Daddy Thing
Jaheim Lyrics
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The song "Daddy Thing" by Jaheim is a touching tribute to a man who stepped up to fill the role of a absent father. The opening verse asks who did the "daddy thing" when a father wasn't there, suggesting that someone had to step in to fill that void. The following verses describe Jaheim's own experience of stepping up to care for a child who wasn't biologically his, but whom he grew to love as his own. He acknowledges that he knew it couldn't last forever, and he should have seen the signs that the child's biological father would return and push him out of the picture. Despite this, he reflects on all the love and care he gave to this child when nobody else was there for her.
The song is bittersweet, highlighting the sacrifices and dedication of those who choose to take on the responsibility of being a father when there is no biological connection. It speaks to the importance of having positive male role models in a child's life, regardless of biology. The lyrics also touch on the difficulties that can arise when a biological parent returns to the picture, and the pain that can come with feeling pushed aside.
Line by Line Meaning
Who
Who stepped in as a father figure
Who did the daddy thing
Who took on the responsibilities of being a father
When a father wasn't there
When the biological father was absent
Now usually
Typically
If there's a car seat
When there is a car seat
Up in the back seat
Located in the back of a vehicle
Or a tiny shoe swinging from the rear view mirror
Or a small shoe hanging from the front mirror of the car
A ring on her hand
The woman he is involved with is married
I could never be her man
He knows that he can't be with her because she is already married
But we got so close
Despite their situation, they became emotionally attached
Blew all my dough in the Baby Gap school clothes
He spent all of his money on clothes for the child from a high-end baby store called Baby Gap
Pretty little angel in berets and bows
The baby girl had cute accessories in her hair
And a button nose
The baby girl had a small nose
After a while started calling me daddy
Over time, the baby girl began to refer to him as daddy
I should've known that it couldn't last
He regrets not realizing that their relationship had no future
Should've known that you'd take him right back
He should have realized that the woman he was involved with would go back to her husband
I should've took off running
He wishes he had left the situation earlier
When I first saw her coming
When he first met the woman he became involved with
Would have never gotten so attached
He wishes he had not gotten emotionally invested
When her father wasn't there to participate
When the child's biological father was absent from her life
He got hit with a bid upstate
He has been incarcerated
Won't you tell me
Can you please tell me
I gave her everything
He gave the child everything she needed
Nobody nobody but me
He was the only one who stepped in to take care of the child
Now normally
Usually
I would just hit and run
He typically did not stick around in relationships
But can't you see
Don't you understand
I'm about you and your little one
He wants to be involved in the life of the woman and her child
I took the jokes from all of my folks
He took criticism from his friends and family about his involvement with a married woman and her child
How I got caught up playing step daddy
He got caught up in the role of being a father figure
I got my income tax
He received money from his tax return
And said fuck it
He decided to do something impulsive
And traded in your bucket
He traded in her old car for a new one
Cause that coupe wasn't big enough
The old car was not a suitable size for a family
I wasn't trying to replace him
He did not want to replace the child's biological father
Now that he's back around
Now that the biological father is present
Guess you don't need me now
He feels that he is not needed anymore because the biological father is back in the picture
You don't need me anymore
He feels that he is no longer necessary in their lives
On her first day of school
On the child's very first day of school
Holidays from the very first steps she made
He was involved in her life from the beginning
When she needed love, trust, patience and truth
When the child needed emotional support and guidance
I want you to tell me
I need you to tell me
And you know I was the man
He knows that he fulfilled the role of a father figure
A shoulder to cry on
He was there for emotional support
Someone to talk to
He was someone the child could confide in
I won't you to tell me
I need you to tell me
Who did the daddy thing?
Who fulfilled the role of the child's father figure
When her father wasn't there
When the biological father was absent
Who did the daddy thing?
Who stepped up to take care of the child when the biological father was absent
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