Lost A Friend
James Lyrics


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My TV is staring at me
It says go to sleep
Go to sleep.
Turns me into a Siamese twin
Where do I start?
The TV screen begins
Plugs me into some holy geek
His point in life is incomplete
My TV is telling me
That only money can make me happy
Hold the course and then sail

Across the satellite beams
Across the oceans or seas
To the light house I can be
I see some soldiers with guns
And they are killing for fun
They are killing to entertain me

Caught between that world and this
I'd sell my soul for a bond girl's kiss
Caught between that world and this
I'd sell my soul for a state of bliss

My TV is telling me
That all the money
Goes into the military

Hold the course and then sail

Across the satellite beams
Across the oceans or seas
To the light house I can be
I see some soldiers with guns
And they are killing for fun
They are killing to entertain me
And then I heard your name
As the spaceman came
He came right through my screen
And then his lifeline broke
He began to choke
Jump cut to another scene





Lost a friend to the sea
I lost a friend to the sea

Overall Meaning

The first verse of "Lost A Friend" by James paints a vivid image of the pervasive and hypnotic nature of our technology, specifically television, in our lives. The TV is personified as it "stares" at James, commanding him to sleep. The metaphor of turning the singer into a "Siamese twin" with the TV is a powerful and haunting image of how we can become glued to technology and lose ourselves in it. The next lines describe how the screen "plugs" James into "some holy geek," which could represent the TV or perhaps a larger commentary on the power and influence of media and technology over our thoughts and actions. The line, "His point of life is incomplete," could suggest that technology may not offer us the fulfillment or purpose as a true human connection would. As this verse progresses, James's TV tells him that money is the path to happiness, a message often perpetuated in our consumerist society.


In the second verse, the singer begins to describe the bizarre and disturbing scenes he's witnessing on television. He sees soldiers killing for entertainment, revealing the disturbing effects of war as it becomes a tool to numb or entertain people on the other side of a screen. The chorus describes the singer's attempt to escape from these disturbing images and messages, both physically ("sailing across satellite beams, oceans or seas") and mentally. The haunting repetition of the soldiers killing for fun and to entertain the singer create a surreal and unsettling feeling.


Towards the end of the song, the singer hears a friend's name as a "spaceman" comes through his screen, only for the man's "lifeline" to break and for the scene to abruptly change. The final line, "Lost a friend to the sea," is a poignant and melancholy conclusion to the song. It is unclear if the friend's death is metaphorical or literal, but it reinforces the weight of the themes explored throughout "Lost A Friend" - the inescapable influence of technology and society's obsession with money and entertainment.


Line by Line Meaning

My TV is staring at me
The singer is personifying their television as it is constantly on and staring at them.


It says go to sleep
The television is trying to convince the singer to go to bed.


Go to sleep.
The television is urging the singer to rest.


Turns me into a Siamese twin
The TV has become so entwined with the artist’s life that it feels like a conjoined twin.


Where do I start?
The artist feels overwhelmed and unsure of where to begin with their issues.


The TV screen begins
The television is the starting point of the singer's problems.


Plugs me into some holy geek
The singer feels forced into connecting with people who are passionate about something they don't understand.


His point in life is incomplete
The person the artist is connected to appears to be lost in life and unsure of their purpose.


My TV is telling me
The TV is influencing the artist with its messages.


That only money can make me happy
The TV is espousing the message that money is the key to happiness and fulfilment.


Hold the course and then sail
The singer is encouraged to stick with their beliefs and to follow their passion.


Across the satellite beams
The artist is dreaming of a way to be free from their current situation and travel far away.


Across the oceans or seas
This adds to the idea that the singer is searching for a new beginning and a way to escape.


To the light house I can be
The lighthouse symbolizes a guiding light that can lead the singer out of their darkness.


I see some soldiers with guns
The singer is envisioning an image of soldiers with weapons.


And they are killing for fun
The artist believes that the soldiers are taking pleasure in killing.


They are killing to entertain me
The artist recognizes that the violence they see is being broadcasted to them for their own entertainment.


Caught between that world and this
The singer is torn between their own reality and the world they see on their television.


I'd sell my soul for a bond girl's kiss
The singer would trade anything for something as shallow and fleeting as a kiss from a famous person.


I'd sell my soul for a state of bliss
The artist is willing to do whatever it takes to achieve happiness.


That all the money
The artist is repeating the message that the TV has been telling them about money.


Goes into the military
The TV is informing the artist that a significant amount of money is being spent on the military.


And then I heard your name
The singer suddenly hears the name of someone important to them.


As the spaceman came
A spaceman appears on the screen of the television.


He came right through my screen
The singer is imagining the spaceman stepping out of the television and into their room.


And then his lifeline broke
The spaceman's lifeline is the only thing keeping him alive and it breaks.


He began to choke
The spaceman is struggling to breathe.


Jump cut to another scene
The artist has changed the channel or the TV has changed scenes automatically.


Lost a friend to the sea
The artist has lost a friend to something like death or betrayal.


I lost a friend to the sea
The singer is giving emphasis to their feeling of loss over their friend.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JAMES GLENNIE, LAWRENCE GOTT, TIMOTHY BOOTH

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carpog

I don't think James ever got enough credit for their politically astute lyrics. This song is a great example.

Pet Shop Boys Partnership

GORGEOUS, James.. you guys are ABSOLUTELY​ magnificent WHIPLASH was written, produced and played to perfection. I speak for many U.S Fans.. specifically in Atlanta, Georgia. We had the privilege of supporting​ you guys at the Roxy Atlanta. We were about 20 of the 50+ that rushed the stage and had a "Sit down" next to y'all ( a southern slang).….Come back and visit the warm ♥️ heart of the South, we'll all be there!!

Marcus Tillman

Saw them in Atl

Fraser Gemmell

I'd forgotten about this incredible song,, absolutely love it ❤

Stephen Deroski

James is such an excellent band

Gavin D

Their finest song.

kareen strathearn

best band in the world ,,thank you tim booth

original channel

Amazing sound texture

Ryan Edwards

Their best song. Hold the course and then sail.

A G

Great band

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