Side B
Jessica & MY Lyrics
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Instead I'm giving the B side a rewrite
You weren't less, you were more than a "sometimes"
Will I be holding out for life?
Gotten used to just me and the summer nights
But now I'm giving the B side another try
You weren't less, I guess more of my type
And you were always on my side
You made me laugh, but you held me back
Just when I thought I was free
You came to reel me back in your arms
I broke it off, but you picked me up
And I'm so used to the steady ground beneath my feet
And if it's not gonna be you, ah
Then who will I have to explain you to?
I didn't fall in love at the seaside
Instead I'm giving the B side a rewrite
You weren't less, you were more than a "sometimes"
Will I be holding out for life?
Gotten used to just me and the summer nights
But now I'm giving the B side another try
You weren't less, I guess more of my type
And you were always on my side
On my side, whoa
Went back and forth for way too long
I say I learned my lesson but if you said that you wanted me
Then I would be yours right now
Hell, I know you're cautious
And I don't even believe in fate
But four years down the road and we're still in the same place?
And if it's not gonna be me, then who does she have to be?
I didn't fall in love at the seaside
Instead I'm giving the B side a rewrite
You weren't less, you were more than a "sometimes"
Will I be holding out for life?
Gotten used to just me and the summer nights
But now I'm giving the B side another try
You weren't less, I guess more of my type
And you were always on my side
(You're the B side, mm)
The lyrics of this song, titled "Side B," delve into the complex emotions of a romantic relationship that has gone through ups and downs. The opening lines, "I didn't fall in love at the seaside, Instead I'm giving the B side a rewrite," suggest that the singer is reevaluating their feelings and perspective on the relationship. It implies that their initial experience of falling in love was not as idyllic as they had hoped.
The lyrics continue with the realization that the person they were involved with was not just a fleeting presence in their life, but someone who meant more than a "sometimes." This realization prompts them to question if they should hold onto this relationship for the long term. The mention of getting used to being alone and the summer nights indicates a period of self-reflection in which they were content being single, but now they are giving the relationship another chance.
The second verse reflects on the push and pull dynamics of the relationship. The singer acknowledges the moments of joy and laughter shared with their partner, but also admits that they held them back. Despite trying to break free from the relationship, they were drawn back into their partner's arms. The mention of being used to the steady ground beneath their feet signifies that they have become accustomed to stability and consistency, which contrasts with the unpredictable nature of their relationship.
The lyrics further explore the singer's uncertainty about the future. They question whether they should continue holding out hope for this relationship or if it's time to move on. The lines, "And if it's not gonna be you, then who will I have to explain you to?" reflect the difficulty of letting go and the fear of having to explain the depth of their connection to someone else.
In the final verse, the singer confesses to going back and forth in their thoughts and feelings about the relationship. They mention that even though they claim to have learned their lesson, if the other person expressed a desire to be together, they would immediately give in. There is a sense of frustration with the lack of progress or change in the relationship, as evidenced by the line, "But four years down the road and we're still in the same place?"
Overall, "Side B" explores the conflicting emotions and uncertainty that can arise in a romantic relationship. It delves into the struggle of deciding whether to hold onto a love that has its challenges or to let go and seek something different. The lyrics showcase the complexities of human emotions and the difficulty of navigating relationships.
Line by Line Meaning
I didn't fall in love at the seaside
I didn't expect to find love in a casual and carefree environment like the seaside.
Instead I'm giving the B side a rewrite
Instead, I'm reconsidering my previous perspective and giving the alternative side of the story a new narrative.
You weren't less, you were more than a 'sometimes'
You weren't just a casual fling, but someone who was consistently present in my life.
Will I be holding out for life?
Am I willing to wait indefinitely for a chance at everlasting love?
Gotten used to just me and the summer nights
I had become accustomed to spending time alone, enjoying the peacefulness of summer nights.
But now I'm giving the B side another try
But now I'm willing to explore the alternative perspective and give it another chance.
You weren't less, I guess more of my type
You weren't inferior, but rather someone who matched my preferences even better than expected.
And you were always on my side
You consistently supported me and stood by my side through ups and downs.
You made me laugh, but you held me back
You brought joy and laughter into my life, but at the same time, you hindered my personal growth.
Just when I thought I was free
Just when I believed I had escaped from the constraints of a relationship.
You came to reel me back in your arms
You appeared and pulled me back into your embrace, making it difficult for me to detach myself.
I broke it off, but you picked me up
I ended the relationship, but you were there to support and comfort me.
And I'm so used to the steady ground beneath my feet
I had become accustomed to stability and predictability in my life.
And if it's not gonna be you, ah
And if it's not going to be you who I end up with, oh
Then who will I have to explain you to?
Then who will I need to describe and rationalize my connection with you to?
Went back and forth for way too long
We engaged in a prolonged cycle of indecision and uncertainty.
I say I learned my lesson but if you said that you wanted me
I claim to have gained wisdom from the experience, but if you were to express your desire for me
Then I would be yours right now
Then I would willingly commit to a relationship with you at this very moment.
Hell, I know you're cautious
Even though I understand that you are careful and hesitant
And I don't even believe in fate
And I don't even have faith in the concept of destiny
But four years down the road and we're still in the same place?
But after four years have passed, we find ourselves in the same stagnant situation?
And if it's not gonna be me, then who does she have to be?
And if it's not going to be me who is in a relationship with you, then who else will she have to become to fit your ideal partner?
(You're the B side, mm)
(You represent the alternative side, the less popular aspect of our connection, mm)
Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Johanna Dobroschke
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