Save Yourself
James McMurtry Lyrics


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You couldn't get what you were after
After all was said and done
Amid the echoes of the screams and the laughter
Cracking the blinds to the noonday sun
Running out of room, tugging at the tether
Old desires on the closet shelf
You read between the lines until the lines ran
together
Somehow had to save yourself

chorus
'Cause it don't come back once it's gone
Now you wonder why you had to wait so long
Wasn't no sense being where you don't belong
Got to save yourself

Now your bad boy runs you ragged
But the nice guy bores you flat to tears
He sends you flowers and birthday cards
He tries so hard and he's out of here
'Cause it's all you can handle just to stay okay
You don't need nobody's pain
You've got no room for baggage
Passengers must now de-plane

chorus
'Cause it don't come back once it's gone
Now you wonder why you had to wait so long
Wasn't no sense being where you don't belong
Got to save yourself

Your new job keeps you busy
The old car runs alright
The hot wind off the concrete
Sometimes keeps you up at night
The lights go off in the building
And you're sitting there alone
'Cause the girls and boys you run with
Have all up and gone home
So you're sifting through the ashes
Getting way down dark and deep
You've got your life all figured out
But you still don't get much sleep

chorus
'Cause it don't come back once it's gone
Now you wonder why you had to wait so long




Wasn't no sense being where you don't belong
Got to save yourself

Overall Meaning

In James McMurtry's song "Save Yourself," the lyrics explore the concept of taking responsibility for and control of one's own life. The song speaks to a sense of feeling lost and out of place, trying to navigate through relationships and self-discovery. The opening verse conveys a sense of defeat, as the singer couldn't attain what they were after and are left with the echoes of the past. The lines "somehow had to save yourself" speak to the realization that one cannot rely on others to find fulfillment and inner peace. The chorus repeats the refrain "Got to save yourself" to emphasize this point.


The second verse highlights the singer's struggle with relationships, as they find themselves caught between a "bad boy" and a "nice guy." The latter is stable but unexciting, sending flowers and cards while the former is thrilling but draining. The lines "passengers must now de-plane" suggest the singer is shedding the people and problems that don't serve them. The final verse brings the song's focus back to the singer's internal struggles, as they sift through their feelings and try to get a handle on their life. The line "you've got your life all figured out but you still don't get much sleep" implies there is still work to be done to find peace.


Overall, "Save Yourself" is a poignant reminder that true fulfillment comes from within and that one must take responsibility for their own wellbeing. It speaks to the universal human desire for control and self-determination, and the struggle to find oneself amidst societal expectations and personal relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

You couldn't get what you were after
You were not able to achieve what you wanted


After all was said and done
Even after everything that happened


Amid the echoes of the screams and the laughter
In the midst of the resounding cries and joy


Cracking the blinds to the noonday sun
Opening the blinds to let the sunlight in


Running out of room, tugging at the tether
Feeling restricted and desperate


Old desires on the closet shelf
Past wishes stored away


You read between the lines until the lines ran together
You tried to decipher something to the point of confusion


Somehow had to save yourself
You had to take control of your own life


Now your bad boy runs you ragged
Your reckless partner wears you out


But the nice guy bores you flat to tears
The considerate person is too dull for you


He sends you flowers and birthday cards
He tries to express his affection


He tries so hard and he's out of here
His attempts to win you over are unsuccessful


'Cause it's all you can handle just to stay okay
You are barely coping with your own problems


You don't need nobody's pain
You cannot handle someone else's suffering


You've got no room for baggage
There is no extra space for emotional baggage


Passengers must now de-plane
Unwanted people must depart from your life


Your new job keeps you busy
Your occupation takes up a lot of your time


The old car runs alright
Your vehicle is functioning acceptably


The hot wind off the concrete
The warm gusts from the pavement


Sometimes keeps you up at night
Occasionally makes it hard to fall asleep


The lights go off in the building
The building's lights turn off


And you're sitting there alone
You are by yourself


'Cause the girls and boys you run with
The people you associate with


Have all up and gone home
Have left and gone to their own homes


So you're sifting through the ashes
You are examining the remnants


Getting way down dark and deep
Feeling overwhelmed and sad


You've got your life all figured out
You think you know what you're doing with your life


But you still don't get much sleep
You still struggle to rest peacefully


Wasn't no sense being where you don't belong
There was no reason to be where you were unwelcome


Got to save yourself
You need to prioritize your well-being


'Cause it don't come back once it's gone
Opportunities cannot be regained once they have been lost


Now you wonder why you had to wait so long
You question why you had to endure for so much time




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JAMES MC MURTRY

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