neak Verse:
All I see is pressure, so do this mean I’m lesser, I seek to love myself and not seek out way to suppress a, feeling dehumanized, so many centuries deceived it’s hard to kill these lies, it’s showing up in how I handle emotions the hardest liquors for the cries, sexual healing, using body parts to disguise how I'm not able to function through darkness living inside, without a outlet, out left linger to my demise, the media be painting me criminal, the last shall be first so all this is hatred is spiritual, the last felt a curse that put a price on my physical, America and unity for black men cynical, the man in me un-amended, No wonder my home prison, who can I run to? 'Xscaping' this heart I’m sitting with all brittle, can we cry sometime, history say it ain’t safe, I’ll do anything to make this pain go away...

Chorus:
Real men have to cry sometime too (REPEAT 3x) Oh didn’t I didnt I didn’t I...yeah

Rita J Verse 3:
How can you help your brother who just get it from his mother seen with lover after lover hopes and dreams smothered daddy never home void feeling so alone droid versus apple phones boy get in where you fit in toy forbidden crimes for joy high druggie till I die yeah speak it it will come by that’s real law abide by your words will be your drive by death culture outcry fans and fam don’t know why you left so soon goodbye supply them mental health checks therapy and outlets poverty the upset lottery’s your best bet born into slave debts freedom cuz your worth nets breathing get your needs met they thieving plant yo seeds let the pressures and the stressors got weapons in your dresser drawer love yourself a little mo let it out hug your bro seek some help you never know the power unconditional remember be intentional save a life halo glow.

Chorus:




Real men have to cry sometime too (REPEAT 3x) Oh didn’t I didn't I didn’t I...yeah
Found tears on your pillow-tip belong to me...what’ll I do...grabbed you and hugged you and said, real men have to cry sometime too....

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Grown Men Cry" by J. Paul Jr And The Zydeco Nubreeds delve into the complexities and struggles faced by men when it comes to expressing their emotions and vulnerabilities. In the first verse by Rita J, the lyrics touch upon the societal expectations and stereotypes surrounding masculinity. The lines "Do real men cry, have feelings kinda shy" highlight the common notion that men should suppress their emotions and maintain a tough exterior. The verse further addresses themes of oppression, historical trauma, and the struggle for equality, painting a stark picture of the challenges faced by black men in particular. The references to being stifled, trapped, and facing injustices reflect a deep sense of pain and struggle experienced by the singer.


The chorus emphasizes the universal truth that all individuals, regardless of gender, ethnicity, or background, have moments of vulnerability and need to express their emotions. The repetition of "Real men have to cry sometime too" reinforces the message that it is okay for men to show their emotions and seek help when needed. The chorus serves as a powerful reminder to break free from societal norms that dictate how men should behave and to embrace their full range of emotions.


In Neak's verse, the lyrics delve deeper into the personal struggles and inner turmoil experienced by the singer. The pressure to conform to societal expectations, feelings of dehumanization, and the weight of historical injustices all weigh heavily on the individual. The lines convey a sense of longing for healing, self-acceptance, and a way to navigate through the darkness. The references to the media's portrayal of black men as criminals and the enduring legacy of systemic racism highlight the ongoing challenges faced by marginalized communities.


Rita J's third verse encapsulates a message of hope, resilience, and the importance of supporting and uplifting one another. The lyrics urge listeners to break free from cycles of trauma, seek help when needed, and cultivate self-love and empathy. The lines speak to the power of community, therapy, and self-expression in overcoming adversity and healing from past wounds. The chorus that follows reiterates the central theme of the song, emphasizing the necessity for all individuals, including men, to embrace their emotions, seek support, and recognize the strength in vulnerability. "Grown Men Cry" serves as a poignant and thought-provoking commentary on masculinity, mental health, and the journey towards healing and self-acceptance.




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