The Becoming
Jackson Lyrics


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My parents named me Charles
But I envied the girls
I wondered what it'd be like to be one

Named after a King
They didn't suspect a thing
When my Dad found out that he had raised a Queen
Of course he didn't understand
cnd he thought that I was fooling around
You must never tell another soul that you feel like this

I'm becoming Wendy
With my high heels on and the spotlight in my eyes
You could be my biggest fan
Yeah you're damn right I'm the man
I can't wait to be Wendy again

The times that I got hit
cnd called a piece of shit
Well fuck you at least I know who I am

Crying in my dress
My make up all a mess
Don't apologise, the problem isn't yours

But it's still a big weight to bear
cnd it's not like I even care
Ready girls, the show's about to start

I'm becoming Wendy
With my head held high and the spotlight in my eyes
You could be my biggest fan
Yeah you're damn right I'm the man
I can't wait to be Wendy again

It's not just my Dad that thinks I'm a freak
Though I'm twice the man that he'll ever be
cn ironic shame
Let's not debate if it's wrong or right
Cause I'm only real under those lights
cnd the cheers and the roars, the rounds of applause
Ladies and Gentleman please raise a glass for Wendy

Please raise a glass for Wendy

You could be my biggest fan
Yeah you're damn right I'm the man
With my feathered wings above me
Nobody can hurt me




Pleased to meet you
Hi, my names Wendy

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Jackson's song "The Becoming" tell a powerful story of self-discovery, acceptance, and embracing one's true identity. The singer, named Charles by their parents, reveals an internal struggle with their gender identity, envying the girls and wondering what it would be like to be one.


The line "Named after a King, they didn't suspect a thing" suggests that the singer was assigned male at birth and given a traditionally masculine name. However, when the singer's father discovers their true identity as a queen, the lack of understanding and assumptions of fooling around are evident. The singer is advised never to share their true feelings with anyone.


The chorus "I'm becoming Wendy, with my high heels on and the spotlight in my eyes" represents the transformation and empowerment of the singer as they fully embrace their feminine identity. The reference to the spotlight and being a performer suggests that Wendy is not just a personal identity but also a stage persona.


The lyrics also touch on the hardships the singer faces, being hit and called derogatory names, but they assert their self-worth and refuse to apologize for who they are. The weight of societal expectations and judgments is acknowledged, but it doesn't deter the singer from embracing their true self. The phrase "Ready girls, the show's about to start" portrays a sense of confidence and determination, indicating that Wendy is ready to showcase her true self to the world.


The bridge confronts the broader societal stigma and judgment faced by the singer, with the mention of their father thinking they are a freak. The line "Though I'm twice the man that he'll ever be, an ironic shame" reveals a poignant play on words, highlighting the irony of society's perception. The singer recognizes that they are only truly themselves under the spotlight, receiving cheers and applause. They invite others to raise a glass for Wendy, signaling a celebration of their authentic self.


In the final lines, the singer expresses their confidence and introduces themselves as Wendy, inviting others to be their biggest fan. The mention of feathered wings represents a feeling of freedom and protection, suggesting that nobody can hurt them while in their true identity. The overall message is one of self-acceptance, resilience, and pride in living as Wendy.


Line by Line Meaning

My parents named me Charles
I was given the name Charles by my parents.


But I envied the girls
However, I felt a strong desire to be like the girls.


I wondered what it'd be like to be one
I often pondered about the experience of being a girl.


Named after a King
Being named after a King.


They didn't suspect a thing
They had no idea about my true feelings.


When my Dad found out that he had raised a Queen
When my Dad discovered that he had actually raised a Queen.


Of course he didn't understand
Unfortunately, he couldn't comprehend or grasp the situation.


cnd he thought that I was fooling around
He believed that I was just playing or joking.


You must never tell another soul that you feel like this
It is crucial to keep this secret and never share these feelings with anyone.


I'm becoming Wendy
I am transforming into Wendy.


With my high heels on and the spotlight in my eyes
Wearing high heels and being illuminated by the spotlight.


You could be my biggest fan
You have the potential to be my greatest supporter.


Yeah you're damn right I'm the man
I am confident and proud to be who I am.


I can't wait to be Wendy again
I am eagerly anticipating the opportunity to fully embrace my identity as Wendy once more.


The times that I got hit
The instances when I experienced physical harm.


cnd called a piece of shit
And being insulted by being referred to as worthless.


Well fuck you at least I know who I am
Defiantly expressing that despite the mistreatment, I have a clear sense of self.


Crying in my dress
Weeping while wearing my dress.


My make up all a mess
My makeup becoming disheveled and smudged.


Don't apologise, the problem isn't yours
There is no need for you to apologize, as the issue lies with society's perception and not with you.


But it's still a big weight to bear
However, it is still a significant burden to carry.


cnd it's not like I even care
And, contrary to what others may assume, it doesn't mean that I don't care.


Ready girls, the show's about to start
All the girls, be prepared, as the performance is about to commence.


It's not just my Dad that thinks I'm a freak
It's not solely my father who views me as abnormal or strange.


Though I'm twice the man that he'll ever be
However, I possess a greater strength and authenticity than he could ever comprehend.


cn ironic shame
It is an ironic situation that brings about feelings of shame.


Let's not debate if it's wrong or right
There is no need to engage in a discussion about the morality of this matter.


Cause I'm only real under those lights
Because my true self, Wendy, is only fully expressed when I am in the spotlight.


cnd the cheers and the roars, the rounds of applause
And the sound of applause and admiration from the audience.


Ladies and Gentleman please raise a glass for Wendy
Ladies and gentlemen, I kindly request you to toast and honor Wendy.


Please raise a glass for Wendy
I ask for a celebratory salute for Wendy.


You could be my biggest fan
You have the potential to be my greatest supporter.


Yeah you're damn right I'm the man
I am confident and proud to be who I am.


With my feathered wings above me
With my feathered wings spread out above me.


Nobody can hurt me
No one has the power to inflict harm upon me.


Pleased to meet you
I am delighted to make your acquaintance.


Hi, my names Wendy
Hello, my name is Wendy.




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Comments from YouTube:

trailerparkjackson

Well I’ll be damned. Been a minute since I heard this. Do you have this on an audio file you could email me?

Knifymoloko

@trailerparkjackson it's all good bro. You have a good day

trailerparkjackson

@Knifymoloko no clue, just kinda made it up. I can’t even play today

Knifymoloko

@trailerparkjackson good morning dude. A fellow youtuber asked what chords you used for this track?

Daniel Moody

@trailerparkjackson this Cover is absolutely amazing! I've had it on repeat since finding it a month ago! Sounds very uniquely yours whilst retaining the vibe of the original

trailerparkjackson

@Knifymoloko yeah that’s me. Seems like another life ago at this point. Got married and had some kids and lost my angsty muse. Email me your address and I’ll send you a cd. Thanks for the compliment btw. I think that stop motion video was the coolest thing I’ve ever done, creatively.

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Liz Samandasuk

It's the end of 2020. Been listening to the cover for an hour. This is some Johnny Cash material, the cover is a fucking poetry.

Thank you op for saving this song from oblivion

Knifymoloko

Thank you for enjoying :)

klatau barad

Trent Reznor might just be the best country music writer of all time.

evolzippo

I think this is ad good as when Jonny Cash’s cover of Hurt. I’m totally gonna check out your other videos.

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