People's Parties
Jeff Buckley Lyrics


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all the people at this party
they've got a lot of style
they've got stamps of many countries
they've got passport smiles
some are friendly
some are cutting
some are watching it from the wings
some are standing in the centre
giving to get something

photo beauty gets attention
then her eye paint's running down
she's got a rose in her teeth
and a lampshade crown
one minute she's so happy
then she's crying on someone's knee
saying laughing and crying
you know it's the same release

i told you when i met you
i was crazy
cry for us all beauty
cry for eddie in the corner
thinking he's nobody
and jack behind his joker
and stone-cold grace behind her fan
and me in my frightened silence
thinking i don't understand

i feel like i'm sleeping
can you wake me
you seem to have a broader sensibility
i'm just living on nerves and feelings
with a weak and a lazy mind
and coming to peoples parties
fumbling deaf dumb and blind

i wish i had more sense of humor
keeping the sadness at bay
throwing the lightness on these things
laughing it all away




laughing it all away
laughing it all away

Overall Meaning

In Jeff Buckley's song "People's Parties," he describes the eclectic mix of people at a party. While some are friendly, others are cutting or watching from the sidelines. The party-goers all have their unique styles, with stamps from different countries and passport smiles to boot. The photo beauty is the center of attention, with her eye paint running down and a rose in her teeth, wearing a lampshade crown. She's emotional, crying on someone's knee one minute and laughing the next. Buckley empathizes with the people at the party, particularly Eddie in the corner, who thinks he's a nobody, and Stone-cold Grace, who hides behind her fan.


Buckley then turns to himself, admitting that he's just fumbling through life with a weak and lazy mind. He wishes he had more of a sense of humor to keep the sadness at bay and laugh away his problems. The final lines of the song repeat the sentiment of laughter being the best medicine.


The song is a poignant commentary on the superficiality and complexity of human relationships. It's a reminder that, just like the people at the party, we're all struggling with our own issues and insecurities. However, it's also a hopeful message that we can find solace in laughter and shared experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

all the people at this party
The individuals gathered at this particular soiree


they've got a lot of style
These aforementioned persons possess a great deal of panache and aesthetic appeal


they've got stamps of many countries
This group of revelers contains members who have traveled extensively and have the corresponding markings in their passports


they've got passport smiles
Some of the people at this function are capable of leveraging the power of their smiles to circumvent obstacles, such as border security checkpoints


some are friendly
Certain individuals in attendance are amicable and approachable


some are cutting
Others have a more acerbic or sarcastic demeanor


some are watching it from the wings
A few of the guests are not actively participating in the festivities and are instead content to observe from a distance


some are standing in the centre
A number of partygoers have positioned themselves in the nucleus of the room


giving to get something
These central figures are engaged in a type of quid pro quo, exchanging social capital and favors for their own benefit


photo beauty gets attention
Individuals who are especially photogenic or attractive are receiving a lot of notice


then her eye paint's running down
Although one such person was initially captivating, her eye makeup is beginning to smudge and run


she's got a rose in her teeth
Despite this cosmetic issue, this woman still manages to put on a bold, ostentatious display, holding a rose firmly between her pearly whites


and a lampshade crown
Further enhancing her unusual appearance, she has adorned her head with a makeshift crown consisting of a lampshade


one minute she's so happy
This woman's emotional state appears to shift rapidly; at one moment she is gregarious and ebullient


then she's crying on someone's knee
However, shortly thereafter she breaks down in tears and seeks solace from one of her fellow revelers


saying laughing and crying
Despite these fluctuations in mood, she realizes that both forms of emotional expression serve the same purpose and release the same feelings


you know it's the same release
She communicates this idea to the person trying to console her


i told you when i met you
The singer addresses someone directly, referring to a past conversation they had


i was crazy
The singer admits that perhaps they exhibited some level of insanity when they first made each other's acquaintance


cry for us all beauty
The artist implores the aforementioned attractive person to shed tears on behalf of all those present


cry for eddie in the corner
The artist specifically singles out Eddie, who seems to feel isolated or unimportant


thinking he's nobody
The artist suspects that Eddie is experiencing some form of existential crisis or feelings of worthlessness


and jack behind his joker
The singer also points out Jack, who appears to be maintaining a jovial facade, perhaps to mask deeper issues


and stone-cold grace behind her fan
The artist identifies someone who is composed and graceful on the surface, but may be feeling vulnerable and exposed underneath


and me in my frightened silence
The singer himself admits to being terrified, but instead of expressing this fear, he keeps it bottled up


thinking i don't understand
The singer feels as though he is missing some key piece of information or insight that would enable him to comprehend the situation fully


i feel like i'm sleeping
The singer conveys a sense of disconnect or detachment from reality


can you wake me
The artist pleads with someone to bring him back to the present moment


you seem to have a broader sensibility
The artist recognizes that the person he is addressing has a more expansive worldview or understanding of things


i'm just living on nerves and feelings
The singer, in contrast, admits to being somewhat reactionary and ruled by his own emotional responses


with a weak and a lazy mind
He further insults himself, suggesting that he lacks the intellect or motivation to change this state of affairs


and coming to peoples parties
The artist admits that he still goes out and socializes with others despite feeling out of place or uncomfortable


fumbling deaf dumb and blind
He describes himself as clumsy and oblivious, failing to pick up on social cues or properly engage with others


i wish i had more sense of humor
The artist reveals that he recognizes his own deficiencies and wishes he could be more light-hearted and amusing


keeping the sadness at bay
He acknowledges that laughter can serve as a coping mechanism, distracting oneself from more painful emotions


throwing the lightness on these things
He further emphasizes the importance of humor in difficult situations


laughing it all away
The singer repeats this refrain several times, further underscoring the idea that laughter can be cathartic and transformative




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

MojoPin1983

@omi god “Go back and listen to Coltrane and Mingus, you ignorant, ageist twat.

“I know who he was. He's only famous because he's dead. Big deal. Everybody dies. He could neither sing nor play. His father wasn't much better. "Real musicians", indeed.”

Speaking of ignorance. Saying that Jeff is only famous because he is dead, is about the most disingenuous sentiment I can think of. When one is lauded by the likes of Jimmy Page, Robert Plant, David Bowie, U2, Elvis Costello, Paul McCartney, Neil Peart, etc. one ought not to be so readily dismissive.

You’ve got to be joking if you say that Jeff couldn’t sing or play. He was objectively an incredible singer and guitarist. Whether you like him, that is a different story; but to disregard his exceptional talent is a farce. The guy deserves all the accolades he receives. If anything, he isn’t even famous. Most people aren’t even aware that such a person ever existed. He died way too young and early on in his career to become a well-known artist; coupled with the fact that his music is unorthodox to ever gain wide appeal.

As for this song, it is easy to judge it as being poor, since the audio quality is awful. Have you listened to his Live at Sin-é (Legacy Edition) album?

With respect, can you name a single musician that can pull this off as well as Jeff; if at all? I think this is the most incredible live solo performance of any song ever captured on tape. It is difficult to fathom that a single human being was capable of this.

Jeff Buckley - The Way Young Lovers Do (Live at Sin-é, New York, NY - July/August 1993):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPrieDMB5Zs&app=desktop



All comments from YouTube:

Gauthier Delobelle

Jeff sings Joni
I thought it had never been recorded
Thank' you so much
Only for connoisseurs given the quality of the recording... 😉😊

jp

Wow! Absolutely agree with littlegreen2615, finding these recordings is like discovering treasure! It's like, Jeff has been gone so long, yet I feel like I will always be finding new things from him! Amazing.

gmfyes

Jeff Buckley singing Joni Mitchell. Yes!

Anna Gray

So grateful for these bootlegs,, this is a beautiful lil song

frodo latado

what a beautiful voice

Zoe J

I would’ve loved to hear an HQ version of this 💔

David Maholchic

How wonderful is this!

The Aquarelians

Wonderful. My two favourite artists. Perfect.

Nik Nova

Great version

katherinaJee55

he is the best..... ♫ ♥

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