You Never Leave
Jack Ingram Lyrics


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I don't know why you surprise me
You've said it all before
How you've sold yourself short
And you deserve more

But you never leave
You wake up in the morning
You've slept another one off
You say, â??I'm sorry I just got lost
Feeling alone and out of touchâ??
But you'd never leave
You'd never leave
Now you see
That you still love me

And I'm sorry that when things get strange
You look at me to lay the blame
But I love you more than you think you know
So don't be surprised if I'm the one to go

â??Cause you'd never leave
You'd never leave
You're waiting on me
To set you free
You'd never leave

Now I dream at night I'm lying
Right there next to you
Now I dream if we keep trying
We'll pull through
But I wake up screaming
And no one's there
And I realize that you weren't so scared
To be the one walking out the door
And if I had been what you were looking for

You'd never leave
You'd never leave
If you were counting on me
To set you free
You'd never leave
You never leave
You set yourself free




I've got your memory
You never leave

Overall Meaning

In "You Never Leave," Jack Ingram sings about being in a tumultuous relationship where his partner consistently says that they deserve more but never leaves. The first verse highlights the partner's tendency to sell themselves short and how the singer has heard it all before. Despite this, the partner never leaves. The second verse shows the aftermath of one of their typical nights where the partner has slept in and apologizes for feeling out of touch. The chorus repeats several times, emphasizing the point that the partner would never leave, regardless of what happens. The bridge displays the singer's frustration, he dreams of being with his partner, but he ends up waking up screaming, and he realizes that his partner was never as scared to leave as he thought. The final chorus reveals that if the partner was waiting for him to set them free, they would never leave, and he has the memory of them always present.


The song seems to reflect a codependent relationship, with the partner consistently expressing a desire for more self-worth but never taking action to improve their situation. It's also possible that the partner is struggling with addiction since they "sleep another one off" and feel "out of touch." The singer ultimately acknowledges that he cannot be responsible for his partner's actions, and if they were waiting for him to set them free, they would never leave. The song's melancholic tone emphasizes the sadness and desperation that can come from being in such a codependent situation.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know why you surprise me
I'm familiar with your situation and I shouldn't be surprised by your actions.


You've said it all before
You've expressed your feelings in the past.


How you've sold yourself short
You've underestimated yourself and your worth.


And you deserve more
You're worthy of better treatment and more respect.


But you never leave
You stay in this situation even though you're unhappy.


You wake up in the morning
A new day begins, but your situation hasn't changed.


You've slept another one off
You've used sleep as an escape from reality.


You say, 'I'm sorry I just got lost Feeling alone and out of touch'
You apologize for retreating into yourself when you feel isolated and disconnected.


But you'd never leave
Despite your struggles, you remain in this situation.


Now you see That you still love me
You realize that despite your difficulties, you still have feelings for me.


And I'm sorry that when things get strange You look at me to lay the blame
I'm sorry that when things go wrong, you blame me.


But I love you more than you think you know So don't be surprised if I'm the one to go
I care for you deeply, but I may have to leave this situation for my own well-being.


'Cause you'd never leave You'd never leave You're waiting on me To set you free You'd never leave
You're counting on me to make the decision to leave, because you're too afraid to do it yourself.


Now I dream at night I'm lying Right there next to you
I dream of being close to you again.


Now I dream if we keep trying We'll pull through
I dream that if we work together, we can overcome our difficulties.


But I wake up screaming And no one's there
I wake up upset because the reality of our situation hits me.


And I realize that you weren't so scared To be the one walking out the door
I realize that you weren't as afraid to leave as you claimed to be.


And if I had been what you were looking for You'd never leave
If I had fulfilled your needs and desires, you wouldn't feel the need to stay in this situation.


You'd never leave If you were counting on me To set you free You'd never leave
You're relying on me to make the decision to leave and free you from this situation.


You never leave You set yourself free I've got your memory You never leave
Even though you're physically gone, the memory of you remains and affects me.




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Written by: JACK INGRAM

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